90% of women have strange thoughts in bed and most want to try bondage and SM.

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Now, in a survey of over 2,000 readers worldwide, we've discovered that women are waiting for us to teach them how to be wildly outrageous: over 90% of women expressed a strong desire, 70% felt an urge to try these bizarre ideas, and another 21.5% were incredibly excited by them, exclaiming, "How wonderful it would be if they asked me that in bed!" If it actually works, don't call it a "bizarre idea." Treat it as entertainment; it will make you more likely to experience pleasure. Throw all your doubts to the wind.
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　　　The most popular "weird thoughts" in bed: bondage, command, obedience, masochism
Don't be surprised by this acronym, B, D, S, and M, which stands for bondage, command, obedience, and masochism. Let's look at B and D, for bondage and command, which might be more fashionable than you think. "When they're bound, the intense sexual desire excites them, and many women find this very interesting," says Dr. Carol, a sexologist and successful sex toy shop owner. "Their rebellious spirit creates an impulse, and when they're bound and restrained, the real show begins."
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　　　The allure of bondage and lace is irresistible; the fashion world seems to have a penchant for SM.
First: While you're playfully teasing each other, cover her head with your hands to immobilize her. If she likes this, then you should consider how to take control of her further. Grab a tie, her long scarf, or a pair of stockings and gently tie her up. Keep tying her up, don't stop, and be sure to do it slowly.
Shouting can make things more exciting. "Whether you shout a lot is entirely up to you," says Emma Taylor, co-author of *The Nerve Guide to Sex*. "Being too conservative can lead to missed opportunities; learn to be a little 'rough'." It's a sex toy. If she laughs, laugh along with her. Let her keep moaning.
Then: Let's listen to the advice of Older, a sex researcher: "BDSM can be dangerous for those who have no experience in this area or are too enthusiastic about it. Be sure to learn about it beforehand to avoid hurting your partner." Before you start, you should instill the word "safety" in your mind so that you can control the time and boundaries when you are playing.
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　　Newly released photos of supermodels in lingerie showcase a series of hot and sexy SM-themed images.
Safety should be the guiding principle throughout the entire process.
“‘Rejection’ can be a crucial part of sexual fantasies and can ignite unimaginable passions, so you should incorporate the word ‘safety’ throughout the entire process,” says sex educator Wexman. If you haven’t tried all these risky games, you should be cautious.
Her story: “Everything felt so natural to us. My husband and I didn’t go out and buy handcuffs. But during one time, he said to me, ‘Come on, baby, don’t use your hands,’ and honestly, I found we were both performing at an extraordinary level. Then we would take turns doing this: he would grab the headboard, and I would continue doing what I was supposed to do, and then we would switch. I could feel that he was completely absorbed in it, and I simply couldn’t get him to stop. This is the kind of completely captivating sex we’ve always wanted.” -- Carrie, 26, social worker.
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Sex video
Don't get your hopes up too high. In our survey, only 15% of women record their bedroom activities, probably because they're afraid others will see. "They're curious about what they're like when they're passionate—that's their most authentic self," says Candida, author of *How to Tell Your Naked Man What to Do*. You can try to see if she's comfortable with sex recordings, but success isn't guaranteed. If she's nervous but cooperative, you should give her the tape immediately after you're done, or destroy it once the excitement has subsided. If you absolutely must keep it, lock it away and make sure it can't be copied.
The sexy experience of selfie DV
Her story: “My husband and I bought a digital camera for our trip to South America. He spent one night fiddling with it in the hotel, and after I finished showering, I was wringing out a towel while doing all sorts of silly, but sexy, poses. Later we watched some of it, and I was pleasantly surprised: it was so beautiful, and honestly, I felt all hot and bothered. So, we got an idea, and we spent one night using it to film us making love. The camera was amazing because it filmed from a distance, avoiding anything too erotic, yet still showing us how beautiful sex can be. I was heartbroken when we had to delete all the footage to make room for filming Inca temples in the following days.” -- Susan, 27, engineer.
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　　role play
Two people can switch between various roles, such as boss and secretary, teacher and student, cleaner and resident, but all of them must have a theme, such as one person being the vulnerable one, and the other showing him or her boundless tolerance and compassion. This is a powerful motivator that can even improve your health and the fun of your sexual relationship.
We treated each other like fools.
Her story: “When we first met at the bar, we laughed at each other, treating each other like fools. But then we suddenly remembered this carefully crafted scenario we'd planned, which could become a huge driving force in our sexual relationship, and we immediately prepared for what would be the most unforgettable sex scene of our lives. I've always liked to imagine myself as that kind of promiscuous woman standing on the street beckoning customers, but unfortunately, I met my husband when I was very young. This role-playing allowed me to show another side of myself, and now we do it like this every month.” —Juliet, 24, graduate student
sex toys
Sex toys—note that when you're not around, she might already be using something like a vibrator; that's what sex toys are. "Men are probably most worried about whether they'll be replaced, or that women will become addicted to them, and later, even if they want women to orgasm, they won't be able to," says Johnson, an experienced sex therapist.
I think it's everything to me.
Her story: "My boyfriend is amazing in bed, but my biggest worry is that we can't orgasm at the same time. I really want us to feel the excitement of orgasm simultaneously. When my boyfriend brought that vibrator that looked like a lipstick to me, I was really surprised, but we eventually found the feeling we wanted with it, and I think it's everything to me." -- Melissa, 32, Accountant
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　　The most handsome men women fantasize about in bed:
A woman confessed that every time she had sex with her husband, she imagined herself having sex with Leonardo DiCaprio. This fantasy excited her immensely, and her husband also found pleasure in her wild movements. She felt it didn't matter, since she couldn't possibly have an affair with Matt Damon... (The text then abruptly shifts to a completely unrelated topic about a woman's sexual activity during sex, seemingly from the movie *Titanic*.) R悦滥兄频牡蜕暗鼻埃峙屡嗣嵌家瓤趾蟮刈鲆换鼗ǔ樟耍?/P>
A perfectly measured form of exhibitionism
“The thrill of being the center of attention is definitely related to the focus of so many eyes,” Kun said. “For women, it’s a feeling of being the center of attention, of feeling incredibly attractive and sexy, even though they look really different from ordinary people.”
I almost gave up the struggle
Her story: “This is one of the hottest things I can think of. This guy asked me to have drinks with him on the rooftop of his apartment building. Then it happened, and soon my legs were wrapped tightly around his body. I’m a very shy person, but my exposed body almost made me give up struggling. In the end, I was a law-abiding citizen. And his vague, threatening tone was really exciting.” -- Rachel, 29, pathologist.

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