Recording my first 3P experience

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At the time, I was in a group and had just been promoted to administrator. I needed to find resources, so I was just hanging out on various forums, leaving my QQ number or group number. I made a lot of friends with couples, and I treated each one seriously, without making any demands right away. Most of the couples who added me were from Hebei province, including Chengde, Baoding, and Shijiazhuang, and even some from as far away as Jiangsu, Zhejiang, and Guangdong. I chatted with each of them seriously and found that most of the conversations were with their husbands, who would then relay them to their wives to see how I was doing. Maybe I wasn't really interested in doing this at the time, or maybe I wanted to but hadn't made up my mind. I invited the couples who seemed interested to join the group.
Let me tell you about the couple I ended up with for a threesome. They were from Baoding. At first, we just chatted casually, talking about our sexual experiences and interesting or unusual ideas, which I also discussed with my husband. Then one day, he asked me if I was free this weekend, since his wife had agreed to it. I felt really excited and said yes, I could come over right now. Then we talked about my wife's figure and I wanted to see their photos. They said they wouldn't take pictures, but that their figures were definitely great (now I realize it was inappropriate to meet them without photos or videos; it was too hasty, and my wife was too reserved). Although they were both 40, they assured me many times that their figures were definitely good, and that they would give me money for travel expenses if I didn't. (The couple seemed nice, but their principle was that the single man would cover all expenses, which I didn't mind as long as I was happy.) We prepared our things and went. When we arrived, I was exhausted because they had rushed things, and I was also inexperienced and flustered. In the evening, we had dinner and went to karaoke together. During karaoke, I tried to touch my wife's legs a few times, but she wouldn't let me, which made me very upset. She seemed very reserved. Even at the short-stay apartment, she wouldn't let me have sex with her several times. We chatted for a long time, and then she said I was great, but she didn't want to have sex with me. She asked why I liked it, and said she didn't like it, but my husband did, so she went along with it. It was really frustrating. In the end, my older brother went first, and after a while, he agreed to have sex with me, but he wouldn't give me oral sex. I was sweating buckets when it was my turn. Because of the day's exhaustion and my sister-in-law's previous refusal, I almost became impotent, haha. But in the end, we had a lot of thrusting. It felt so good inside her; it felt like something was pressing against me. After that, I gave her oral sex. She really enjoys it. Her vagina is very delicate, but unfortunately, she wouldn't let me do it with the lights on. What a pity! I should have brought an eye mask; we hadn't communicated enough beforehand. During oral sex, she put two of my fingers inside her vagina and stirred them around, making her moan continuously. I've decided that no woman dislikes anything; they just have their inhibitions. As long as you make her feel good, you can do whatever you want. Since it was already 3 AM when we finished, and it was Monday, everyone had to go to work, so we all left early. My sister-in-law was still a little shy about getting up early, but she looked down and told me about the bus stop and how to get home, giving me a lot of advice. Thinking about it now still touches me deeply.
Let me share a few lessons learned.
First, get to know your partner well beforehand, ideally through video calls or photos, even if you don't show your face, to avoid awkwardness in person.
Second, communicate beforehand about the positions and activities your partner enjoys.
Third, prepare at least a week in advance; rushing things will hinder your performance. (I learned this the hard way!)
Fourth, discuss everything you can think of with your spouse beforehand, as many things are unpredictable, but we can minimize unnecessary misunderstandings.
Fifth, women might be a little shy when out with their husbands, which doesn't mean they don't want to; they're just used to not being proactive. Men need to be assertive, but not forceful or violent. You can be a bit of a rogue, but be a classy one. (Of course, this doesn't apply to women who are very outgoing.)
The first time is never very exciting, but it's thrilling and memorable. I didn't use any sex toys or dress my sister-in-law in sexy stockings or lingerie; it was just licking, kneading, and thrusting—the most basic actions. I sincerely wish you and your wife a happy and fulfilling sex life.

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