How should we view the growing phenomenon of "***" (likely referring to sexual misconduct)?

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Sexual intercourse has existed since ancient times. In ancient times, it was called "Yi Nei," referring to two or more couples exchanging partners for sexual intercourse. This unusual sexual relationship has actually existed for a long time.
The *Zuo Zhuan* (Commentary of Zuo) records the story of Qing Feng and Lu Pu Bi exchanging partners, and the Qing dynasty writer Du Xiangyu's *Ye Sou Xian Tan* (Idle Talks of a Rustic) also recounts a story of brothers exchanging partners.
In the 1950s, this practice of a legally married couple having sexual relations with another person or several people simultaneously appeared in the United States. The
early Mormon Church in the United States practiced polygamy, which was illegal, and the members were driven to the edge of the Utah desert to survive. Even today, some members of this religion still engage in sexual intercourse with each other.
Such "sexual intercourse clubs" are widespread in Europe, America, Japan, Australia, and other countries, holding regular gatherings.
In France, nearly 27% of people have tried sexual intercourse.
On December 26, 2005, the Associated Press reported that after seven years of legal battles, sexual intercourse clubs in Canada were finally legalized on December 21.
It turns out that this phenomenon of "swapping" has existed since ancient times and in various countries; it's quite common.
Actually, the term "swapping" is unfair and even objectifies women. Why not "husband swapping" but "swapping"? It's as if men are the dominant force in heterosexual relationships, and women are merely dependent on men. A more accurate term would be "partner swapping."
My view is that as long as the parties involved in partner swapping reach this relationship voluntarily, there's no problem.
Some might consider this morally corrupt, but in my understanding, immoral behavior is when it harms others. Partner swapping is based on mutual consent and doesn't harm anyone else. How can it be considered immoral?
Some might also think it will have a very negative social impact. Regarding this, we can't judge something as immoral simply because its public disclosure causes negative social impact.
The reason is simple: if we used that standard, many normal things, when made public, would also have negative social impacts. For example, if a group of celebrity couples are photographed being intimate at home by paparazzi, does that mean their behavior is immoral?
Moreover, this is entirely a private matter; the two parties involved in partner swapping would certainly not do such a thing in public. Therefore, if it is exposed, it is only the person who exposed it who is violating their privacy.
I think this matter has nothing to do with morality; it is purely a matter of personal freedom. It's important to emphasize here that acceptance doesn't mean one would definitely do it oneself, but rather that when others do it, one doesn't look at them with strange eyes, but simply considers such behavior as normal as eating and sleeping. One certainly doesn't stand on moral high ground to morally judge others, deeming their behavior immoral.
In fact, partner swapping is similar to open marriage; many sociologists and sexologists believe that open marriage is the ultimate form of heterosexual relationships.
Many people cannot accept partner swapping simply because of the influence of their upbringing. In reality, partner swapping is not as terrible as they think. In France, more than a quarter of the population swaps partners, and it hasn't caused widespread chaos. Partner swapping clubs have even been legalized in Canada.
Chinese relationships have evolved from arranged marriages by parents and matchmakers in ancient times to free love after the founding of the People's Republic of China. Sexual attitudes have also changed dramatically. In the 1970s and 80s, even holding hands was considered immoral, but now many young men and women engage in casual sex at the drop of a hat. Women's clothing has also changed, from concealing their bodies to wearing shorts everywhere.
These changes reflect the evolving ideologies of each era, and our minds are gradually becoming more open.
The revealing clothing of many young people today would have been considered morally corrupt by people before the reform and opening up. The free love and premarital sex of today's young people
would have been considered not only morally corrupt but downright shameless by people in ancient times! But who would want to return to an era where dressing scantily was frowned upon, where people couldn't freely choose who they liked, or even where marriage was not a matter of personal choice?
While our actions might have been considered morally reprehensible by our ancestors, this doesn't diminish the better life we enjoy today. Without those moral constraints, everyone can wear what they want, choose who they marry, and enjoy greater freedom, allowing us to live more like human beings. Isn't this kind of life better?

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