I. Reflections on the Yin Wife Complex

page views:1 Publication date:2023-03-14

Most people who enter this circle have some degree of "wife-obsessed" tendencies. I'm not an expert on the origins of this tendency, so I won't comment, but I'll share my own perspective. In my opinion, the wife-obsessed tendency stems from the deep-seated human desire to show off and compete. People with this tendency usually have wives who are at least reasonably attractive, and these couples generally have good relationships, with the husband deeply loving his wife. Because of love, because of liking, and because they think their wives are beautiful, they develop a desire to show off, hoping to display their wives to other men and gain psychological satisfaction. This is similar to when you were a child and had a favorite toy, so you always wanted to show it off to other children; this showing off is based on your own extreme liking for that toy.

Dear readers, imagine if your wife was fat and unattractive, and you had no feelings for her at all—would you still want to play this game with her? Imagine when you're talking to others and they compliment your partner's figure, beauty, and particularly sexy features—don't you feel excited and proud? This comes from the satisfaction of your desire to show off. Therefore, in my opinion, the "Yin Wife" mentality stems from a desire to show off. Because of deep love, there's cherishing; because of cherishing, there's treasuring; because of treasuring, there's showing off. This also explains why most people who play this game have very good relationships.

Secondly, it's usually the husband who initially
has this idea, then he trains his wife to agree. Of course, this is the most difficult step, and I don't want to say too much about it, as everyone has their own method. I want to talk about how to take the first step after both partners have agreed.

In my opinion, if both agree, the first step shouldn't be swapping, but rather a threesome! Why? Let me explain. Women are actually emotional creatures, taking relationships more seriously. It's difficult for them to completely separate sex and love like men do. If they have sex with someone, they'll feel some love or attraction. This is precisely why many women find it hard to take the first step. Traditional morality dictates that love is exclusive. As we've discussed regarding the "Yin Wife" mentality, couples who play this game generally have good relationships. In her heart, she only loves you. However, if she has sex with other men, she sees it as a betrayal of love, because in her heart, love and sex are one.

Okay, after your repeated "training," she finally reluctantly accepted the idea that love and sex can be separated. Then you felt you could let loose and play around, so you excitedly found a couple to play swapping. And that's it—many couples reach this point and there's no way forward. As mentioned before, women are emotional creatures; jealousy is their instinct. Although she was mentally prepared to be with other men after your "training," she wasn't mentally prepared for you to be with other women in front of her. So if you play swapping on your first try, it's destined to be unpleasant, or at least not enjoyable. Your wife's mind will definitely be on you and the other woman, concerned about what you're doing and your progress. If she's very jealous, she'll probably sulk on the spot. With her emotions out of control, how can she enjoy it? Then she'll develop a resistance, feeling the game isn't fun, or thinking that her husband invited her to play this game just to use it as an excuse to sleep with other women. If she wants to play the game again later, she probably won't be very interested. Conversely, if it's the first time playing a threesome, these problems are less likely. Once a woman has experienced this game and found enjoyment in it, it's easier to negotiate for her to play a swapping game again. It's recommended to find a professional spa therapist to experience it firsthand. Hopefully, this will be helpful for those who are new to this.

Remember, women are selfish; they'd rather be the one being "slept with" than have their husbands "slept with" someone else.

URL 1:https://www.sexlove5.com/htmlBlog/71885.html

URL 2:/Blog.aspx?id=71885&aspx=1

Last access time:

Previous Page : Reverse order ---- The third friend (written by my beloved wife)

Next Page : Nanchang Couples Dating