The classic clitoral licking technique made her both resist and welcome it.

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It's a wonderful thing for a man to lick a woman's vulva before sex. From a sexual psychology perspective, the feeling of watching a woman struggle and moan during sex is extremely pleasurable.

The following guide to licking a woman's vulva is based on experiences shared by netizens, with feedback from female netizens provided. Here's a slightly edited summary:

I. Preparations before licking:

Sex is a beautiful thing. If you're not just looking for release, you should create some conditions and atmosphere, such as at night with dim lighting.

Both partners should take a shower, especially the woman, because the female vulva has a more complex structure with many folds, making it easier for dirt to accumulate. Therefore, when showering, make sure to thoroughly clean the labia majora and minora.

Men should play some music and wait for her in bed. After showering, women should apply a little perfume to their genitals, but avoid using too much or too strong a scent, as the man's nose is closest to the genitals when he's licking her, and a strong perfume can be overwhelming. Also, avoid applying perfume to the labia, as the natural scent of vaginal fluid isn't created with perfume. Spray perfume on your palms and apply it to the pubic hair and inner thighs; a light application to the anus is also beneficial.

Prepare two towels, one large and one small. Place the large towel on the bed for the woman to lie on, and the small towel for wiping away sweat and moisture. Keep a glass of water nearby so she can easily reach it when thirsty, preventing her from interrupting her pleasure.

Secondly, regarding sensitive areas:

Men shouldn't assume that licking the genitals means immediately kissing the clitoris upon entering the bedroom. Women's bodies react slowly; give them time to adjust. The clitoris is extremely sensitive, and stimulating it too early will be less effective.

Personally, I think the order should be like this: First, hug her and say a few sweet words, like "You're so beautiful," or "You're so sexy," to make her feel comfortable and relaxed. Then, start kissing her lips, earlobes, behind her ears, neck, breasts, lower abdomen, and waist. Pay attention to spending more time on her breasts, as they are a very important erogenous zone.

At this point, she should feel a slight tingling sensation throughout her body, and you should begin to approach her genitals. Start kissing from the groin area, gently separating her legs. Usually, women are quite shy at this point because they feel somewhat "resistant" to exposing their genitals to you. So, don't be too hasty or forceful when separating her legs; do it gently, little by little.

Begin to lightly touch and sweep her thighs with your tongue, from the outer edge of her labia majora—the crease between her thighs—upwards to her hip bones (the left and right sides of her lower abdomen), repeating this about ten times. She will feel a ticklish and tingling sensation, and a tingling feeling near the vaginal opening. Gently sweep your tongue along the thigh down to the Zusanli acupoint below the knee. Zusanli is a sensitive point for women. If the other person's skin is delicate, you can gently massage this area back and forth. Then, kiss back down to the
groin of the thigh and repeat the above movements. This tactic is called "assistance" in military terms. In bed, you should treat the woman as an "enemy, opponent." First, distract the "enemy," take the initiative, and guide her senses to follow your tongue. Engage in guerrilla warfare on any part of her body—the breasts, the lower abdomen, the groin, the mons pubis—and the pubic hair area. Gradually, you'll notice the woman starting to move, her legs involuntarily swaying, and she'll moan. More sensitive women will become wet around the vaginal opening.

Through this assist, you've essentially overcome the woman's shyness and destroyed her psychological defenses. At this point, she'll be in a state of feigned resistance, and the man can then launch his main attack.

The woman should be more proactive at this time, spreading her legs into a V-shape, ideally arching them back to expose her entire genitals to the man. There's nothing to be ashamed of; in fact, this slight initiative will provide the man with greater motivation and engagement.

After the woman raises and spreads her legs, the man should first target several key areas: the perineum, labia, and vaginal opening. The perineum is located at the junction of the vagina and anus. Although the skin in this area is taut, it is extremely sensitive. Use a moist tongue to gently lick this area. When kissing the woman's groin, she will feel a tingling or numb sensation from top to bottom around the vaginal opening. When kissing the perineum, she will experience a comfortable, expanding sensation from bottom to top. When kissing the perineum, if you can overcome your psychological barrier, you can surprise her by licking and touching her anus with your tongue. This will guarantee she screams with excitement.

If you have psychological barriers, then lick upwards from the perineum to the labia. At this point, most women will be very wet. The vaginal fluid is usually clear and thin. If you like, you can drink it (not a joke). It's freshly secreted and not dirty.

How should you kiss the labia? Don't use your hands yet. Use your tongue to gently pry open the woman's labia majora (some women have smaller labia majora, or when they are more aroused, the labia may separate on their own). Take one labia into your mouth and use your tongue to sweep it around, paying attention to both the inside and outside of the labia. Then switch to the other labia and repeat the process. Finally, turn your body slightly to the side, so that your lips are parallel to the woman's labia. Gently take both labia into your mouth at the same time, sucking them in. Use your tongue to make insertion, withdrawal, and sweeping motions between the labia. The woman will feel incredibly good.

Remember, when kissing the labia, try to suck as much of the woman's labia as possible into your mouth, gently sweeping and licking with your tongue. The woman will feel a slight itch in the labia area and want you to kiss more areas and a wider area. Ignore her; just keep kissing. Few women will say, "Darling, kiss me there, kiss me there..."

While they're enjoying themselves, you can gently bite her labia. The flesh is in your mouth; whether you bite, and how you bite, is entirely up to you. But don't bite too hard; just the right amount. Enough to make her suddenly scream, essentially ruining the sensation she's built up.

Why ruin a woman's sensations for no reason? Male sexual arousal is achieved through the friction between the eyes and genitals. This direct stimulation allows men to reach orgasm quickly, like Mount Everest, rising and falling vertically. Female sexual arousal, on the other hand, is built up through the ears (hearing your sweet words) and the mind (imagination and feeling). Reaching orgasm requires repeated stimulation and accumulation. Like the Yunnan-Guizhou Plateau, a trapezoid.

After the previous round of kissing, the woman has reached a certain level of arousal and is a little dazed. Being too dazed isn't good either, because when a woman is dazed, she won't know who's kissing her, haha! Just kidding. A gentle bite can wake her from her dazed state, allowing her to accept your continued stimulation in a semi-conscious state, making her sexual arousal come faster and accumulate more intensely next time. This technique should be repeated when licking a woman's vulva, but don't do it too frequently, or you might get kicked out of bed. Hey! Be careful when biting, her labia are very delicate.
I personally love licking vulvas and have excellent oral skills. I'm based in Beijing. I'm sincerely seeking couples or single women who enjoy being licked vulvas to connect with. Actually, "licking vulva" isn't quite the right word; it should be called "appreciating the vagina." Such a beautiful organ should be appreciated with care—that's the greatest enjoyment in the world. You can add me on QQ: 2641046538, or join the "Lick Vulva Club," a group for those with a shared interest, chat together: group number 426295258.

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