A brief description of the lecherous psychology of men in modern society

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In life, many women complain that their boyfriends are fickle, unable to resist attractive women on the street, and some even break up with them because of this. Actually, men and women have different psychology, so their views on certain things differ. Often, men's attraction to beautiful women isn't out of genuine affection, but purely for aesthetic reasons. Let's briefly discuss the "womanizing" mentality of men today and explore related issues.
1. Enjoys lewd talk
When several male teenagers get together, especially when a few acquaintances are chatting, they often make lewd remarks. This cannot be simply regarded as vulgar or obscene; it is a common male sexual psychology response. There are three main reasons for this: to pass the time and relieve the anxiety of daily life through such trivial talk; to enhance the harmonious and pleasant atmosphere of casual conversation; and when there are women nearby, some people deliberately use lewd language to see how women will react to such words.
Among those who engage in lewd talk, people of different ages and experiences have different psychology. Older, more experienced people often boast about their extensive knowledge and experience, and they relish discussing things that should be kept secret. This mentality is often perplexing to women.
Younger, less experienced people often engage in lewd talk out of a strange vanity, unwilling to be seen as inexperienced or naive, thus acting clever and talking at length. Additionally, some people are in a state of sexual anxiety, and their lewd talk serves to relieve anxiety and release sexual desire.
2. Enjoys touching women
Male psychological characteristics determine a man's sexual psychology of liking to touch women; men are born with a strong "desire to touch the opposite sex." This aligns with a principle in zoology: "Sexual behavior is only possible when the male takes the initiative." In romantic relationships, men especially desire to touch women because they want to concretely express their intimacy and seek confirmation of it internally.
3. Enjoys looking at women's naked bodies.
Men are more easily aroused by nude photos. This is because women are "tactilely stimulating," while men are "visually stimulating." The strength of a man's sexual attraction to seeing nude women is determined by a function of his inherent eroticism and the ease of access to the object of his desire.
4. Enjoys looking at women
There's a phenomenon in life where two groups of men and women walk towards each other on the street from opposite directions, exchanging glances as they pass. At this moment, the woman's glance is directed towards someone of the same sex, while the man's is directed towards someone of the opposite sex. The woman's glance reflects an unconscious sense of confrontation, competition, and comparison; the man's glance is an unintentional act of "multiple gazes." This psychological phenomenon in men is like a butterfly flitting from one flower to another; even if they love one, they can't help but look at another. As a woman, you don't need to worry too much about this, because men are "multi-minded" in everything they do.
Why do men enjoy "admiring" beautiful women with ill intentions?
Many pretty girls have likely encountered this situation: whether on a bus or subway, in any public place, there are always a few men who lewdly "admire" their breasts or buttocks. Some girls simply roll their eyes in response. Others just ignore it and let it go. Some girls might even discover that their boyfriends secretly "admire" other women while shopping together. What kind of psychology is behind this?
In fact, our ancestors initially lived a primitive, hunter-gatherer lifestyle. For us at that time, sexual intercourse with the opposite sex was merely for procreation. And how could their offspring survive? As mammals, the female's role was even more crucial. This is because the fetus spends a considerable amount of time in the mother's womb, and childbirth is a significant ordeal for women. We all know that the fetus matures in the uterus and is then born through the vagina.
In movies and TV dramas, when a woman is giving birth, doctors often only say, "Push! Push!" What kind of force is being used? Naturally, it's the force of the sphincter muscles on both sides of the vagina. This is related to whether the fetus can be delivered smoothly, a matter of life and death! So how did early humans know that women had strong enough muscles? A "perky buttocks" is the best proof. This indicates that the woman has enough strength to safely deliver the fetus during childbirth, reducing the chance of stillbirth.
After childbirth, breastfeeding is a crucial issue for women. Therefore, whether a woman has healthy breasts is a major factor in the survival of the fetus. And how do males judge this? The standard is simple: firmness and fullness. A woman with full breasts indicates that she can provide enough milk for her child in the future, preventing the baby from starving.
Of course, the above is based on early humans. Now there are various breast milk substitutes and cesarean sections are also possible. Naturally, in the eyes of modern people, the above two points are no longer factors related to the life of the fetus.
But in our subconscious, these two points still unconsciously control men's behavior. I once asked people around me, "Why do you like voluptuous women?" Their answers were all the same: "Because they're sexy!" I then asked, "Why are voluptuous women sexy?" Their answers were vague: "Sexy is sexy, why else?"
Therefore, the fact that men like to look at breasts and buttocks is actually a default value given by nature since the emergence of humankind. It cannot and will not be changed. Humankind has been able to reproduce to this day entirely because of these default values.
But what psychological factors are at play? Women often say that men don't seem to take sex as seriously as women do. I'll analyze this psychologically, considering physiological characteristics. Physiologically speaking, a fetus needs both sperm and an egg to form. A healthy man can produce at least 100 million sperm every day, while a woman's eggs only mature one or two per month.
Clearly, men value quantity. This physiological characteristic quickly translates into psychological differences. A man's sperm count, depleted during a single sexual encounter, is fully replenished within a day, and unlike women, men don't experience the pain of childbirth. A woman's only egg per month, once fertilized, ceases ovulation, and she faces the inconveniences of ten months of pregnancy and the pain of childbirth.
Therefore, men subconsciously have a casual attitude towards sex. They don't lose anything except some proteins, water, and salt (the main components of sperm). Women, on the other hand, have to invest far more, so they are more cautious about sexual activity.
The above provides an introduction and hopefully will be helpful. A friendly reminder: Mutual understanding is essential in relationships; don't make excessive demands on men. Only then can a relationship last. Why are men unfaithful? This is a question every woman probably wants to know. There are many answers to this question, varying from person to person, but the most important factor is psychological. So don't worry too much about it. Understanding your man's psychology is the key to success.

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