Development and the original intention of development

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I've chatted with netizens on 69.net many times, and been asked countless times how I "developed" my wife. I have to give a brief introduction. Before we were together, she was a virgin. She said she'd only had one relationship, and they broke up before she even held hands. Back then, she was extremely conservative, even rigid and traditional. She took sex very seriously. On the other hand, I was the complete opposite. I was open-minded, even unconventional. Before I met her, I read an article by someone I don't know, saying that men should sleep with at least 10 women before marriage to truly understand. Otherwise, they'd remain inexperienced. Thinking back to my years of following the rules in school without any real benefit, I figured I might as well indulge. So, I slept with my ninth woman, and that was the end of it. That's my wife now.
Married life hasn't been smooth sailing. Our styles and perspectives are completely incompatible. She's too conservative, I'm too open—two diametrically opposed extremes. Eventually, things started to feel increasingly mundane and boring. About five or six years into our marriage, our sex life became so strained that we were almost on the verge of divorce. After calming down and thinking it over, I realized my wife has been through thick and thin with me, and she truly loves me, even though she doesn't have a large bust, a big bottom, or long legs.
I didn't want to be a heartless person. So, I decided to change her. I helped her with fashion, makeup, and improving her overall demeanor… helping her build confidence. Other husbands would make their wives cover up completely, afraid of being looked at too closely. I encouraged her to dress stylishly, elegantly, and sexily. I told her that other men drooling over her proved she was attractive. She became more and more confident.
The first time my wife told me that I was a womanizer before marriage, while she only had me, I think she was trying to gain praise. But after thinking about it, I felt it wasn't fair. So, I said I'd give her a chance, and let her try dating nine men too. She firmly refused. She even said she was afraid I might frame her to break up with her. I still haven't asked her what she was thinking back then. Perhaps she thought I was joking, or that I was deliberately testing her chastity, or maybe she genuinely felt our relationship wasn't stable enough at the time and was afraid I'd bring up past grievances and break up with her.
Several years passed like this, and I gradually started bringing up the idea of her trying it out with other men more often. I frequently said things like, "Trying it out with only one man in your life will leave you with regrets, like eating only one dish in your life." Or, "Sex is just a normal thing, there's no need to take it too seriously." I would also have deep conversations about wanting her to become more open, more seductive, and to be on the same wavelength as me. If she became seductive, I wouldn't have to envy others anymore, and so on. I would also often suggest she try it out with other men when she was very engaged in sex. Like many 69 partners, initially I received rejections, even being called a pervert. But over time, my tone gradually softened. Because after hearing these things so often, she started to fantasize about it. And she felt that I wasn't testing her, but genuinely wanted her to try it.

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