What do couples expect from a threesome?

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What kind of handsome man do couples need? It's important to understand the motivations behind threesomes. Let's start with the woman's motivations: 1. Due to prolonged intimacy, she may experience sexual fatigue and easily fall into sexual fantasies during intercourse, imagining her husband as another object of her affection; 2. Her husband's request for a threesome perfectly fulfills her sexual fantasies; 3. She hopes to see her body desired in the eyes of another outstanding man and wants to personally experience and indulge in it; 4. She hopes to try having sex with different types of men and enjoy the differences; 5. She hopes to satisfy her husband's desire for a threesome and truly stimulate him, making him even more infatuated with her; 6. She wants to experience the sensory stimulation of being possessed, violated, and having an affair with another outstanding man in front of her husband; 7. She enjoys the thrill of being played with by two men simultaneously and can feel the atmosphere of being raped.

The motivations of men in threesomes generally fall into the following categories: 1. Sexual fatigue after many years of marriage; 2. A deep love for their wives, leading to a desire to provide them with intense stimulation and satisfaction; 3. Witnessing their wives being with men superior to themselves, stimulating their own senses. Both men and women in threesomes operate on these psychological motivations, making their choice of partners very selective and cautious. II. What kind of threesome partner do threesome couples truly desire? Based on the above considerations, the chosen partner should meet the following criteria: They must be handsome. "Handsome" can refer to various types of men—gentle and refined, muscular, or sunny and dashing. Different couples have different preferences, but importantly, their appearance must be outstanding, at least surpassing that of the husband, to arouse the wife's sexual interest. As husband and wife, we consider ourselves to be good-looking and have good physiques, the sunny type. As a couple with good conditions, we hope to find someone who meets our criteria. However, most people are disappointing. Some are so insecure they don't even dare to show their photos; some insist on QQ video calls, but then become shy and hesitant, ultimately just out of curiosity to see what they look like; some send photos, but their appearance is far from flattering, yet they claim to be handsome in their messages; some even insist on video calls, only to find their appearance makes their wives feel disgusted. Men like these, please have some self-respect. Threesome couples are looking for handsome or charming men who can bring them excitement and enjoyment, with the goal of satisfying themselves. If the conditions are vastly different, it will only make you a laughingstock for your ignorance. Therefore, please carefully consider your own conditions before making a decision; they must be healthy. Regardless of physique, they must be healthy, meaning they must be free of any diseases or genital diseases, and their sexual function must be strong. Generally speaking, threesome couples have relatively strong sexual function and are quite open in their sexual techniques. The reasons are as follows: If the wife has a low libido, she will not agree to participate in a threesome; if the husband is impotent, he will never allow his wife to try other excellent men, as men are absolutely susceptible to ridicule in this regard. A couple with a strong sex drive certainly wouldn't like an impotent man on the sidelines. The third man, who also won't arouse any desire in the wife, must be gentle and obedient. This is why all threesome couples hope to find high-quality men for their threesomes. The reason is simple: threesome couples want to find someone who can arouse their sexual desire but won't pose a threat to them. Threesome couples engage in threesomes because they want to satisfy their own desires, not organize a threesome to satisfy someone else's. Therefore, as a participant, one must adjust their position and mindset. That is, regardless of your usual personality, you must be gentle when participating in the activity so that neither partner feels threatened. Furthermore, when participating in the activity, you must consider the emotions of both partners, especially the wife's. She is the center and focus of the threesome; her satisfaction and pleasure are key to its success. Therefore, the participant must be obedient. Don't worry about not being able to meet other men's wives; as long as they meet the requirements in appearance, health, and personality, patiently serving other men's wives is the only thing the participant needs to do. If the participant only wants to release their sexual desires, then they should go to a beauty salon instead of participating in a threesome! 4. Good hygiene habits are essential. Anyone with body odor will be rejected, as it is a toxic element that disrupts the atmosphere. Furthermore, as an experienced participant in a threesome, remember not to do the following: Don't engage in the act without showering. Even if you've showered thoroughly at home, shower in front of your partner beforehand to give them a clean and hygienic impression; don't act without a condom; don't decide to have sex with someone else's wife without consulting them; don't put your penis in your partner's mouth immediately after pulling it out of their vagina without washing it properly; don't penetrate without your husband's or wife's consent; and don't ejaculate on your husband. These are all unhygienic things that could affect the couple's mood, so be sure to discuss them clearly with the other couple before proceeding. 5. Understand Sexual Techniques As a competent participant, you must have some sexual experience and know the techniques. Otherwise, you won't be able to satisfy a woman's desires. At the very least, you should know where the clitoris is, how to make it feel good, how to caress the breasts, how to use your tongue, how to give oral sex, and what to pay attention to beforehand, etc. If you don't know these basic common sense things, then it's best not to participate.

III. Couples who engage in threesomes generally fall into the following categories: 1. Middle-class families: These families are financially secure and have no worries about food or clothing, but they are not prominent figures or socially noticeable, so they can freely pursue their own sexual excitement; 2. Both partners have strong sexual desires, for reasons already mentioned above; 3. Both partners are relatively open about sexual techniques and know how to share their sexual experiences; 4. The man is confident, even arrogant, and unafraid to engage with someone superior. IV

. When participating, it's important to ensure the other person feels safe. Safety is paramount for couples; any threat or potential threat is unacceptable; 2. Focus on the wife's pleasure. Your task is to cooperate with your husband to give his wife unparalleled stimulation and orgasm, with your own feelings secondary; 3. Communicate your thoughts with both partners, listen to the wife's opinions, understand her preferences and taboos, and avoid doing anything that would displease or disapprove of her; 4. When the husband is having sex with the wife, it's not a time for you to be idle; pay attention to using techniques; 5. Ensure good cooperation with your husband, creating a harmonious atmosphere.

When discussing the classification of threesomes, based on the gender of the participants, they naturally fall into two categories: one man and two women, and two men and one woman. However, in the one-man-two-woman scenario, the man is more likely to ejaculate due to excessive stimulation. Generally, men need time to recover after ejaculation, but by then the women's arousal has already begun, and they may not have reached orgasm yet, which is unfair to the wife. Medical research shows that sexual intercourse is most pleasurable when both partners reach orgasm. Therefore, whether it's a threesome or group sex, most people consider combinations with more men than women. The two-man-one-woman scenario is therefore more stimulating than the previous one. In fact, the two-man-one-woman scenario avoids many of the drawbacks mentioned above. The wife's orgasms can be continuous, and the man, after ejaculating, watching another sexual act unfold, especially the husband seeing another man's semen flowing from his wife's vagina, can quickly reignite his desire and allow him to resume sexual activity. Furthermore, men who have experienced orgasm and ejaculation can last longer due to decreased sensitivity. Numerous studies have shown that the average woman needs to experience at least three to five orgasms during a single sexual encounter to achieve satisfaction, and even after achieving satisfaction, she can continue sexual activity. However, the situation is quite different when a married couple participates in a threesome. This sexual activity, in addition to the aforementioned aspects, also includes elements of voyeurism, extramarital sex, and infidelity. It represents a transgression that challenges social and familial moral responsibilities, and reflects the sexual attitudes and openness of the couple. If the other participant is a man, watching his wife have sex with another man allows the husband to better understand his wife's sexual experience and tests her feelings towards him, sex, and achieving extramarital orgasms. All of these factors make it appealing to many married couples, including myself. Therefore, this is the true form of threesome sexual activity. In fact, for couples married for many years, the longer they are together, the stronger their familial bond becomes, but the passion fades. Although they are still very loving, the passion between them is not what it used to be. Therefore, some couples choose threesomes for sexual activity.

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