Recalling my first experience of making friends (plain language, a true account, without any fabrication)

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Recalling my first dating experience (plain language, a true account, no fabrication): I've been in the dating circle for a few years now, but I haven't participated much. Perhaps it's because I'm too focused on mutual feelings and character. During this time, I've had short-term and long-term relationships with a few couples. I'm sharing this to commemorate those times. I stumbled upon dating activities by chance. Initially, I thought it was just wishful thinking, then I was skeptical, and finally, I was convinced it was real. When I learned that these things were actually happening around me, I, who always like to try new things, decided to give it a shot. I registered on a dating forum (I think it was called fq8 at the time). I'm a rather lazy person, so I didn't actively contact anyone. I just posted a dating ad, briefly introduced myself, and waited. I thought that as a single man, I would be ignored for a long time, but to my surprise, on the fourth day after posting, someone added me on QQ, saying they wanted to date. After a brief chat, I learned that they were a couple, both teachers at a vocational school, older than me, in their 30s (I was 25 at the time, still in school), and it was also their first time trying dating. After chatting for a few days, I discovered that the other person was initiated by her husband. He said that after learning about couple dating, he had been trying to persuade his wife to try it, and it had gradually become a wish of his, something he always thought about. Now, his wife had finally agreed to give it a try. At the time, I really found it hard to understand why a husband would be so eager to share his wife with someone else (haha, now I'm starting to understand). We got along quite well and were both satisfied. We video chatted once; his wife sat on his lap, looking very shy. She wasn't particularly beautiful, but she had a good figure. As for the guy, he was just an ordinary person and didn't seem like someone passionate about couple dating. After chatting for about two weeks, one day, the guy sent me a QQ message inviting me to his house for dinner that weekend. I was quite surprised because I had seen other people's dating posts, and it seemed like they always went to hotels or similar places, rarely inviting someone to their home. I told the guy about my surprise, and he replied with a smiley face, saying he trusted me and that they were renting an apartment and wouldn't be staying there for long, so he wasn't worried. He gave me his address and told me to come over on Saturday afternoon, adding that we could have a couple of drinks. I'd been excited ever since he told me we were meeting, and by Saturday I was even nervous—haha, it was my first time! Before leaving that afternoon, I made sure to take a proper shower. My brother's house is directly accessible by subway. I arrived around 4 pm. My brother opened the door; just like in the video, he was wearing a short-sleeved shirt and looked quite energetic, but the house was small, one of those old-fashioned one-bedroom apartments. My sister-in-law stood in the middle of the room, wearing a small tank top. Her two large breasts immediately caught my eye, and I gave an awkward laugh, unsure what to say. My brother led me to the sofa, saying that her breasts had become this big after giving birth. My face turned bright red. My sister-in-law seemed nervous too. For a long time, it was mostly my brother talking, with me chiming in occasionally, while my sister-in-law didn't say much, only occasionally offering me a slice of watermelon. To be honest, the atmosphere was quite awkward. After about half an hour, my brother said, "Why don't you and your sister-in-law go buy some groceries? I'll prepare dinner at home." Thinking back, my brother was really kind of me, deliberately giving my sister-in-law and me a chance to be alone. We went out and went to the market together. I deliberately walked quite close to my sister-in-law, but she always kept her distance, which was still awkward. I tried to make small talk with her, asking what she was teaching at school, how her figure had improved, and how her legs looked better. He also asked me a few simple questions, which were actually things we had chatted about on QQ before. Haha, I was just making conversation. But this trick really worked. When we came back from grocery shopping, we weren't so awkward anymore. I have to say, my brother, even though it was his first time, did a great job, acting as a guide the whole time. He probably did a lot of research beforehand. Dinner was quite plentiful. I said on QQ that my sister-in-law cooked, but it turned out my brother did. We drank two bottles of beer and talked a lot about their school. They didn't ask me much about my health, but they did say I looked quite healthy. I could tell they wanted to make sure I wasn't sick, so I quickly talked to them about health, saying that I also valued that (we had actually discussed all of this on QQ). During the meal, my sister-in-law talked quite a bit, and finally the awkwardness subsided. After dinner, it was already past 7 pm, and it seemed like it was time to get down to business. I'll stop here for now and continue in a couple of days when I have time. My writing is really terrible; it's all just a stream of consciousness, sigh... I always failed composition class when I was a kid, so please bear with me. But the events described are entirely true. ^_^

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