My thoughts and future plans after 10 years of 3P experiences

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When I first entered this circle, I was only 22 years old, fresh out of university. Full of youthful energy and nowhere to release it, I happened to watch a Korean movie called "Butterfly Club," and from then on, I was hooked. I registered on many domestic dating websites for couples, and gradually added many couples as friends, mostly between 30 and 35 years old. To be honest, my own conditions were rather average, and my genitals weren't particularly impressive. However, due to my honest and kind nature and good character, I was fortunate enough to gain the affection of several couples. Among them, two couples maintained a harmonious relationship for a period of time…

The first couple was from Chongqing. The husband and wife were around 32 years old. The husband worked in a remote area (I think it was Inner Mongolia or Tibet), and the wife was a teacher (her subject was English), which I only learned later. The husband wasn't tall and had a very refined and gentle appearance, but due to working in a remote area for long periods, he was also quite robust. We initially added each other on QQ, exchanged pleasantries, and then started discussing intimate topics about marriage. I was so young then, I genuinely believed that husbands who sought out single men were either seeking thrills or were simply impotent. But I was wrong. Behind the thrills lay the husband's selfless love for his wife… That man told me he lived away from home most of the year, only returning for half a month each year, and their sex life was pitifully infrequent. Later, he accidentally discovered a female masturbation device in the corner of his wife's closet. He felt terrible thinking about how a normal woman, needing her husband most during most of the year, was only satisfied by a cold, plastic tool. "To maintain a complete family," he said, "mutual love alone is far from enough. Sex is also a necessity, especially for couples in their 30s and 40s. I love her… I want to give her the greatest satisfaction, both emotionally and physically." I was truly moved by those words. This kind of love is selfless; he didn't treat his wife as his private property or an object to be manipulated at will, but as someone he would cherish, care for, and respect for his entire life. Even in matters of sex, he treated her with the same care and concern as for food, clothing, and shelter, fearing she might suffer the slightest grievance.

After a period of communication, about two months, the man surprisingly met with the couple without asking for any photos of me (I was quite surprised myself; normally, couples who add me on social media would ask for a recent photo of the single man and a picture of his genitals, which is a reasonable request). Initially, I thought it was definitely a scam, since honey traps are a real thing. However, driven by lust and based on my long-term assessment of their conversations, I still went to Chongqing. In a romantically decorated, dimly lit coffee shop, we met in person. As I said before, the husband was refined and robust, and the wife was beautiful and elegant, exuding the aura of an intellectual woman. We sat down and chatted about everything under the sun, from national affairs to trivial matters. The man was quite excited throughout, speaking loudly and showing great interest in everything. His wife, on the other hand, seemed reserved and spoke very little. Sometimes she would look down, swirling her coffee cup, and sometimes she would look up at her husband, but rarely at me. Two or three hours passed, and they said it was getting late and left. I thought this was just a meeting to confirm our feelings for each other, and we could discuss the rest later. It wasn't about going straight to bed; after all, she was his wife, the woman he loved most. But after they left, I went to pay the bill and was told that the husband had already paid (which surprised me, since we had agreed I would pay for everything). Just as I was about to take a taxi to the high-speed rail station to return to Chengdu, my text message alert sounded: {"Xiao X, have you arrived at the station? My wife has agreed and is waiting for you at the xx Hotel! I'll send you the room number later."} She then thoughtfully sent me the specific address... What followed was a natural progression (some readers might be disappointed by the lack of specific details, but those details are commonplace and not worth recounting; if you want to know, just refer to pornographic websites, which are full of details and even more exaggerated than real life). In short, it was a wonderful night. Our relationship lasted for less than two years. Because my husband was often away, we only had threesomes a handful of times, no more than four. The rest were just me and my sister-in-law. Except for the initial threesome, the rest were at my brother-in-law and sister-in-law's house (according to my brother-in-law, they trusted me, and it was safe there; my sister-in-law was very open, and he found it exciting). I was truly grateful to them for letting me experience the pleasure of marital intimacy and feel the genuine love a husband has for his wife. Later, because I fell in love, I didn't want to deal with this awkward relationship with a divided heart, so I proactively suggested to them that I end this wonderful relationship. After asking some questions, they understood and agreed. As agreed, we deleted each other's contact information. They were truly a wonderful couple. The husband was mature and generous, and the wife was beautiful, poised, gentle, and virtuous—a role model for many young couples. What I remember most vividly was the food my sister-in-law cooked; it was truly delicious, far superior to anything you'd find in a restaurant. So many years have passed; I wonder if that couple is still 69, and if they'll ever see this article I've written. I hope my brother doesn't have to travel all year and can spend his life with my sister-in-law. I sincerely wish them a happy and peaceful life. ...

Calming down... The second couple I met was from Wuhan. The process was largely the same as the first couple, except this man asked me a lot of questions at the beginning, including some photos of my daily life and weapons. After getting to know me for a while, his evaluation of me was: "He's alright, his speech and manners are quite proper but need more refinement, he seems sincere but needs to be verified in person, and his weapons aren't particularly large but they look very clean." Based on his objective, even rigid, evaluation and the logic in our conversation, I roughly concluded that this guy was probably a programmer or a math major. Sure enough, after meeting and getting to know each other, I learned that the man was a programmer and now a mid-level manager in a company (this company is currently facing a lot of controversy, I don't know how he's doing now). Because his family is relatively well-off, his wife is a full-time housewife. She's beautiful and dresses very fashionably. Unlike the previous wife, this one doesn't seem bookish but rather has a more worldly air, appearing bold and decisive. My brother told me he's usually very tired, often working late and frequently traveling by plane and high-speed rail. He's gained some weight and is experiencing some issues in bed. Although he's only 38 or 39 (6 or 7 years older than my sister-in-law), he only lasts less than 10 minutes each time. My sister-in-law doesn't complain, but when they're out shopping, she often says things like, "That young man is so handsome," "That guy is so strong," "That model has such a great figure," and "That guy playing guitar and singing at the school gate has such a nice voice and is handsome too." My brother knows a seed has sprouted deep in his sister-in-law's heart. He's a doting husband and fulfills any of his wife's requests. Besides, he has a bit of cuckoldry, so he slowly guided her to accept threesomes.

The rest of the process was the same. We chatted in a restaurant, but this time I took the initiative to book a room and invite them over. After they took off their clothes, I noticed my sister-in-law had a really good figure, especially her round, firm buttocks, the kind that would make any man's mouth water. After showering, I offered to give her a full-body spa treatment (I'm an amateur, but my technique was pretty good). I dare say no woman wouldn't be aroused after a spa treatment, no matter how indifferent she might be... Sure enough, when I pressed on her buttocks and genitals from behind, she started moaning and groaning, raising and swaying her beautiful, pert buttocks. (And then...) This relationship lasted for another six months. Because my brother was a leader, we could often find time for activities on weekends, but it was tough traveling all the way from Chengdu to Wuhan—it was exhausting! This became the catalyst for the end of their relationship. For our last outing, I took the train to Wuhan as usual. The couple had planned many new positions beforehand, and my sister-in-law had even bought herself a fantastic, revealing, and provocative lingerie set. However, I was really tired that day and didn't perform well. My brother, who had been hoping I'd be the main performer, quickly gave up. My sister-in-law tried her best not to show disappointment or let down, constantly comforting me. The next morning, she even drove me to the train station—so considerate and warm. Back in Chengdu, my brother messaged me two days later, saying that my sister-in-law was very disappointed that day because she had prepared for a long time and had high expectations, but it hadn't come to fruition. This huge disappointment made her complain to my brother for a long time. The screenshots of their conversation that my brother sent me showed that my sister-in-law was indeed very disappointed. About half a year later, my sister-in-law and brother called me in the middle of the night. I could hear them making love on the other end of the line, and my sister-in-law intermittently said she wanted me to come over again. Although I agreed at the time, I later apologized and told them I might not go anymore. Firstly, after that incident, I had a huge psychological burden; if I were to play a key role, I knew I wouldn't perform well, and I was afraid my sister-in-law would complain or show disdain and dissatisfaction, which would make me feel guilty and ashamed. Secondly, I'm going abroad to study, which will be for a long time, and I want to prepare my visa materials carefully. Some people say the US consulate in Chengdu has the highest rejection rate, and I really can't be careless! I also wanted to spend some quality time with my girlfriend; after all, she's the woman I love most. For these reasons, we peacefully ended our relationship. It was almost entirely my fault. I really feel bad that I made them spend so much time preparing for that last event, only to disappoint them so badly. I hope you can find a suitable replacement in the future…

Time flies. After those two wonderful 3P experiences, I spent two years at university in the United States, then worked there for a year and had a lovely child. Later, I returned to Chengdu. After all, no matter how good it is abroad, the feeling of not having roots makes one feel lost. For the next three years, I worked hard to help my wife and take care of the family. I love them very much and am willing to give everything for them. However, the wonderful feeling of 3P would occasionally pop into my mind, making me want to experience that pleasurable pleasure again. I tried to persuade my wife to participate, but to be honest, I'm not ready to throw myself into someone else's 3P activities again, grabbing someone else's wife's ass and thrusting hard. Honestly, I can't do it. I'm 30 years old now and don't have the same energy as before. Moreover, I would feel guilty towards my family. To put it bluntly, it's like wanting to be a prostitute while also wanting to maintain a virtuous image. Finally, I came up with a compromise: I would participate in the couples' three-person activities, but only as a spice to spice things up. For example, I might give the wife a full-body spa treatment, or even play some erotic games, like undressing her piece by piece in front of her husband and then 'playing' with her body to stimulate the husband's subsequent intense sexual activity, allowing them to experience thrills. Even if I were involved, I would only lightly poke around, not be the main sexual player.

The above is my personal experience and some insights from the past 10 years. Finally, I'd like to share my plans for couples looking for partners. Couples near Chengdu are welcome to contact me. However, please don't contact me if you're too young. It's not that I'm being pretentious, but you're still young. It's better to wait until your relationship has matured before participating in such exciting activities. Otherwise, it might cause unnecessary trouble later in life. After all, working hard now to build a foundation for the future is the most important thing. Please also don't contact me if you're too old. You've seen it all, and I, as a younger person, might seem ridiculous. I warmly welcome couples in Chengdu aged 30-40 to contact me. Even if we don't end up having a romantic relationship, it's still good to chat with someone of the same age, share stories, and find a like-minded friend. Thank you!

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