A single man's experience with threesomes, written for those impatient and lacking in manners.

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As the internet continues to change people's thoughts and attitudes, the phenomenon of couples seeking single men for threesomes has become popular, with more and more people joining in. Many men have started focusing on computer screens advertising "couples seeking single men for threesomes," hoping to experience the unique thrill of this unusual activity. However, very few people have actually experienced "making love with their husbands and wives," for a simple reason: the number of couples who are open to threesomes is far less than the number of men seeking such opportunities. I've been following and participating in this since 2002, and I've had quite a few successful experiences. Let me share them with you.
Before you can participate in something, you need to understand it thoroughly. Some guys, after reading a few erotic novels about it, act like they have experience and start looking for couples to have threesomes with. Most of the guys in this group are like that. If you really want to participate, you need to spend more time understanding what the couples are looking for in a threesome with a single man, what kind of pleasure they're seeking, what role the single man plays in this game, and where he should be positioned...
Once you understand the game thoroughly and can easily master it, finding a couple to have a threesome with is just a matter of time.
In my opinion, playing this game involves three steps: first, finding; second, getting to know each other; and third, meeting. Finding means using the internet to find a couple who are open to a threesome; getting to know each other involves chatting and exchanging ideas after identifying a target; once you're familiar with each other and feel that you're ready to play together, you naturally meet.
Let's start with the first step. The purpose of this step is to find a couple who are genuinely interested in having sex and have a proper chat. Currently, there are many couples online advertising to find single men for threesomes, but few are truly committed to "having sex in one room with three people" as their ultimate goal and are actually working towards it. Some are just curious and want to learn more; some are husbands who contact their wives before the wives have even agreed; and some are single men who have been searching for a long time without finding a partner and are posing as couples-matchmakers out of a desire for revenge. There are many types, and I'm sure you've encountered just as many as I have.
Don't be discouraged, everyone. The widespread use of the internet has provided me with a great opportunity.
First, everyone needs a QQ account. This might seem obvious, even 8-year-olds have one these days. You should probably create a dedicated QQ account for this game. You also need to register an email address.
You can try searching for couples on QQ; I won't go into how, everyone knows how. However, the success rate is very low. If you only use this method, you'll likely have a full list of friends, but hardly any suitable matches.
There are many forum websites now, so try to visit as many as possible. On these websites, you can see posts from couples looking for single men, and you can add them by following their contact information. However, the chances of success are very small because they have so much attention; hundreds of people add them, so the chances of you getting noticed are slim. Also, many of these posts are created to boost their popularity and are not genuine. I've added people through such posts before, but many of the QQ numbers they left were rarely online, and some were fake.
You can post your search for a spouse here. It's important to remember to write your post as perfectly as possible. There are many posts like this, so if you want people to pay attention to yours, you need to put in some effort.
Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Find more websites like this and post your threads there frequently. If you feel a website is popular, post there often. If others are also posting, your post will be pushed to the back of the page, and even if it's good, it won't get much attention. Ideally, make sure your post is always on the first page. I've left my QQ and email address; you can just wait and see. This method saves time.
Busy people can focus on using this method. Good websites for this include "White-Collar" and "Couples Bar".
QQ groups have emerged in the last two or three years, providing us with many conveniences. There are now many QQ groups with this theme. The biggest advantage of QQ groups is that everyone can chat together. Joining multiple groups, each with 100 to 200 people, adds up to several hundred people in five groups. Finding a suitable partner is quite easy. A word of caution: creating groups is very easy now. Some groups, even those named as couples' dating groups, have little value. If you sense it's a bad group, leave immediately. Good couples' groups can help you easily find a suitable partner. Most of my couples have participated in threesomes.
I found them all in groups. The one I'm currently in is pretty good; the group owner runs two groups, one on the topic of ****** and the other on 3P. It seems they also regularly organize couples' gatherings within the group. The group owner's QQ number is 381199749.
You can ask around yourself. Finding a good group greatly increases your chances of success, because the group admin has already verified that most couples in the group are compatible.
One more thing to remind everyone: when choosing a location, it's best to find someone from a different city, but not too far away. After all, this is a cutting-edge game, and it's still underground in our country. Couples who want to play this generally won't choose someone from the same city for safety reasons. What if you bump into each other on the bus? I once heard from a couple who played this game with me that a single man they played with a year ago was assigned to the same company after graduating from university, which was very awkward. Also, the distance shouldn't be too great. I contacted a couple before, and we got along very well; the woman was very beautiful, but she lived abroad, and we still haven't met.
The first step is complete, now it's time for the second. Many people might think, "We've contacted each other, why bother with all the talking?" People who think like that will never find a couple for a threesome. While couples seeking a threesome are looking for unique pleasures, it's unlikely a husband would just offer his wife upfront. If you encounter something like that, be careful, it's 90% a trap!
Among the couples who engage in this activity, it's usually the husbands who are out looking for work, so you'll likely encounter them first. Since they want to let you have sex with their wives, they'll naturally assess your "quality" first before asking you to interact with their wives. "I'm over 180cm tall, my penis is 18cm, I'm incredibly handsome, and my sexual prowess is super strong." Many people like to boast about themselves, but I advise you not to say that. I won't say much more, but just one reminder: men have pride.
Generally, if someone genuinely wants to play this game, their husband will have gotten to know you to some extent and will encourage you to chat with his wife. If you find that you're always chatting with men, and the conversations are always about trivial topics, you should give up on this relationship.
Chatting with the other person's wife is the most crucial part of this game, directly impacting your success. First, be patient and approach it with the mindset of simply chatting with her. Don't immediately reveal the topic or send her videos. Although everyone understands the implications, don't bring up the idea of swapping right away. How and what to talk about is up to you; remember, your goal is to pique her interest and build trust. Once the conversation has progressed sufficiently, gradually steer the topic towards sex, eventually moving to a threesome. If she continues discussing this without changing the subject, you're close to success. At this point, suggest a video call, perhaps showing her your penis and engaging in some passionate sex. If she also shows you her private parts, you've essentially succeeded. This communication process may take some time. While communicating with the wife, don't forget about the husband's involvement; he will help you.
I have a few tried-and-true tricks in this area, but I can't write them down because if I do, single men will see them, and other couples will see them too. It's like a magic trick; once the veil is lifted beforehand, the trick stops working. Also, if too many people know about them, they won't work anymore. If we happen to meet, I can teach you.
Finally, let's talk about the third step. Once they're basically satisfied with you, the time to meet is right. For security reasons, the couple will usually come to your city, to avoid being seen in their usual place of residence. Don't think you've succeeded at this point; they can come and go as they please.
When you meet someone, dress in a way that makes you look mature and composed, and avoid wearing anything outlandish. A couple I met once told me that they had met a man before, and they got along very well, but when they met him, his hair was styled in an afro, and his clothes were strange. They felt he wasn't a good person, so they went home.
After meeting, things usually don't start with sex right away; there needs to be a real-life getting-to-know-each-other process. There are many ways to do this: have a meal, go shopping, etc. You can think of a good one. A word of advice: if you're going to have fun, don't be stingy; try to pay and make a good impression. Generally, the couples who want to have fun with you are older than you and won't expect you to pay for everything. The couples I've met have been quite sincere; I usually treat them, and they treat me in return. Once you've had enough fun and are familiar with each other, you'll naturally go out for more activities. Remember, you must pay for the hotel room.
I won't go into details about what to do once we're in the room; I think everyone has their own ideas about what's satisfying for both themselves and their partner. Here's a suggestion: when it's time to part ways, it's best to give the lady a gift. Don't let her get away with it for nothing; most importantly, it lays the groundwork for future interactions.
These are some insights I've gained based on my own experience. They may not all be correct, but I hope they can be helpful to everyone.

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