A Declaration from the Starting Point of Prostatitis—Correct Attitude

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It's been two and a half months since I first started experiencing symptoms, and since I was diagnosed with prostatitis at the hospital 10 days ago. These past 10 days have been particularly agonizing – mainly psychological.
Honestly, my symptoms so far aren't considered severe for this condition. Before treatment, I had experienced frequent urination, urgency, lower abdominal bloating, and radiating pain to my thighs. These were all intermittent, and while they certainly affected my daily life to some extent, they did have some impact. After seeing a doctor and taking medication, my current symptoms are mainly frequent urination, nighttime urination, and thigh discomfort, which are relatively mild. I feel that my condition is under control and improving.
Unfortunately, people are just too impatient. I have a terrible flaw: I have an extremely strong sense of self-esteem, to the point of being obsessive-compulsive. The more unhealthy I am, the worse I perform, the more I try to prove myself in various ways. This leads to me repeatedly doing things that I should stop doing in order to prove my ability. If I manage to perform well and calm down a bit, I start overthinking other things. If I perform poorly, it's a vicious cycle.
—Yes, that's right. Even when my body was giving me warning signs, I still masturbated and had sex. Today, I watched porn and masturbated twice, but it felt terrible. My penis barely got erect, and I ejaculated very quickly. Right now, the feeling I have is beyond regret: I know I'm sick, I need to rest and recuperate, but I kept trying to prove I was still capable. Now that I've proven I'm not, do I feel good?
If you're sick, get treatment; there's no arguing with yourself. You're not a superman; there's no need to be so hard on yourself. If you're not feeling well or healthy, you have to take it easy and rest to regain your strength. Ignoring objective laws will only make things worse. Haven't we learned enough lessons in this regard?
The doctor repeatedly told me not to put pressure on myself, that it could be cured with scientific treatment, and that as long as it was controlled, it wouldn't affect anything else. But who wouldn't be concerned about such a sensitive illness at such a young age? Unconsciously, I still put pressure on myself—a lot of pressure I wasn't even aware of. In the first few days after the diagnosis, I constantly felt the urge to urinate, going to the toilet more than ten times a day. I asked the doctor, and he said that since my attention was always focused on my lower body, how could he not have frequent urination? Suddenly, I felt relieved. Strangely enough, after leaving the hospital, the urge to urinate wasn't as strong. For the next two days, while the frequent urination wasn't completely gone, it was significantly better.
Psychological factors have a huge impact on the body, especially sexual function. I remember posting on a porn site before, when I had my first unsuccessful sexual experience, which left me with psychological trauma. I kept doubting whether I had erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation. The other porn users helped me, and I gradually relieved the psychological pressure and returned to normal. I realized that I am just an ordinary person and do not have those problems.
Now, it's important to understand this properly, a warning for both myself and my friends:
Prostatitis is preventable, treatable, and not something to be afraid of. Follow your doctor's advice and relax.
It's important to recognize that while it's an illness that needs treatment, it's not a terminal illness and is curable. Treat it like a severe cold and don't be afraid. With active treatment, it can be controlled and won't affect your sex life or fertility—on the other hand, reckless treatment can definitely have an impact. It's not that prostatitis directly affects sexual function, but the mental stress and pain it causes in severe cases can affect sexual function. If the inflammation spreads to other parts of the body, it may affect fertility.
It's also important to recognize that life is more than just sex. Sex is an important part of life, but it's not everything. Let's focus less on it; there are so many other positive things we need to do. We are men; we have many other responsibilities: career, family, parents, spouse, and children. We're no longer carefree 16-18 year olds who think about finding women all the time. Our lives are gradually taking shape, and we need to invest more energy in building our lives.
Finally, just a joke. I saw someone say that people who get prostatitis often have strong sexual function and libido, and I think there's some truth to that. My girlfriend secretly told me that she and her ex-boyfriend (22 years old, who supposedly only had sex with her) sometimes had sex once a week, sometimes once a month. I laughed to myself: with a libido like that, he'll never get prostatitis; his sex life is too restrained and regular, hahaha. Of course, I also learned my lesson. This time, my condition suddenly worsened because I had sex with my girlfriend every day for over a month, which triggered my prostatitis… So, everything in moderation!
Let us encourage each other. Declaration—

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