Men become more sexually aroused in middle age

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Time often accumulates to a frightening number without us noticing. I'm four years older than my wife, and before we knew it, I was over forty.
Our relationship has only gotten better, because past conflicts have vanished after we opened our hearts and communicated thoroughly. After all, these minor disagreements weren't about fundamental issues, just the usual trivial matters common to middle-aged couples.
Our personalities are quite different. I'm a bit chauvinistic, while she's straightforward and decisive. When we were younger, I always wanted to be in control, while she had a more masculine side and wasn't always willing to compromise. However, perhaps for the sake of the family, she yielded earlier and was more accommodating than I was, which is why our family hasn't fallen apart over the past decade or so.
We're a typical couple where the husband is the breadwinner and the wife stays home. She's a devoted full-time mom, responsible for the household's logistics and the kids' studies. Of course, household chores and the kids' academic performance can occasionally make her lose her temper, which isn't surprising, given that there are far more unruly kids than bears in a zoo.
To sum it up, we're a very ordinary couple with an ordinary family, but the only thing that might set us apart from most couples is our sex life. How so? Well, that's a long story…
a few years ago, I forget the exact time, it started after a fight we had and made up. Afterwards, of course, we had sex. After we parted, sweating profusely, she rested her head on my arm, and we chatted. We talked about the videos I'd seen before, featuring pornography and group sex. She asked me what I thought of them, and I said they were quite exciting. She asked, "What kind of excitement? Regular or very exciting?" I said, "What's the difference?" Why did she ask that? She smiled slightly and said, "I'm curious. How can a man allow other men to have sex with his wife without caring at all? Some men even lick other men's semen inside their wives' vaginas. Isn't that disgusting? Didn't you used to dislike me going out for tea or dinner with male classmates or friends? How come your tastes are so heavy now? Isn't this the last thing men want to see?"
Her question really stumped me. I couldn't help but wonder, when did my tastes change? I've enjoyed watching things inappropriate for children for a long time, and quite frequently. She knows this and hasn't objected, so I've never hidden it. My premarital history was rather promiscuous; I've been with dozens of women. I used to enjoy reading stories about infidelity, focusing more on harem novels where a man uses his charm and talent to captivate women from all walks of life. I don't seem to like seeing a man caught in the middle of other men's entanglements with his wife. Whether he's powerless or proactive, it just doesn't feel right to me. A man must be in control; how can he allow other women to flutter around his wife or sense her romantic feelings?
So why do I now find cuckoldry stories exciting, even feeling a kind of urge to try it myself? Does this mean I don't love my wife anymore? That's not true. Although our arguments are often cold and harsh, I've never truly wanted to separate. These past ten-plus years together have been far more happy than bumpy—that's without a doubt. Has my wife's body lost its appeal to me? My wife's figure isn't perfect, but it's not too bad either. Her big buttocks and full vulva are my favorite parts. Although her breasts are small, and her nipples are dark and large, not as sexy and full as other women's, I find the texture of her large nipples very good when I suck on them, much more stimulating than those small ones. She had a C-section, so her vagina isn't very loose; it's warm and moist, enveloping my penis. While not as tightly gripping as a small hand, it's still narrow and tight. So, she's still very alluring to me.
If neither of these is a problem, then where does my problem come from? Is it aesthetic fatigue? Or a deepening of desire? Or is my early male chauvinism gradually waning, leading me towards cuckoldry? I couldn't help but ask myself these existential questions!
Seeing me lost in thought, my wife didn't say anything more, just snuggled closer to me and then fell into a deep sleep… That night, I tossed and turned, unable to sleep, constantly pondering this question.
I had previously joined several couples' groups, sharing partial photos of my wife, and also uploaded some to a forum. The feedback from fellow enthusiasts has been quite positive. Every time I read their comments, whether they're subtle, explicit, or vulgar, they excite me. Some even send me their own screenshots. The stimulation is so intense; it's as if their lewd aura lingers in my wife's vagina. After seeing them, when I lick my wife's vagina, I feel like I'm scrubbing a pot for them—a feeling that's both humble and thrilling.
As I pondered this more deeply, I realized I now have a strong cuckold's mentality. I long for my usually demure wife to reveal another side of herself under the thrusting of another penis. That feeling might cause the hidden green bud within me to slowly bloom and weave a green hat. I wonder if all men have this dark side?
My wife doesn't really care about my preferences unless I selectively send her these comments and screenshots. She occasionally comments, not out of disgust, but without much positive reaction either. She's lukewarm, just reminding me not to send pictures showing her face or obvious background features. I don't really understand her true thoughts; I feel she's probably never intentionally fantasized about such scenarios. However, we are still very harmonious in our sex life. When we are together, watching porn and fantasizing is quite common, and I can usually satisfy her, except for the occasional time when she's not in the mood. However, I've clearly felt that as I've gotten older, my initiative in our sex life isn't as strong as it used to be. I can't deny it; I can't go on sex day and night like I used to when I was younger. But with my wife, we haven't been that wild
. I once had sex with an online friend many times, and the next day my penis felt swollen, but that was many years ago. However, my wife has a peculiar characteristic: she gets easily excited after drinking, and her behavior is quite different from usual. Once, when we were having sex after drinking, I asked her to livestream it in a group chat with me. Normally, this would be absolutely impossible when she's sober, but that day she was very excited. She even spread her legs in the video and asked the group members if anyone wanted to fuck her, saying, "If you want to fuck me, come on!" When I heard that, I almost ejaculated immediately. The group was in an uproar that day, and the number of people adding me as a friend exploded, keeping me busy. But when she sobered up the next day, she couldn't remember what she had said. Little did she know, I had secretly recorded it, and sometimes listening to it was quite exciting.
To be continued...

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