The Ultimate Guide to Couples Making Friends

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This tutorial is not my original work; it is merely reproduced from another source. It does not imply my endorsement or opposition to " couples dating , " and I assume no liability whatsoever for any consequences arising therefrom .
Preface: This tutorial is written by the author based on existing social phenomena and personal understanding, and is intended only as a theoretical reference for those preparing to participate in or already participating in " couple dating . " It does not imply the author's endorsement or opposition to " couple dating " behavior, and the author assumes no liability for any consequences arising therefrom .
I. Preliminary Preparations 1. Psychological Preparation: Under the existing social ethics, morality, and legal framework, " couples engaging in casual sex " is a relatively unconventional lifestyle that is difficult for the general public to accept. In certain circumstances, it may even be labeled as " group promiscuity , " thus meaning this behavior cannot be conducted openly and can only be done secretly. Therefore, those preparing to engage in " couples engaging in casual sex " must be fully prepared psychologically. Everything carries risks. Your actions may be discovered by your relatives, neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances. " Many voices can melt metal, and accumulated slander can destroy bones , " severely impacting your life, family, and career. Are you prepared to deal with these external influences? Your actions may also violate current laws. The " Nanjing associate professor's partner-swapping incident " is a prime example. Regardless of the controversy, as a citizen of this country, you must accept the relevant legal definitions and final interpretations. Are you sure you are prepared? 2. Information Preparation: If you are psychologically prepared, then you need to prepare the relevant information. " Couple dating " is not a simple social activity. Not every potential partner is suitable for you. You need to sift through a vast amount of information, both true and false, to find the right match. Don't be impulsive or act rashly. Spend time learning about the other person through various channels, gathering information that interests you, such as their health, occupation, income, personality, hobbies, etc. Only in this way can you find a suitable partner. Of course, things are relative; what you think is a good match for you might not be what they think you are a good match for. So, be patient and give it your time; you will eventually find a mutually suitable partner. 3. Material Preparation: Although couple dating is mostly conducted online, it eventually involves real-life contact, such as gatherings or trips. As we all know, these real-life contacts require a certain material foundation, which, simply put, means money: transportation, food, accommodation, and entertainment... This expense is naturally no problem for wealthy people; however, if you are a salaried worker, or even a student, and your finances are tight, you need to consider it carefully and prepare in advance to avoid unnecessary trouble and embarrassment. Secondly, during the meeting: After a period of communication and understanding, you finally begin real-life contact. The first meeting is very important. While appearance is secondary, even if you can't be pleasing to the eye, you certainly shouldn't intimidate them. More importantly, your speech is crucial. Communication is an art, and appropriate and generous language will never offend the other person; I won't go into specifics to avoid digressing. Many people trust their first impressions, so if you see the other person and have a brief conversation and find no connection, you can choose to end the gathering. Of course, if you're concerned about etiquette, you can invite them to dinner, or sit for a while in a teahouse or coffee shop, during which time you can subtly express your feelings, trying to avoid hurting their self-esteem. Conversely, if the other person isn't interested in you, you can decide whether to accept or decline their invitation to dinner or tea based on your mood and thoughts at the time. Say goodbye sincerely and leave them with a graceful exit. It's crucial not to bother them afterward; otherwise, you'll find your space in this circle shrinking, until you have no place at all! Once both parties are satisfied, it's natural to move on to more substantial contact. Choosing a safe meeting place is essential. Everyone knows that the higher the hotel's star rating, the safer it is. So, don't be stingy with your money; choose a high-star hotel or guesthouse! Some friends might say, wouldn't it be better and safer to go to someone's home? Here, I solemnly warn everyone: never hold a meeting at home! Think carefully about the implications ! Once inside, it might be a little awkward at first. Chat about topics you both find interesting, put on some country or blues music, open a bottle of French red wine or whiskey to lighten the mood and prevent it from becoming too dull. Gradually, the atmosphere will become more relaxed. Play some games, crack a few jokes, and let the ambiguity grow and spread in your smiles and glances! Don't prioritize satisfying your own desires; be more considerate of the other person's feelings. If both of you can do this, you can fully enjoy the pleasures of intimacy! Don't be stingy with your compliments; inappropriate words can directly affect the other person's mood. A point to note is the issue of recording images during the gathering. Many friends like to take photos or videos to record these beautiful moments. However, I must remind everyone that it's best not to capture faces directly or other easily identifiable features. Even if you trust the other person's character and believe they won't disclose these images without their consent. Storing images on a camera or camcorder is unsafe; what if they are stolen or discarded? Is uploading them to a computer hard drive safe? No, no one can guarantee your computer won't get a virus in your lifetime. What about uploading them to cyberspace? Even less safe; there are countless people who can crack internet passwords. Therefore, if you must record images, it's best to process them post-processed. Thirdly, the time spent together after separation is always so short. Everyone goes back to their own homes. The first thing the couple needs to do is have a heart-to-heart talk, openly discussing their feelings and experiences. The purpose of " couples' friendship " is to improve their relationship and strengthen their bond. If, after returning home, they remain immersed in the physical intimacy of the encounter and cannot extricate themselves, it's a failure . Of course, if you and your spouse were initially motivated by lust, that's a different story. After the couple has communicated, they can try to share their feelings about the gathering. If they didn't feel good about it, then don't bother each other anymore. Remember the saying, " Enjoyment for one night, end it at dawn ! " Even if the feeling is terrible, don't go around belittling your partner, privately leaking video footage, or infringing on their privacy! Character is paramount! If both of you feel good about it, then congratulations, you can continue your relationship long-term. But please remember, this is just a game, a game between husband and wife. Don't try to divert any of your marital affection from each other, not even a little. Even if the other person is someone you're attracted to, control your thoughts; because your feelings will directly affect your marital relationship and also your partner's family. Remember this!

sequence:
This tutorial is not my original work; it is merely reproduced from another source. It does not imply my endorsement or opposition to " couples dating , " and I assume no liability whatsoever for any consequences arising therefrom .
Preface: This tutorial is written by the author based on existing social phenomena and personal understanding, and is intended only as a theoretical reference for those preparing to participate in or already participating in " couple dating . " It does not imply the author's endorsement or opposition to " couple dating " behavior, and the author assumes no liability for any consequences arising therefrom .
I. Preliminary Preparations 1. Psychological Preparation: Under the existing social ethics, morality, and legal framework, " couples engaging in casual sex " is a relatively unconventional lifestyle that is difficult for the general public to accept. In certain circumstances, it may even be labeled as " group promiscuity , " thus meaning this behavior cannot be conducted openly and can only be done secretly. Therefore, those preparing to engage in " couples engaging in casual sex " must be fully prepared psychologically. Everything carries risks. Your actions may be discovered by your relatives, neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances. " Many voices can melt metal, and accumulated slander can destroy bones , " severely impacting your life, family, and career. Are you prepared to deal with these external influences? Your actions may also violate current laws. The " Nanjing associate professor's partner-swapping incident " is a prime example. Regardless of the controversy, as a citizen of this country, you must accept the relevant legal definitions and final interpretations. Are you sure you are prepared? 2. Information Preparation: If you are psychologically prepared, then you need to prepare the relevant information. " Couple dating " is not a simple social activity. Not every potential partner is suitable for you. You need to sift through a vast amount of information, both true and false, to find the right match. Don't be impulsive or act rashly. Spend time learning about the other person through various channels, gathering information that interests you, such as their health, occupation, income, personality, hobbies, etc. Only in this way can you find a suitable partner. Of course, things are relative; what you think is a good match for you might not be what they think you are a good match for. So, be patient and give it your time; you will eventually find a mutually suitable partner. 3. Material Preparation: Although couple dating is mostly conducted online, it eventually involves real-life contact, such as gatherings or trips. As we all know, these real-life contacts require a certain material foundation, which, simply put, means money: transportation, food, accommodation, and entertainment... This expense is naturally no problem for wealthy people; however, if you are a salaried worker, or even a student, and your finances are tight, you need to consider it carefully and prepare in advance to avoid unnecessary trouble and embarrassment. Secondly, during the meeting: After a period of communication and understanding, you finally begin real-life contact. The first meeting is very important. While appearance is secondary, even if you can't be pleasing to the eye, you certainly shouldn't intimidate them. More importantly, your speech is crucial. Communication is an art, and appropriate and generous language will never offend the other person; I won't go into specifics to avoid digressing. Many people trust their first impressions, so if you see the other person and have a brief conversation and find no connection, you can choose to end the gathering. Of course, if you're concerned about etiquette, you can invite them to dinner, or sit for a while in a teahouse or coffee shop, during which time you can subtly express your feelings, trying to avoid hurting their self-esteem. Conversely, if the other person isn't interested in you, you can decide whether to accept or decline their invitation to dinner or tea based on your mood and thoughts at the time. Say goodbye sincerely and leave them with a graceful exit. It's crucial not to bother them afterward; otherwise, you'll find your space in this circle shrinking, until you have no place at all! Once both parties are satisfied, it's natural to move on to more substantial contact. Choosing a safe meeting place is essential. Everyone knows that the higher the hotel's star rating, the safer it is. So, don't be stingy with your money; choose a high-star hotel or guesthouse! Some friends might say, wouldn't it be better and safer to go to someone's home? Here, I solemnly warn everyone: never hold a meeting at home! Think carefully about the implications ! Once inside, it might be a little awkward at first. Chat about topics you both find interesting, put on some country or blues music, open a bottle of French red wine or whiskey to lighten the mood and prevent it from becoming too dull. Gradually, the atmosphere will become more relaxed. Play some games, crack a few jokes, and let the ambiguity grow and spread in your smiles and glances! Don't prioritize satisfying your own desires; be more considerate of the other person's feelings. If both of you can do this, you can fully enjoy the pleasures of intimacy! Don't be stingy with your compliments; inappropriate words can directly affect the other person's mood. A point to note is the issue of recording images during the gathering. Many friends like to take photos or videos to record these beautiful moments. However, I must remind everyone that it's best not to capture faces directly or other easily identifiable features. Even if you trust the other person's character and believe they won't disclose these images without their consent. Storing images on a camera or camcorder is unsafe; what if they are stolen or discarded? Is uploading them to a computer hard drive safe? No, no one can guarantee your computer won't get a virus in your lifetime. What about uploading them to cyberspace? Even less safe; there are countless people who can crack internet passwords. Therefore, if you must record images, it's best to process them post-processed. Thirdly, the time spent together after separation is always so short. Everyone goes back to their own homes. The first thing the couple needs to do is have a heart-to-heart talk, openly discussing their feelings and experiences. The purpose of " couples' friendship " is to improve their relationship and strengthen their bond. If, after returning home, they remain immersed in the physical intimacy of the encounter and cannot extricate themselves, it's a failure . Of course, if you and your spouse were initially motivated by lust, that's a different story. After the couple has communicated, they can try to share their feelings about the gathering. If they didn't feel good about it, then don't bother each other anymore. Remember the saying, " Enjoyment for one night, end it at dawn ! " Even if the feeling is terrible, don't go around belittling your partner, privately leaking video footage, or infringing on their privacy! Character is paramount! If both of you feel good about it, then congratulations, you can continue your relationship long-term. But please remember, this is just a game, a game between husband and wife. Don't try to divert any of your marital affection from each other, not even a little. Even if the other person is someone you're attracted to, control your thoughts; because your feelings will directly affect your marital relationship and also your partner's family. Remember this!

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