My Trip to Lijiang – An Encounter with the Lijiang Ambassador

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This trip to Lijiang was something Charles, Evan, and I had been planning for a year.
We decided to use the Spring Festival holiday to imitate the movie "Breakup Buddies" and embark on a journey westward. I'm
sure .
Actually, I visited Yunnan many years ago and stayed in Lijiang for a few days, but that time I was only focused on mountain climbing and
didn't really experience the slow-paced life of this ancient city, nor did I feel the unique charm of this highland city.
But deep down, I still cherish the scenery there. If I were to make a list of places I could stay in permanently
, Lijiang would definitely be in the top three.
Many people who visit Lijiang never want to leave! What is it about Lijiang that makes so many people flock there,
unable to tear themselves away? I think it's probably because of its unique scenery, its spring-like climate year-round, and its gentle, romantic
atmosphere , attracting many artistic young women and sophisticated ladies to Lijiang to relax and escape the mundane world. Lijiang is actually
a very interesting place. In conservative and civilized China, no other city can so
openly "Capital of Romantic Encounters." Every day in Lijiang, stories unfold,
most involving romantic encounters between men and women. Although Lijiang isn't very large, the stories that happen there every day
are no less numerous than elsewhere. Don't underestimate Lijiang! I recall a joke I saw a long time ago:
a Han Chinese friend would dress in ethnic clothing every night and play the hulusi (a type of flute) on the large stone bridge in Shuhe Ancient Town, Lijiang. After six months,
he had to be carried back to the mainland due to severe kidney failure. As a female friend who owns a bar there put it, Lijiang
is like a giant bar, a giant brothel in her eyes. Of course, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. In this
era of constant conflict, how many people truly take sex seriously?
In this "holy land of romantic encounters" in the hearts of men, how many wonderful
stories ?
Before going to Lijiang, we had already planned ahead, publicly stating that Lijiang was just
a stopover on our trip. Our goal wasn't to stay in Lijiang sunbathing and waiting for a romantic encounter, but to hike the classic
"Daocheng Yading" hiking trail. Having such a seemingly positive reason
made it much easier to answer girls' questions about why we were going to Lijiang. Beforehand, friends had told us that there were many "bar girls" (a derogatory term for women seeking sexual partners) and few "high-scoring" profiles on Momo (a dating app),
so we focused on street pick-ups, using Momo and Tantan as supplementary methods. After extensively gathering information, we would date
the girl who responded best, maximizing our success rate based on the law of large numbers. I told them, "Even though
one of you looks like Daniel Wu and the other like Takeshi Kaneshiro, if you only approach one girl a day, your success rate
won't be high. "
Day 1 – Encountering the Lijiang Ambassador:
Arriving in Lijiang on the afternoon of the first day, the three of us were quite excited. After a short rest, we basked in the sun at the guesthouse
and chatted with the owner. He was a seasoned local; seeing that the three of us men were dressed smartly and did
n't look like tourists at all, and each of us had our own room, he naturally understood, exchanging knowing glances. We
didn't try to hide anything and started talking to the owner about Lijiang's biggest attraction: "romantic encounters." We humbly sought advice from someone familiar with the area
to get more information. During our chat, a female friend (hereinafter referred to as Z) who had arrived in Lijiang earlier
came to find us at the guesthouse. That evening, we met up at "No. 5 Back Street," located on the bar street.
In the afternoon, we casually strolled around the old town, enjoying the scenery and showing Charles and
Evan the route from the guesthouse to the bar street. That evening, we went to a bar to familiarize ourselves with the place and experience
the Lijiang bar scene. As soon as the four of us entered the bar, we became the center of attention, because
none of us looked like typical tourists. After we found seats, I first asked Z to help us
find pretty girls (because the three of us were too conspicuous). She was to tell us if she spotted any, or
just bring them over. With such a high-performing female helper, why not let her assist us! Z was indeed very helpful;
after we went for a stroll, she took me out to point them out.
As I strolled around, pretending to come out of the restroom to head to my group chat, a pretty,
stylish girl approached me and said, "Hi, hello, I mean no harm (isn't that my
line ?). Well, my friend likes that handsome guy with glasses next to you (Charles),
could you introduce him to her?" (Isn't that my line too?)
Me: "You've really hurt my feelings." Her: "
Why?"
Me: "I thought you were talking to me because you wanted to get to know me!"
Her: "No, I'd like to get to know you too, haha, but I'm not that shameless." (Covering her mouth and chuckling)
Me: "Really? Let me see, you're pretty shameless after all." (While saying this, I lightly stroked her face with my hand
)
She didn't flinch, but her expression clearly turned cold. Okay, I get it. Maybe she was telling the truth. She
definitely wasn't trying to pick me up. Then I said to her, "Since your friend admires my buddy so much, even if he doesn't want to,
I'll drag him over for you. Don't worry, remember to buy me a drink." (If I don't drag him over, how will I have a chance?)
Returning to my seat, I noticed Charles wasn't there, so I asked Evan and Z
where Charles had gone. Just then, Charles returned with a girl.
After , I told Charles, "A high-scoring student just came over and told me her best friend wants to meet you
. Do you want to go up and see? If you don't want to go up, come with me for a bit later, I'll go meet them.
" Charles said it was no problem at all. While we were introducing ourselves to the girl Charles brought
and toasting her, the girl with the high score came back to our table and looked at us. I waved
for her to sit with us for a while, but she shook her head. So I went over to her and said, "
A friend of mine just arrived. I'll settle her in first. Where do you sit? I'll bring the handsome guy with glasses later."
The girl pointed to their seats, and I said, "Okay, I promised you, I'll definitely come later."
A few minutes later, Charles and I went to the two girls' seats. After introducing ourselves
, we learned that the girl I spoke to was called Nana, and her best friend was called Afei. They were both local Naxi
people from Lijiang. I said to her, "Wow, I thought you were from Xinjiang or mixed race. I didn't expect you to be a local. Looks like I
should flatter you and ask you about the local customs." Then I took out my phone to collect her...
When I asked for her phone number, she said a man had called her over forty times that day, and she got so angry she smashed
the phone . So she couldn't give it to me. Okay, whatever, whether she was telling the truth or not, at least I had a plausible excuse. Since
she didn't want to or couldn't give it to me, I didn't mind; I could just relax. From
then on, I went out of my way to cooperate with her, trying to set up Charles and Afei. Afei was definitely
the kind of girl who was easily embarrassed. I first led them in playing black and white and 2v2 dice games
to create a lively atmosphere. Later, I taught them a few new games. During the games, Charles and I
used some routines or improvisation, mainly joking and teasing them to make their first meeting
a cheerful experience.
A characteristic of bar games is that the types of games and the severity of the penalties need to be frequently changed. Changing the game
types is because even the most fun game will become boring after more than 20 rounds. In bars, I often see
newbies who, unsure what to talk about with girls, just keep playing dice. I have to go over and remind them to pay
attention to other forms of interaction or create a better atmosphere, instead of shaking their hands until they dislocate their joints trying to pick up a girl.
Teaching girls new games also provides a small form of value. Varying the severity of the game's punishment is another
form of novelty and a good opportunity to escalate the game, such as having two people drink from the same glass or
a shared drink . As the punishment increases later in the game, people are more likely to relax and
release their true emotions under the stimulation of alcohol and lights.
After about twenty minutes, it seemed everyone was getting along quite well. I told Nana that we should give
them some space to chat and get to know each other better. I leaned back, lit a cigarette,
and didn't look at her or say anything. I smiled at Charles and Afei. She agreed and
said to Charles and Afei, "You two play, I'm going to rest for a bit." She also leaned back in her booth without
saying a word . Actually, this was a silent test I deliberately conducted. I wanted to see if the girl was
interested in me. If she was, she would naturally provide new topics, and I wouldn't need to think about
how to interact.
Unfortunately, the girl didn't pass the silent test; she didn't provide any new topics. At this point, we
could only create a "momentum" or find a suitable opportunity.
As I finished my cigarette and was getting my drinks, I saw a DJ from the direction of the stage give us a thumbs-up. I
was sure Charles and I didn't know him. Although we were dressed provocatively, we didn't look like gay people.
So, I got it—the opportunity had arrived.
Me: Is this your friend?
Nana: Yes.
Me: Does this thumbs-up mean that this guy thinks you two are sitting next to two incredibly handsome men and
is looking at you with new respect?
Nana laughed and said: You're so narcissistic, you're so shameless.
Me: You can touch them and see whose skin is thicker.
Nana: To be honest, when I went over to talk to you just now, did you ever think I might be
a bar girl?
Me: To be honest, I don't think you're a bar scammer. I think you might be the bar owner,
trying to seduce me tonight. That's not how you run a business! How can you prey on a customer?!
Nana: Go to hell! But I've never done anything like this before. I'm always the one being approached. I
've never been this proactive before. I was actually quite nervous when I went to talk to you.
Me: I didn't realize you were a pro.
Nana: Go to hell. Then she rolled her eyes. (Test question)
Me: I love that expression, especially that eye roll. I can also tell you something. If you had walked past me
when came out of the restroom, and had waited even a second to speak, I definitely would have approached you.
(Teasingly expressing interest)
She turned to look at me, and I looked at her.
After a few seconds, she said: Then I definitely wouldn't have answered you. I don't like men approaching me. (Test question)
Me: Really? We're pretty much on the same page. I don't like men approaching me either.
Nana chuckled: Men approach you?
I told her a story about being hit on by a man during my last trip to Lijiang. She laughed so hard she almost fell over. It
was just a very ordinary story, but the key is whether you can make an ordinary story
interesting.
Whenever a woman puts me in a difficult position, I feel like I've already won half the battle. Sometimes women don't
dislike you; they're just subconsciously or
intentionally . When you ignore it or deal with it lightly,
you appear relaxed and at ease, which boosts your charm in a woman's eyes,
creating attraction.
It's not that being rich or handsome guarantees attracting women. These are certainly
powerful factors, but if a woman gives you a little challenge and scares you, and you become timid,
then the charm you built up with your external qualities is hard to maintain. Many beginners' problem is that they treat their target too much like
an opponent, unable to relax mentally. This prevents them from performing at their best, especially since
beginners are often not very capable. This is also why many high-value and handsome men can't get women.
They value the other person too much and are too ambitious. They definitely won't pass a woman's test, or
they're easily taken advantage of. Because you haven't won her favor with your personal charm.
Watching Charles across from us, with his lewd smile, already holding Afei's hand and having her palm read,
we started chatting too. We showed off our tired-out routines, and her reactions gradually
improved. Later in the conversation, I genuinely felt that women are masters of boasting; somehow the topic came up with
a bunch of stories about her being a former image ambassador for Lijiang, owning a financial company in Chengdu, buying
a house and , and being constantly hit on and harassed by men.
Anyway, she wouldn't lie to me; even the alcohol was bought by herself, so I couldn't be bothered to check the truth of the stories. When talking about
the Naxi people , she complained that Naxi men are all idle and aimless, with women
doing all the work in their lives. She also told me that if you marry a Naxi girl, you'll be blessed for life.
I said, "Then let's quickly begin this wonderful relationship! I can't wait!" Since she's proving...
I've always given her my approval; doing so doesn't diminish my own worth. I told her I admired her
persistence, courage, and wit, etc.—basically, I expressed my affection in a blatantly enthusiastic way.
When I approached her in the noisy bar and spoke to her, and she no longer leaned back but instead leaned
forward, I knew I'd reached the right moment. Suddenly, I turned to her with gentle eyes and a playful tone,
asking, "Aren't you glad you took the initiative to get to know me?" She didn't answer, just looked at me and smiled. I looked into her
eyes and slowly took her hand in mine. Nana gently squeezed back—perfect.
We played around for a while longer, then they took the three of us to another place for a late-night snack (Z had already returned to her guesthouse
). We learned a lot about the local customs and traditions. Later, Afei received three phone calls from home and
had to go back, causing Charles to miss this opportunity. Perhaps I should have
taken Nana somewhere else to talk about life halfway through our late-night snack.
As we were about to leave, she asked Nana if she wanted to go back with her. I poured her a beer,
finished mine first, and told Afei, "Nana and I will go for a walk a little longer. You don't mind, do you?" I squeezed
Nana's hand. Afei glanced at our gestures, looked at Nana questioningly, and seeing that Nana didn't respond, she
didn't bring it up again. Then I had Charles and Evan take Afei back first. If Afei
stayed here , this random bomb might explode at any time.
During our conversation at the bar, I learned that she was going to her hometown at the foot of Jade Dragon Snow Mountain on the third day. I told her, "You
're leaving soon, and I'm going to trek to Daocheng Yading after the New Year. Spend more time with me today; I have so much to
tell you." She softly agreed and came back to the guesthouse with me. Some interesting things happened while dealing with her resistance,
but in the end, she brainwashed me, and I slept with her.
When she woke up the next morning, she said she dreamed that I called her "husband." I said, "You said it quite naturally."
She actually said, "Then I'll just keep calling you that." I wonder if all ethnic minorities are this outgoing.
After being urged to get up by Charles and Evan at noon, she took me to eat at her favorite
rice noodle shop from childhood. We visited some attractions we hadn't seen in Lijiang before, then I saw her off to her car and
we made plans to see a movie together that evening.
To be honest, I like many of this girl's qualities, but there are still many things to do, so let's end
this story here. It's not that I don't like her, or that I don't want to make a commitment to her; it's just that I haven't
reached my own psychological expectations, and I haven't thought about settling down yet. Women might not understand, but this kind of
irresponsibility towards them is the most responsible thing I can do for them. And I also think that fleeting
roses and eternally standing snow-capped mountains have the same beauty!
I stood up Nana's date that evening, and in the afternoon I continued to take Charles and Evan out for a walk. Charles
had an impromptu date, and in the evening I dated another girl. I also met another
girl , and I even pulled off a tower dive kill right in front of my parents. But that's another story.
Finally, I'd like to share something the guesthouse owner told me: In Lijiang, single women always live
better lives . I'm sure you all understand why. Once you come to Lijiang, you'll have a new understanding of women. [End of article]

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