Is female ejaculation as difficult as everyone thinks?

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I'm not sure if the format is correct this time... I've posted twice already, and both times they went to the recycle bin. If it's wrong, I'll revise it and post it again... A preview function would be much better and would save the administrators a lot of trouble.
There's been a constant stream of discussions about how to make a woman orgasm. It doesn't seem as difficult as it appears; perhaps haste makes waste. Undeniably, many men see it as proof of their masculinity and hope to bring women to that blissful state, seeking methods everywhere. I'd like to share some of my thoughts on this while I'm in the mood.
I'm a guy with no experience in picking up girls. My wife and I were both virgins back then, and after six years, we've only ever had sex with each other.
A few years ago, I saw some women in videos who squirted, which seemed very novel to men. After all, it's not common for women to actually squirt, and things are valued for their rarity, so I hoped I could do it too. But my girlfriend isn't very interested in this kind of thing, and I haven't used any aids or devices. Apart from condoms and a bottle of lubricant, we haven't used any other sex-related products, let alone sex toys. At first, I thought it might just be a matter of individual constitution, and I couldn't force my girlfriend to be able to do it too.
From university until two or three years after graduation, we were basically together every day (we weren't together at night during university). We maintained a fairly regular sex life, but I'm probably a bit more virile, so we had sex about every other day, excluding her period and fertile window. Occasionally, I'd want to have sex two days in a row, but I guess my girlfriend wouldn't want that. However, as time went on, our sex life became more harmonious, and I could gradually see her getting more and more aroused, which gave me more motivation.
During this time, I occasionally looked at some sex toys, but I was always hesitant because of their potential impact on my sex life (I was worried about developing a dependency and becoming a mere supporting character...), so I didn't take any pictures. I figured I was still young and my sex life was pretty good, so I could worry about it later. Therefore, I didn't deliberately pursue any particular level of achievement, and just focused on doing my best during sex.
In the past, during sex, my girlfriend would mention needing to pee. I knew what that meant and told her, but I probably wasn't strong enough to make her ejaculate completely, so I didn't force her. Over the past six months, as my girlfriend's feelings have improved, she's gradually started experiencing squirting. In the last two or three months, it's not every time, but it happens once or twice a week. This is probably related to our stamina and our overall condition. At first, my girlfriend was quite embarrassed~(@^_^@).
My squirting wasn't as exaggerated as the actresses in the film, after all, those are top-tier. I've never done it myself. Usually, the distance I ejaculate is only 60-80 centimeters. I still need to keep practicing!
Therefore, I personally think that you shouldn't spend too much energy and effort finding methods, but rather focus on your partner's feelings during sex . It's like an overweight person desperately trying to lose weight, seeking medical advice and methods everywhere. But the most direct and effective method is a healthy diet, scientifically managed nutrition, and increased physical exercise. Pay attention to controlling the pace; don't go all the way at once. When she's comfortable, stop and relax, and at the same time, gently massage the base of the penis. This can help maintain an erection and increase girth, preventing flaccidity.
Don't expect to achieve it all at once; ejaculation is more likely to last if it's built on a compatible sex life. If you're prepared to work on this, allow yourself to abstain for a few days in between. This will make the woman's desire stronger, making it easier to achieve the desired effect.
I'm sure no one likes using condoms, including my girlfriend and me. We've rarely used condoms in the past six years, maybe two a month at most. Although we've had our worries, nothing has ever happened in the past six years, hehe. I'll write a post about it next time I have time. It's getting late.
By the way, now we should properly call her "wife," hehe. I hope all you guys can succeed and be happy with the person you love, and even more so, have a fulfilling sex life!
This is the first time I've written so much. I hope the moderator will approve it, so that these hardworking men can get some help from my words. If so, it will be worth it.

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