My wife whom I've trained (seeking a single man) - Part 1...

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Today, I had some free time at work, so I decided to write this down.

My QQ has been buzzing with activity these past few days, with many single men adding me. But I've really realized that there are far too few high-quality single men in this community (69). In fact, the high-quality single men that all couples in 69 are looking for are a rare breed.
I've roughly summarized what kind of high-quality single men couples in 69 are looking for. Many couples have added me, and they're all very polite and we get along well. The most frequent topic of conversation is how rare it is to find a reliable single man in 69.

First of all, I'm not trying to boast, but let me just say this: who is born wanting to be cuckolded? Who would willingly offer their wife to another man? I dare say only 10 out of 100 people could do that. So, couples who come to 69 are basically looking to take this step or elevate their relationship to a higher level.

The single men that couples in 69 are generally looking for are like this... 1. A clean and tidy appearance is important. While good looks aren't everything, you should at least be pleasing to the eye at first glance. Many people don't realize how important "pleasing to the eye" is, but in job interviews and other interviews, your boss and interviewer's evaluation is based on that first impression. Many talented people lose out in interviews simply because of their appearance. Of course, I'm not advocating judging people by their looks; competence matters in work, but in matters of the heart, appearance matters. Ask your girlfriends or wives if this isn't true. 2. While education doesn't represent everything, it's certainly not lacking. Nowadays, college graduates are everywhere, but those who haven't attended college often lack depth and awareness. Many single men add me on social media, but very few actually have meaningful conversations. Otherwise, they just bombard my wife with questions, or they ask how they want to have sex with her. To put it bluntly, many single men are just mindless, purely driven by lust. They don't understand why couples seek out single men, nor do they understand what couples need to find in the process of dating. It's okay if they don't understand, but if you label yourself a "refined single man," then I ask you, where has your refinement gone? Shouldn't you politely and gently try to understand the true intentions of the couple? Frankly speaking, everyone claims to be refined, but very few are truly refined. I've written bluntly, but I dare say I'm neither biased nor stubborn.

Now, let me continue about my situation with my wife.

My wife comes from a semi-educated family, because both her parents were university graduates. Back then, university graduates were a rare find; you can ask your own parents. Don't let her average looks fool you; she has a great presence, as I mentioned yesterday. She immediately rejects many single men after just one look at their photos. There are a few she likes, and she'll even chat with them on QQ (the QQ group we use to find single men), pretending to be my contact. Ultimately, it always ends up being a matter of bad timing. I was planning to let her find someone herself; I didn't want to bother with all that work every day, and besides, I'm a Virgo, so being picky is inevitable.

Before we got married, she seriously asked me a question: "After we get married, will you ever want to get a divorce?" To be honest, I didn't dare answer that question then, because I felt I couldn't just give her a casual answer. If I did, I'd have to take responsibility—a lifelong responsibility. That night, when we were lying in bed, I shared my thoughts with her, analyzing why divorces happen. I've summarized my thoughts; I wonder if you, the readers, agree. If not, just consider me shallow—please don't be offended. First, incompatible temperaments and personalities. When young, passion often leads to complacency, but as people age, they become more stubborn and even obsessive, resulting in communication difficulties and a generation gap. This leads to frequent arguments, often involving things that wouldn't normally be said, like "divorce." Repeatedly uttering this word can lead to divorce. Second, disharmony in sex life. Two unrelated people coming together to procreate often seem to rely on sex. Many marital problems stem from numbness, a lack of excitement, and excessive familiarity with each other. The desire to have sex is often followed by hesitation, eventually leading to infidelity. Very few couples manage to maintain this balance; the vast majority choose divorce and start new lives. Third, financial issues are a factor, which I won't elaborate on. Fourth, endless arguments about raising children can also occur. Fifthly, there's the issue of both sets of parents. Honestly, I think this is a common problem – the older generation is often immature, and the younger generation follows suit. It's a real shame that some couples divorce over this. In closing, I also wish all my 69-year-old friends that no matter how much fun you have, don't constantly think about divorce. It's truly not easy for two people to go from meeting, getting to know each other, falling in love, and finally walking down the aisle. If you're thinking about divorce, you can reflect on the past. Why did you endure hardship together before, and now that things are better, can't you enjoy happiness together? Whether you're happy or not, it's still just one day. Try to adjust your mindset; why not? Now, I need to interrupt myself; work is coming up.

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