N ways to arouse your lover's sexual desire

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The famous line by Tang Dynasty poet Li Shangyin, "Our hearts are connected by a single thread," refers to the mutual understanding between lovers. Research shows that 70% of the information we receive daily comes from body language. In married life, a partner's gestures and words express certain sexual needs.

1. Calming Milk

Mr. Du is 32 years old and a manager at a company.

At his age, he should be at the peak of his sexual desire, yet he often neglects his beautiful wife. Unable to bear the loneliness, his wife not only consulted some women her age but also bought many books on sex to study. "Hard work pays off," and she actually found a secret weapon. That evening, Mrs. Du wore a transparent nightgown, sprinkled some oriental-scented perfume on herself, let down her high-coiffed hair, allowing her charming face to be half-hidden in her flowing hair, and then brought a steaming cup of milk to Mr. Du's side as he worked. Sipping the fragrant milk, Mr. Du cast a deep, loving glance at his wife, suddenly captivated by her beautiful and alluring attire…

In real life, many couples who have lived together for a long time become complacent, losing the joy and sweetness they should have. To reconcile their strained sex life, Mrs. Du devised a secluded and romantic path. Her unique method lay in fully utilizing the body language of intimacy between husband and wife, silently conveying and arousing her husband's sexual desire. Indeed, how could Mr. Du not be moved by the soothing milk and its captivating fragrance?

2. A Captivating Glance

Mr. Liu and Ms. Shao both enjoyed romance, and their married life was harmonious and fulfilling. However, with the arrival of their child, their once romantic and intoxicating married life was often disrupted by the mundane tasks of pots and pans, diapers, and crying. Saying "I want you" wasn't easy. One evening, Ms. Shao's friend and her husband came to visit. Mr. Liu, seeing the couple still so deeply in love, and looking at his wife's beautiful face, was instantly captivated, gazing at her intently for a long time. When Ms. Shao's gaze inadvertently met Mr. Liu's, a long-lost passion surged within her, and she couldn't help but give him a seductive glance. That night, they rekindled their passionate lovemaking. From then on, tender gazes became their body language for lovemaking.

According to Dr. Edward's research, direct eye contact is a clear signal of sexual attraction; when you see someone you care about, your pupils will involuntarily dilate. Therefore, when you suddenly widen your eyes or gaze intently at someone you deeply love, that person will sensitively perceive your yearning for sex.

3. Underwear as a "show of affection"

: A woman's tenderness is expressed in her meticulous care for her loved one. What if one day, a husband suddenly followed suit and bought his wife a beautiful set of lingerie? Ms. Huang, whose sex life had always been harmonious with her husband, experienced a sudden drop in libido after giving birth. Sometimes, when Mr. Zhu couldn't resist and asked for sex, she would often refuse. Later, at a class reunion, everyone shared their experiences with married life, and Mr. Zhu was inspired. That evening, he diligently prepared a bath for his wife and placed a carefully purchased set of pink lace lingerie on the bedside table. When his wife returned to the bedroom after her bath, he considerately helped her remove the lingerie. A miracle occurred: Ms. Huang immediately returned a sweet, long kiss. When Mr. Zhu finished bathing and entered the bedroom, his wife had already lifted a corner of the blanket for him…

No matter how exquisite the lingerie, only the husband has the right to appreciate it. After a bath, the husband's "attentiveness" speaks volumes about his good intentions. Using sexual language not only signals to one's wife that they want to have sex but also eliminates the embarrassment of being rejected and having one's self-esteem hurt. Therefore, this kind of sexual language has become a tried-and-true "popular art" for most couples. For example, bringing your wife a bouquet of flowers after work, giving her a small, exquisite gift, or helping her wash the dishes or mop the floor, etc., can all make your wife understand your "intentions".

4. "Slow Motions" Before Bed

If a wife deliberately does her bedtime preparations very carefully and slowly, she must be hoping for an exciting story to unfold. Ms. Cai told Mr. Niu after getting up in the morning that she wanted to go to the city to buy some seasonal clothes. Mr. Niu hoped she would go and come back early. Although Ms. Cai rushed back, she was still late, which made Mr. Niu very unhappy. He left with a lukewarm remark and went to watch TV. However, Ms. Cai was full of affection. She pulled Mr. Niu back to the bedroom and let him admire the clothes she had bought while slowly taking off her hair accessories. Then she took off her clothes one by one and put on the new clothes. From time to time, she would deliberately ask Mr. Niu to help her tug at the "wrinkles" in her sensitive areas. After a series of actions, Mr. Niu's anger gradually faded, and a smile slowly appeared on his face.

Then she asked Mr. Niu to help her make the clean, still fragrant sheets, but she didn't rush it. Instead, she slowly and meticulously made the sheets and blankets, again and again. Mr. Niu looked at her expression again; it was overflowing with desire. He finally understood from his wife's deliberate delay in making the sheets that she wanted pleasure. Women often use sexual language more subtly and gradually than men. Ms. Cai, taking advantage of Mr. Niu's displeasure, used a series of slow movements to distract him, successfully making him smile. Then, she again delayed making the sheets to stimulate Mr. Niu's imagination at the beginning of their intimacy, seemingly calm, but inwardly brimming with passion.

5. As long as you're doing better than me.

Ms. Wen was unjustly reprimanded by her boss and returned home in a terrible mood. Seeing her like this, Mr. Qian quickly went to the kitchen to fulfill his duties as a "housewife" (buying, washing, and cooking). After dinner, they sat in front of the television to watch a program. Ms. Wen lazily nestled into Mr. Qian's arms, and he held her tightly while gently stroking her hair, cheeks, ears, and neck. Ms. Wen felt a warm current flowing joyfully through her body; she completely relaxed her limbs, letting Mr. Qian caress her. Soon, Ms. Wen was breathing sweetly and evenly in his arms.

The next morning, Ms. Wen asked, "Aren't you disappointed that I didn't respond to your caresses?" "I've read everything from your body, as long as you're doing better than me!" Mr. Qian replied humorously. Most couples believe that orgasm is the best outlet for tension, but this is not the case. Although the other person particularly desires to be held tightly and caressed affectionately, this body language only conveys a sexual act, not a "responsive" preparation for intercourse. Therefore, Mr. Qian could understand from Ms. Wen's "relaxed limbs" that she only needed her husband to be close to her, and did not need a sexual "response".

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