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A few days ago, a woman consulted me about these things. Her main questions were:

1. If she agreed to her husband's suggestion, would the three of them really be an unforgettable experience?

Answer: Not necessarily. Given her recent mood, stress, environment, inner pressure, and her husband's presence, she might not even feel anything and just do it without really understanding what happened.

2. If she did it, would her husband look down on her afterward? Or would he bring it up every time he thinks about it or during arguments?

Answer: Mostly not. This is her husband's choice, not something she did privately. If her husband looks down on her, he's insulting himself.

3. Her husband wants to arrange for his friend to join. Should they do this with acquaintances?

Answer: I personally don't recommend acquaintances, because if the news leaks, it'll be difficult to face others later. Of course, if it's truly reliable, it's not impossible. But I don't recommend arranging for so-called successful people. Because if they already look down on you two, it will only get worse.

4. My husband and I are both forty. What age of man would be suitable for us? Too young, and I'm afraid he'll look down on us. Too old, and I feel a bit disgusted.

A: I don't think this is about finding a partner. You and your husband are arranging this mainly for fun or excitement. If he's older, more experienced, and financially secure, you might not lose out. If he's younger and more virile, it might be exciting. Don't worry about being looked down upon; who will know who afterward?

Five, what about the environment?

A: I don't recommend going out at home. Although home is safe, there are endless potential problems. Ideally, it should be a hotel villa room, a resort, a guesthouse, etc. Actually, the best is a motorhome. If all else fails, an SUV will do. Just do it and leave.

Six, what do you think about going out alone?

A: I'm against going out alone. If this happens, and your husband makes an excuse to go out to buy some food and drinks to give you time, that's understandable. I once heard from a netizen that his wife went out on a date alone, but the other woman arranged for three men to meet her. When she refused, she was beaten up, and the three men took a lot of photos after they assaulted her. Think about it, what kind of situation is that? Your husband's presence is your guarantee of safety. Other men will disregard your feelings and assault you without restraint. Only your husband will cherish your feelings. Remember, this isn't dating, nor is it an affair. The other man already knows you're there for a threesome, so he won't respect you. Without a husband, it's highly dangerous.

Seven. The problem is, with a husband, I'm hesitant.

Answer: You must act under your husband's guidance. After spending time together, your husband will decide whether to give you time. Again, this isn't dating. It's a game!! The first time, it's not about being open or not, but about breaking through. Later, with more experience, adjust according to the situation.

Eight, what about the expenses?

Answer: If you and your spouse are with another couple, decide whether to share the cost or pay individually based on your mood. If it's a single man, the room fee, food, and drinks are generally his responsibility. After all, we don't owe him anything; why should you not pay for the room when your wife lets you have fun? Of course, this isn't absolute; if we're in a good mood, we can cover the cost.

Nine, in the room, facing a man, what should I do? It's so awkward!

Answer: There's no standard answer. My personal suggestion is, for example, in a standard room... First, take a shower, come out wrapped in a towel, and then let the single man shower. At this point, you and your husband undress and begin your activities. Your husband lies down, and you climb on top of him, facing away from the TV. When the single man comes out, he can directly see your buttocks, and since your face is towards your husband and your back is to him, you avoid embarrassment. Your husband gives the signal, and the single man penetrates you from behind. Frankly, once penetration occurs, there's less tension. If it still doesn't feel right, have the single man finish quickly and leave. The two of you can then continue your intimacy and reflect on your actions.

Ten, Should you have intercourse?

Answer: My personal opinion is that if you have an IUD, the single man should have a medical report to ensure safety, and then have intercourse without a condom. If there's no report, then a condom is necessary, but its effectiveness is greatly reduced. Also, if the other person has a disease, oral sex can transmit it. Therefore, if there's no medical report, then only penetration with a condom is allowed; absolutely no other activities should be done. And your husband should protect the other person and prevent them from secretly removing the condom. This can be done for the first time. However, the effect is very poor and it's not suitable for repeated attempts. Most people prefer to stick with one or two people for long-term collaboration, as this yields the best results. Note that familiarity does not guarantee physical safety.

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