Our daughter was an "unplanned birth."

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My wife and I graduated in 1997 and have lived together ever since. Since we were starting from scratch in Beijing, we weren't planning on having children. When we first started having sex, we used condoms. Later, after gaining a lot of physiological knowledge from pornographic websites and other sex-related sites, which gave me strength and courage, I decided to stop using condoms and instead use the "absolute safe period" method, followed by withdrawal during the fertile and slightly fertile periods. Surprisingly, this method worked successfully and safely for over four years.
However, during a seemingly foolproof operation before National Day in 2001, a mishap occurred: two months later, the doctor's examination revealed that my wife was pregnant. In 2001, we had just bought a house, and although our finances were a bit tight, we were managing, so we decided to keep the baby.
Afterwards, my wife and I, aiming to learn from past lessons and improve our future married life, summarized the following points:
A: The safe period method of couples having sex is basically feasible and should be promoted more widely in the future. However, if life is stressful and work is very busy, the safe period will automatically be downgraded to the dangerous period (last time, my wife was away on a business trip for more than 10 days, and she was tired from work, so her safe period was disrupted, which led to her pregnancy).
B: I caused my life to end in disaster because of a few seconds of pleasure. The child is innocent. Even though the child was an "unplanned product" (a nickname my wife and I use), we should still take responsibility.
C: I cannot increase my wife's psychological burden in our married life (unplanned pregnancy) because of my selfishness (which is actually only 3-5 seconds of extreme pleasure).
Because of the lessons learned above, we never use condoms anymore, which saves us a lot of money on living expenses.
Friends, have you had a similar experience? Feel free to share. My wife and I graduated in 1997 and have lived together ever since. Since we were starting from scratch in Beijing, we weren't planning on having children. When we first started having sex, we used condoms. Later, after gaining a lot of physiological knowledge from pornographic websites and other sex-related sites, which gave me strength and courage, I decided to stop using condoms and instead use the "absolute safe period" method, followed by withdrawal during the fertile and slightly fertile periods. Surprisingly, this method worked successfully and safely for over four years.
However, during a seemingly foolproof operation before National Day in 2001, a mishap occurred: two months later, the doctor's examination revealed that my wife was pregnant. In 2001, we had just bought a house, and although our finances were a bit tight, we were managing, so we decided to keep the baby.
Afterwards, my wife and I, aiming to learn from past lessons and improve our future married life, summarized the following points:
A: The safe period method of couples having sex is basically feasible and should be promoted more widely in the future. However, if life is stressful and work is very busy, the safe period will automatically be downgraded to the dangerous period (last time, my wife was away on a business trip for more than 10 days, and she was tired from work, so her safe period was disrupted, which led to her pregnancy).
B: I caused my life to end in disaster because of a few seconds of pleasure. The child is innocent. Even though the child was an "unplanned product" (a nickname my wife and I use), we should still take responsibility.
C: I cannot increase my wife's psychological burden in our married life (unplanned pregnancy) because of my selfishness (which is actually only 3-5 seconds of extreme pleasure).
Because of the lessons learned above, we never use condoms anymore, which saves us a lot of money on living expenses.
Friends, have you had a similar experience? Feel free to share.

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