[Repost] Making friends is not an exchange.

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Online, when I add new friends, many people immediately ask: "Are you a couple? Do you do swapping? How many times have you swapped?"
Even though they are supposedly a couple, and the female user in the profile picture is usually a woman, the man is often the one sitting behind her. They ask for a video call after only a few words, and some even call without any prior greeting.
At first, I patiently explained, but later I just told them that we are a couple, but only for friendship, not swapping. If they don't understand, I sometimes show them articles, and sometimes I ask them to figure it out themselves. As for video calls, they almost always refuse with strong disapproval, and those who persist are immediately blocked.
"Friendship" versus "swapping" has become a hurdle, allowing me to quickly judge a person's character and maturity in making friends.
A friend who had left the group once told me: "This is really boring, everyone's just all talk and no action." I just smiled and didn't reply. "When
people don't see eye to eye, even half a sentence is too much," as the saying goes!
Another friend angrily said: "How can it be like this? Swapping, even animal pairing, isn't this simple and vulgar!" You should write an article to educate people about this!
Making friends and exchanging ideas seem to have become a marker of people grouping themselves around each other.
But I can clearly say: making friends is not exchanging, but it may include sexual exchange! (Note, only possibly.)
I strongly dislike those who make sexual exchange their sole purpose. Such people automatically reduce themselves from human beings to the level of animals. Aside from reproductive needs, they seem to have no other needs.
Couples making friends is actually couples making friends together; men and women alike have their own choices. Since they are adults and couples are friends, there are virtually no restrictions on the content of their conversations. Sex is often an important topic of discussion, but it's not the only one. People group themselves around each other, and things of a kind come together; people always need to find friends who share their interests. All aspects of life—national affairs, family matters, private matters—haha, as long as you can talk about them, if
you feel good, video chat, meet in person, and if you feel compatible, sexual exchange is perfectly normal.
In life, due to various concerns, we certainly can't find couples who can communicate without any taboos, right? This is a need of ours, both spiritually and physically—a very normal need. I call this kind of interaction: a close, intimate friendship!
This state is beautiful, but not easy to achieve; you could say it's something you can only hope for, not something you can seek out.
Moreover, not all couples are suitable for sexual intercourse. Some couples can chat very well, feel a deep connection, and feel like they've known each other forever. But once sexual intercourse occurs, it's not pleasant, and may even ruin this beautiful relationship.
Therefore, everyone knows that friendship should be based on sincerity, but not everyone understands that sex isn't always constructive. Which is more important: gaining unpleasant sex but losing a friend?
In fact, those with experience in couples making friends know that the most beautiful feeling comes from the process of interaction. Couples who can enjoy this process without rushing to pursue sexual intercourse are truly psychologically mature.
And couples who can still understand and connect after reaching the point of sexual intercourse are truly happy.

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