wife swapping theory

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A famous "wife-swapping club" reopened but closed after only three days because it was too successful?
Acanthus, a Belgian wife-swapping club, announced that it will have to close again due to the huge success of its reopening last Friday.
Harelbeke, the largest wife-swapping club in Belgium and even the Benelux region, located 21 kilometers from the French border, reopened last Friday after being closed for five months due to the pandemic. The club stated that customers would not be required to maintain social distancing or wear masks during sexual activities.
In accordance with safety measures, visitors must make reservations and leave their contact information. Dancing is not permitted, and the club's restaurant operates in the same manner as other Belgian restaurants during the pandemic.
“Due to COVID-19 measures, we can only accommodate 125 customers,” said manager Gino Seynhaeve. “Normally, 400 people can enter the club. We process orders on Fridays and Saturdays, but many people are unaware of this.”
“Hundreds of people were barred from entering, and we had to stop them in the parking lot and send them home. Some tourists had driven all the way from France and the Netherlands, and it was terrible that we couldn’t let them in.”
According to Seynhaeve, the large number of rejections is damaging the club's reputation. He has now decided to close Acanthus again until visitor limits are lifted.
On Saturday, virologist Marc van Ranst responded on Twitter to a reporter's question about the club's opening, saying, "Dear journalists, the experts can't explain this, probably due to a lack of experience in this field."
("Dear reporter, perhaps due to a lack of experience in this area, the 'virus expert' is unable to comment on this matter." (Original title: Benelux's largest "wife-swapping club" closes after only three days of operation; what's the reason?)
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On ph, no matter what keywords you enter, it will never return a "no search results" page.
"If you dare to search, I dare to give it to you."
I was young and naive, but I've been wise for many years. I don't know when or who led me into the world of Ph, and from then on, a whole new world opened up for me.
He accidentally opened Pandora's box, and things spiraled out of control.
Xu Jinglei, a talented woman in the entertainment industry, once appeared on a Phoenix TV program called "Qiang Qiang San Ren Xing" to promote her new film, which was being shot abroad at the time.
However, while chatting with the host, they started talking about "wife-swapping clubs." They were stopped halfway through the conversation by the director next to them, who reminded them to be mindful of the "boundaries."
After the news was reported by the media, it sparked heated discussions among netizens and was widely reprinted by major media outlets!
Wife swapping is a sensitive topic involving ethics and morality, and is considered a grave offense in China. Li Yinhe gained widespread attention for her work on this issue. As the name suggests, wife swapping involves multiple couples exchanging partners for sexual intercourse. Large-scale, organized wife swapping groups are known as wife swapping clubs.
Xu Jinglei not only knew that there were many wife-swapping clubs in Paris, but also knew that on a street near a bank (which was actually a gathering place for wife-swapping people), people would exchange partners and some would even have sex on the spot.
Old Xu also said that he felt there were such places everywhere, including among Chinese people, and explained in a serious tone that you could go to such places and do nothing, implying that you could go and see for yourself!
The male host described scenes of young men having sex with elderly women and elderly couples exchanging sexual partners, including an old man holding hands and stroking an old woman's silver hair. He described these scenes as "touching."
A study by Terri Conley, a PhD in Social Relations from the University of Michigan, found that 5% of Americans are in an "open relationship," with 16% of women and 31% of men saying they would be willing to try it. This number is slowly climbing.
It is nothing new for men and women to seek new sexual partners or even participate in "wife swapping" under the guise of "marriage".
As moral boundaries become increasingly blurred, and human desires take over, is the so-called "wife swapping" a sign of "openness" or "depravity"? What stories do the diverse individuals involved have to tell?
“We agreed to tell each other all the details…” Kate, a 31-year-old American housewife, has been involved in wife-swapping for six years. Now, Kate uses one word to describe her relationship with her husband: “very harmonious.”
In Kate's mind, maintaining an "open relationship" is not something shameful or disgraceful. She and her husband frequented wife-swapping clubs multiple times, and the visits did not affect their relationship; instead, they brought new excitement.
Kate said she and her husband created a detailed "checklist" outlining when and under what circumstances they could each seek sexual partners, and how to handle things afterward. This was also to ensure that their relationships with others were purely physical.
"We also agreed to share the details of our sex life with each other, which adds a lot of fun to our otherwise boring married life."
It's difficult to find precise statistics on how many couples in the US are currently in "open relationships." However, from scattered reports, we can see that "clubs" catering to this group are flourishing.
There are more than 500 "wife-swapping clubs" across the United States;
Some large wife-swapping clubs even book an entire hotel to host wife-swapping parties for up to 4,000 people.
This phenomenon is not limited to the United States.
In Japan, there is a popular activity called "married people's dating," which is basically wife swapping.
When one spouse in a marriage is unable to meet their physical or emotional needs, such people gather together and form a "social club".
Through social events, you can choose someone you like; they call them a "second partner."
At a social gathering, you can hug and kiss someone you like, but you can't go any further.
In Japan, kissing is not considered infidelity in divorce proceedings. This can help avoid suspicion of extramarital affairs should a divorce dispute arise.
But here's the problem: they've already kissed, so how can the car just suddenly stop?
Note that the rules state that no further action is allowed during the social gathering, but they didn't say anything about not being allowed afterward. You can imagine what happens next.
Unwilling to divorce but unable to find the happiness expected in marriage with their spouses, these individuals have created a supplementary form of extramarital affairs—married couples' social gatherings. In fact, extramarital affairs have long been subtly infiltrated into Japanese culture.
You think only Japan is this eccentric?
Of course not. Humans are naturally inclined to seek novelty and tire of the old; human nature knows no borders. It's just that some people know how to control themselves, while others cannot.
In ancient my country, there was a phenomenon called "Yi Nei," which meant exchanging wives.
According to Yue Jun's "Ershilu" from the Qing Dynasty, there were two people, A and B, who were originally good friends.
One day, B returned home and caught A and his wife in bed together. A knew he was in the wrong, so he said on the spot that if B didn't investigate further, he would let B sleep with his wife.
Everyone knows that this kind of thing is extremely immoral. It's impossible to talk about it openly.
Therefore, when such things happened in ancient times, it was only between the two couples, known only to each other.
However, as it has developed in modern times, its scale has grown considerably, with the emergence of wife-swapping clubs, meaning it is no longer limited to the intimate pleasures of just two couples.
In Japan, married couples' social gatherings may involve participants cheating on their spouses. However, wife-swapping in my country is different; it is always consensual and involves both parties.
A simple online search will reveal traces of the "wife-swapping" incident and the clubs exposed.
When discussing the development of "wife swapping" into a club activity, one cannot help but mention the "Ma Yaohai wife swapping case" that occurred in 2009.
The case of Ma Yaohai organizing a wife-swapping group caused a sensation at the time and sparked heated discussions among netizens.
Ironically, Ma Yaohai is an associate professor at a university in Nanjing, a highly educated intellectual. It's hard to imagine that a professor who teaches and nurtures students by day is the one who holds sway in a "wife-swapping club" by night.
Ma Yaohai, a party involved in the 2009 Nanjing wife-swapping case.
It is reported that Ma Yaohai has been single since his second divorce in 2002, but he has never lacked female confidantes. After being deeply influenced by the "wife swapping" trend that is popular overseas, he contacted partners who were interested in "wife swapping" by creating his own QQ group.
On August 17, 2009, the Qinhuai Branch of the Nanjing Public Security Bureau arrested five men and women who were participating in wife-swapping activities in a hotel room, and subsequently implicated 17 more people.
Among the twenty-odd people involved were young housewives and retired university professors like Ma Yaohai. Ultimately, the court imposed a severe sentence on Ma Yaohai, sentencing him to three years and six months in prison.
Ma Yaohai was outraged by the verdict. He stated, "Maintaining an open relationship between spouses is a matter of personal freedom. Everyone has the right to choose their lifestyle, and it shouldn't be defined as a crime just because others disapprove."
Moreover, in his view, comparing "wife swapping" to fine wine, participating in wife swapping activities is much more noble than both spouses having affairs or secretly engaging in extramarital relationships.
His words suggest that this "wife-swapping activity" is based on a consensus between the couple and represents a pursuit of openness and freedom.
Many people feel that this person, a teacher, deserved to be punished for committing such a morally reprehensible act. However, a few people spoke out in his defense, the most prominent being Li Yinhe.
Li Yinhe believes that partner-swapping is a sexual activity enjoyed by a very small minority, and it is a citizen's right and freedom that does not harm anyone. Furthermore, she argues that maintaining such an open relationship is reasonable when both spouses are aware and consent to it; only when one party is deliberately kept in the dark is this practice wrong.
The renowned sexologist Li Yinhe, whom some may not know, is the wife of Wang Xiaobo, a contemporary Chinese scholar and writer, and a woman with very progressive views on sex.
Li Yinhe categorizes sexual behavior into three situations:
The first type is criminal, such as rape;
The second type is those who make mistakes, such as having an affair.
The third type is reasonable, such as marital relations.
According to Li Yinhe, if the partners are unaware of the partner swapping, then it is wrong; but if the partners accept it and participate together, then it is reasonable.
Before the public sentencing in Ma Yaohai's case, she proposed abolishing the crime of group sexual misconduct. She pointed out that the crime of group sexual misconduct was seriously outdated.
It didn't harm anyone. Partner swapping is a sexual activity enjoyed by a very small minority of citizens.
Later, Phoenix.com conducted an online survey, which showed that 36.6% of netizens said they absolutely could not accept partner swapping.
In other words, 63.4% of netizens either accepted it or remained silent.
It is clear that in today's free era, people's attitudes toward sex are becoming more and more open.
Perhaps you know someone like this who's into "wife swapping," but you just don't know it.
Before the Ma Yaohai incident, there was another incident.
In 2006, the "wife-swapping policewoman" Su Jing was exposed. Su Jing and her husband jointly established a "wife-swapping" website. As soon as the incident came out, she was bombarded by netizens and was eventually dismissed.
Su Jing eventually agreed to an interview, stating that she and her husband did nothing wrong, but that wife-swapping, as a relatively progressive and open sexual concept, "can never be accepted by Chinese people."
Following policewoman Su Jing, it was revealed that Yu Wanli, an associate professor at Peking University, had also made comments about wife swapping.
At the time, Professor Yu Wanli had an ambiguous relationship with a female student from Singapore. The female student later revealed that she had no choice but to start a relationship with Yu Wanli and was invited by him to a wife-swapping club, where Yu Wanli seemed to be a regular.
Some time ago, a man surnamed Lin from Fuqing, Fuzhou, spent his days idly at home seeking pleasure and excitement. In just four months, he posted on a disreputable website to recruit people for "wife swapping," and the "wife swapping game" was staged in a room of a hot spring hotel.
On February 24, 2018, Lin and his wife Wang invited netizens online to a hotel room in Fujian for a group sex activity. During the activity, to satisfy their own desires, they even took photos with their mobile phones as souvenirs.
From then on, things spiraled out of control. A few months later, a netizen named He added Lin on WeChat through the contact information left on the website, and the group arranged to meet at a hotel to engage in wife-swapping sex.
It wasn't until September of last year, when Lin and his fellow netizens were arrested by the police and their "wife-swapping game" was convicted of group promiscuity, that the matter came to an end.
In China, the open relationship of "wife swapping" seems to be infiltrating life in a clandestine manner. However, because it easily crosses the line into the crime of "group sexual misconduct," it has not developed as "high-profile" or been widely accepted compared to Western countries such as the United States.
Whether in the relatively open United States or the relatively conservative China, whenever a "wife-swapping" incident is exposed, it is not difficult to find that most of those involved are middle-class couples.
"Wife swapping" is rarely seen among the poor struggling to make ends meet, and stories of the wealthy at the top also rarely appear. Instead, it is the middle class with a certain social status, stable income, and seemingly happy and harmonious families that most often appear in news reports about wife swapping.
When these people frequently engage in "wife-swapping" activities and use this relationship as a daily emotional outlet, is it a sign of social progress or a form of decadence?
As one netizen said, "I respect other people's choices, but I can't accept them myself."
But as long as the state does not abolish "group sex", these people who "swap wives" are testing the limits of the law.
We also have reason to believe that once some dark sides are unleashed, they may become irreversible and spiral out of control. This is because human nature is incredibly fragile and most vulnerable to challenge.

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