Clitoral stimulation techniques

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In an era of severe sexual repression, many people unfortunately became "sexually illiterate," and the tragic joke of not knowing the correct sexual position on their wedding night became a reality. With the liberalization of sexual attitudes and the proliferation of books promoting sex education, people's understanding of sex has shifted from limited to extensive. Things that were once confined to discussions or experiments by sex experts are now widely known and explored with great interest in people's sexual lives.

For example, the clitoris, an inconspicuous part of the female external genitalia, was once unknown to many women. Now, however, many know that although small, the clitoris is an extremely important sexual organ. It contains abundant blood vessels and nerve endings, making it highly sensitive to sexual stimulation. Proper stimulation (in a suitable manner) can induce female sexual arousal, and some women can achieve orgasm solely through clitoral stimulation. Once they discover this secret, some men are overjoyed, never forgetting to stimulate the clitoris during sex, using every possible method to arouse the woman as quickly and intensely as possible. When intercourse begins, the woman is naturally more than happy, and the man feels great pleasure and a sense of pride.

It can be said that clitoral stimulation is indeed effective, and many women welcome it, as long as the man's movements are gentle and don't cause pain. After clitoral stimulation, the next step should be penetration, because the latter is the goal; the former is merely a prelude. This transition is effortless for many women, but obstacles arise for others. One woman's inquiry falls into this category: "My husband loves to stimulate my clitoris, and I enjoy it because it makes me feel very good and often leads to orgasm. My legs tremble involuntarily, and I can't help but moan. Afterwards, I feel exhausted, like I've done a lot of hard work. But honestly, I don't experience this feeling during actual intercourse. After that, I lose interest in sex and find it meaningless. If it weren't for my husband, I would get up immediately. I want to know if there's something wrong with me, or if there's something wrong with my approach?"

According to sex experts, only about one-third of women can achieve orgasm through "simple intercourse," while most women need clitoral stimulation to achieve it. Therefore, strengthening clitoral stimulation during sex is not only not inappropriate, but also very necessary. As for some people preferring clitoral stimulation to intercourse, this is also normal. Because intercourse cannot directly stimulate the clitoris, it only relies on the thrusting of the penis inside the vagina to pull on the clitoris, thus indirectly stimulating it. Sometimes, the male pubic bone may rub against the clitoris, but the duration and intensity are far less than direct stimulation. Therefore, the sexual sensation obtained from clitoral stimulation is much stronger than during intercourse. This is why many women prefer clitoral stimulation.

Liking clitoral stimulation is normal, but losing interest in or even abhorring it because of it is abnormal. Freud once proposed that female orgasms should be divided into two types: clitoral orgasms and vaginal orgasms (AGM: now sexologists often refer to a more complex type – the combined type). The former is a sign of sexual immaturity; only fully mature women can shift the center of orgasm from the clitoris to the vagina. Freud's view was later overturned, and the sexology community generally only acknowledges the existence of one type of orgasm, with clitoral sensation being merely a component. Nevertheless, Freud's view still has merit. Women who can experience orgasm through clitoral stimulation but cannot bring it into intercourse clearly lack not the ability to achieve orgasm, but rather a healthy and mature psychological state. Some women, while allowing their husbands to stimulate their clitoris, lack a proper understanding of intercourse and thus compulsively suppress their sexual feelings and behaviors. This controls the brain's sexual desire center, naturally weakening their libido. Other women vividly remember the pain (or other unpleasant sensations) of intercourse, making them particularly fond of clitoral stimulation and able to devote all their energy to it, resulting in low enthusiasm for intercourse and difficulty arousing emotions after intercourse begins.

Technically, the reasons for this preference for clitoral stimulation can also be identified. Some men use monotonous intercourse positions, failing to maintain strong and effective stimulation after clitoral stimulation. This reduces the interest of women who have reached a certain level of sexual arousal, leading them to want to end intercourse quickly or return to their previous state. Over time, their orgasms will occur earlier, reaching their peak emotionally before intercourse even begins. If you find yourself in this situation, consider using more female-on-top, side-lying, or rear-entry positions in your future sexual encounters. These positions all help to enhance indirect stimulation and friction of the clitoris, which is quite effective in improving a woman's sensations.

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