Why do some men get soft as soon as they wear a condom?

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01. Giving up immediately after wearing a condom – is it because it's not being worn correctly?
It's crucial to understand the importance of using condoms and not be obsessed with the thrill of unprotected sex.
Especially during intercourse with a non-partner, condoms not only achieve 98% contraceptive effectiveness but also block most germs, significantly reducing the chance of sexually transmitted infections.
Furthermore, some men complain about condoms frequently breaking, giving up immediately, failing to prevent pregnancy, or causing pain for the woman when wearing them. A large part of the reason for this is that they're not wearing the condom correctly!

① Wearing it inside out:
Some couples, perhaps out of shyness, prefer to have sex in the dark or with dim lighting. However, due to poor lighting (or perhaps impatience), they easily put the condom on backwards.
The front of the condom has plenty of lubricant and unfolds smoothly, while the back has less lubricant and unfolds more difficult.
If worn inside out, the dry side comes into contact with the woman's vagina, naturally causing pain due to increased friction during intercourse.
Note: If you accidentally put it on inside out, do not take it off and put it back on; replace it with a new one immediately, as any condom that has been worn will have been contaminated with bodily fluids!
② Not checking before use:
Everything has an expiration date, and condoms are
no exception! Before use, it is recommended to check the expiration date carefully. In addition, when storing, try to keep it in a cool, dry environment away from acids, alkalis, and oils.
If you put it in your belt or wallet, try not to tear the packaging, as this will affect the contraceptive effect.
③ Putting on without squeezing the reservoir tip:
Most condoms on the market have a reservoir tip (it is strongly recommended to buy condoms with a reservoir tip), which is the small protrusion at the front of the condom. Its function is to store the male's sperm.
However, the reservoir tip can retain air, so you need to gently squeeze it before use to remove the air and prevent it from breaking during use and causing leakage.
④ Choosing the wrong size
: As the saying goes, you should choose shoes that fit your feet. Otherwise, it's not good to blame the shoes for not fitting properly.
The same principle applies to condoms. It's best to choose the right size.
⑤ Condoms that are too tight are prone to tearing, and those that are too loose are prone to falling off .
It's recommended that men choose the right size based on their individual needs. If one doesn't fit, buy several and try them on; you'll eventually find the right one.
⑥ Unfold before use . Most condoms
are ring-shaped; simply unfold them gently downwards. Don't unfold them by hand beforehand, as this will create extra wrinkles and make them harder to put on .
⑦ Putting it on too early or too late
is not wrong. Putting on a condom requires a reasonable time. If you put it on before you're fully erect, it's prone to slipping and becoming soft, hurting a man's self-esteem.
However, if you put it on too late, some men try to fool naive women by saying, "I'll put it on when I'm about to ejaculate; the effect is about the same."
In reality, men's words are often deceiving!
During sex, pleasure is uncontrollable, and some sperm may rush off. If a condom isn't used, the contraceptive effect will be greatly reduced, increasing the chances of conception!
02. How to choose a condom?
Do many men and women generally believe that the thinner the condom, the better? NO NO NO!
The condoms on the market today come in all sorts of styles to attract consumers: ultra-thin, extra-thin, dotted, scented… you name it. But men, please note:

① Thinner condoms are not necessarily better
. The thinner the condom, the greater the chance of it breaking, thus increasing the risk of "accidents," such as pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections. Therefore, choose condoms according to your own needs, and don't blindly pursue the thinnest option.
Also, some dotted or scented condoms can easily cause allergic reactions, so it's advisable to try them with caution!
Furthermore, after ejaculation, be sure to remove the condom promptly. Leaving it inside for too long can cause it to slip off, leading to sperm leakage.
So, the question is, how should you choose a condom?
Condoms
that are too loose are prone to slipping off, while those that are too tight are prone to breaking, so choose the right size for you.
Condom sizes on the market are usually available in small, medium, and large (the specifications are on the back of the packaging).
Large: Diameter 35mm, nominal width 55±2mm;
Medium: Diameter 33mm, nominal width 52±2mm;
Small: Diameter 31mm, nominal width 49±2mm.
Given the varying shapes, head, and shaft thicknesses of men's penises, it's recommended to start with 52mm±2mm and then adjust the size based on usage.
If 52mm is too large, buy a smaller size; conversely, buy a larger size if it's too large.
However, most condoms available in domestic supermarkets and convenience stores are medium-sized, which is approximately 18cm-20cm when fully extended.
Condoms
come in a wide variety of shapes and characteristics, but can be broadly categorized into two types:
① Raised surfaces
: These are primarily for experienced users, enhancing pleasure and enjoyment. Dots, ribs, waves, and other textures increase the contact area and friction coefficient during intercourse, significantly increasing stimulation.
However, some complain that insufficient lubrication can lead to pain.
② Smooth-surfaced
condoms are the most common type (suitable for first-time users). They're simple and unpredictable; many manufacturers focus on thinness to boost sales.
Theoretically, thinner condoms offer a better feel (like not wearing anything at all), with 0.01mm-0.03mm being particularly popular.
However, thinner condoms also carry a higher risk; it's a matter of personal preference. Well-known
brands
like Durex, Okamoto, and Jissbon are generally reliable and of good quality.
However, lower-priced condoms from these major brands often offer a mediocre experience and aren't particularly cost-effective for high-end users. For the same experience, some smaller brands might offer significantly lower prices.
But it's advisable to avoid ridiculously cheap condoms—better safe than sorry!

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