Complete Guide to Licking Your Wife's Vagina

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Licking your wife's vulva is a wonderful thing. From a sexual psychology perspective, the feeling of watching a woman struggle and moan in your mouth is very enjoyable.
First, preparations before licking:
Sex is a beautiful thing. If you're not just doing it for release, you should create some conditions and atmosphere, such as at night with the lights dimmed. Both of you should take a shower first, especially the woman, because the female vulva has a more complex structure with many folds, making it easier for dirt to accumulate. So, when showering, make sure to open the labia majora and minora and clean them thoroughly.
Men should play some music and wait for her in bed. Women should get into the habit of applying perfume to their genitals after showering, but avoid using too much or too strong a scent, as the man's nose is closest to the genitals when he's licking her, and a strong perfume can easily irritate him. Also, avoid applying perfume to the labia, as the natural scent of vaginal fluid isn't created by perfume. Spray perfume on your palms and apply it to the pubic hair and inner thighs; a light application to the anal area is also beneficial.
Prepare two towels, one large and one small. Place the large towel on the bed for the woman to lie on, and the small towel for wiping away sweat and moisture. Keep a glass of water nearby so she can easily reach it if thirsty, avoiding unnecessary interruptions to her pleasure.
II. Several Sensitive Areas for Women:
Men shouldn't assume that clitoral stimulation means immediately pouncing on a woman and kissing her clitoris upon entering sexual intercourse. Don't be so aggressive. A woman's body reacts slowly; give her time to adjust. The clitoris is an extremely sensitive area, and stimulating it immediately will be less effective. Personally, I think the proper order is this: First, embrace her and say some sweet nothings, like "You're so beautiful" or "You're so sexy," to make her feel comfortable and relaxed. Then, begin kissing her lips, earlobes, behind her ears, neck, breasts, lower abdomen, and waist. Spend more time on her breasts, as they are also a very important erogenous zone. At this point, the woman should feel a slight tingling sensation throughout her body, and you can begin to approach her genitals. Start by kissing her inner thighs, gently parting her legs. Women are usually shy at this point because they feel somewhat resistant to exposing their genitals to you. So, don't be too hasty or forceful when parting her legs; do it gently, little by little.
Begin by lightly licking her thighs with your tongue, starting from the outer side of her labia majora—the cleft between her thighs—and licking upwards towards her hip bone (the two sides of her lower abdomen). Repeat this about ten times. She will feel a ticklish, tingling sensation, and a slight soreness near the vaginal opening. Gently sweep your tongue along the thigh down to the Zusanli acupoint below the knee. Zusanli is a sensitive point for women. If your partner has delicate skin, you can kiss this area several times. If their skin is rough, kissing it will feel like rubbing sandpaper with your tongue, so just skip it and kiss back down. Hehe.
Kiss back down to the groin and repeat the steps above. In military terms, this tactic is called "assistance." In bed, you should treat the woman as an "enemy, opponent." First, distract the "enemy's" attention, take the initiative, and guide the "enemy's" sensations to follow your tongue. Engage in guerrilla warfare on any part of her body—the "mountains" (breasts), "hills" (lower abdomen), "valleys" (inner thighs), and "forests" (pubic area). Gradually, you'll notice the woman starting to curl up, her legs moving involuntarily, and she moaning. More sensitive women will begin to experience vaginal lubrication.
After about ten minutes of this "assistance," begin the main attack!
Through this "assistance," you've essentially overcome the woman's shyness and eliminated her psychological defenses. At this point, she'll be in a state of wanting to resist but also accepting. The man can then enter the main offensive and begin the direct assault. At this point, the woman should take the initiative, spreading her legs into a V-shape, ideally arching them backward to expose her entire genitals to the man. There's nothing to be ashamed of; in fact, this slight initiative can provide the man with greater motivation and engagement.
Once the woman has raised and spread her legs, the man should first target several key areas: the perineum, labia, and vaginal opening. The perineum is located at the connection between the vagina and anus. Although the skin in this area is taut, it is extremely sensitive. Use a moist tongue to gently lick this area. When kissing the woman's inner thighs, she will feel a tingling or numb sensation from top to bottom around the vaginal opening; when kissing the perineum, she will experience a comfortable, expanding sensation from bottom to top. When kissing a woman's vulva, if you can overcome your psychological barriers, you can suddenly lick and touch her anus with your tongue. This will surely excite her greatly. If you have psychological barriers, lick upwards from the vulva to the labia. At this point, most women will be very wet. The vaginal fluid is usually clear and thin; if you like, you can drink it (not a joke). It's freshly secreted and not dirty.
How should you kiss the labia? At this point, don't use your hands. Use your tongue to gently pry open the woman's labia majora separately (some women have smaller labia majora, or their labia may already be parting on their own when they are more aroused). Take one labia majora into your mouth and use your tongue to sweep it around in your mouth, paying attention to both the inside and outside of the labia. Then switch to the other labia and repeat the process. Finally, turn your body slightly to the side, so that your lips are parallel to the woman's labia. Gently take both labia majora into your mouth at the same time and suck on them together. Use your tongue to make insertion, withdrawal, and sweeping motions between the two labia. The woman will feel incredibly comfortable. The previous text discussed how to kiss a woman's labia. Remember, when kissing the labia, try to suck them as much as possible into your mouth, gently sweeping and licking them with your tongue. The woman will find the labia particularly itchy, and she'll want you to kiss more areas and a wider area. Ignore her; just keep kissing. Few women will say, "Honey, kiss me there, kiss me there..."
While they're enjoying it, you can gently bite her labia. The flesh is in your mouth; whether to bite and how to bite is entirely up to you. But don't bite too hard; it should be just right—enough to make her suddenly scream, essentially ruining the sensation she's built up.
Why would you want to ruin a woman's sensations? Male sexual arousal is achieved through the friction of the eyes and genitals. This direct stimulation allows men to quickly reach orgasm, which can be represented graphically as Mount Everest, rising and falling vertically. Female sexual arousal, on the other hand, is built up through the ears (sweet words) and the mind (imagination and feeling). Achieving orgasm requires repeated stimulation and accumulation. Graphically, this can be represented as the Yunnan-Guizhou Plateau, a trapezoid.
After the previous round of kissing, the woman has reached a certain point of arousal and is a little dazed. Being too dazed isn't good either, because when a woman is dazed, she won't know who is kissing her, haha! Just kidding. A light bite can wake her from her dazed state, allowing her to accept your continued stimulation in a semi-conscious state, making her sexual arousal come faster and accumulate more intensely next time. This technique should be repeated when licking a woman's vulva, but don't do it too frequently, or you might get kicked off the bed. Hey! Be careful when biting; the labia are very delicate. When
you lightly bite a woman's labia, she'll definitely let out a startled "Ah!" and her body will twitch. Before she can speak, quickly press your lips to her vaginal opening. This will make her feel a warm and comfortable sensation throughout her genitals, turning her initial "Ah" into a soft "Oh." This creates a feeling of wanting to curse but not being able to, wanting to scream but not daring to—it's so much fun!
Once you've "conquered" a woman's "outer strongholds" (perineum, labia, anus, etc.), you can begin the "Xuzhou-Bengbu Campaign." In sexual terminology, the female vagina is sometimes referred to as a "clam (labia)," which is quite descriptive, and indeed, there is a "pearl" (clitoris) inside.
As mentioned above, after gently biting the woman's labia, quickly block the vaginal opening with your lips; this can give the woman a warm and comfortable feeling. Now it's time to get to work. You should gently separate her labia with your thumbs to expose the vaginal opening, and use your tongue to circle around the vaginal opening, sometimes lightly, sometimes firmly, and sometimes with your entire lips pressed against it. Remember, never blow air into the woman's vagina; it's not fun and can easily lead to problems.
At this point, the woman's attention is entirely focused on her vagina, and her clitoris begins to swell and become visible (some women have very small clitoriss that are not easily visible; if you encounter such a woman, don't bother trying). If you haven't kissed her clitoris yet, she will only feel the swelling and probably won't feel much. At this point, you can pause and not kiss the vaginal opening, but instead gently tease her clitoris a few times with the tip of your wet tongue to arouse her sensation from within the clitoris. The woman will moan softly a few times. Then you can go back to kissing her vaginal opening and labia. At this point, the woman's clitoris has just been stimulated and she will be eager for you to kiss her clitoris again.
Remember, under no circumstances should you kiss her clitoris at this point. Keep her in that state of arousal. The man should begin gently licking upwards from the vulva towards the clitoris, slowly and carefully. When the tongue reaches the vaginal opening, move it from side to side, parting the labia as you continue licking upwards, gradually approaching the clitoris.
At this point, the woman should be telling herself, "I'm almost there, almost there, hurry, hurry and take it in." No matter what she says or pulls at you, just don't kiss the clitoris. When you're almost there, use the tip of your tongue—the lighter the better—to lightly brush and touch her clitoris (with a little saliva on your tongue). Then, immediately reverse the direction and lick towards the vaginal opening. This will drive her crazy with anticipation, and her anticipation will naturally excite her.

When kissing the vaginal opening, men with long tongues can try inserting their tongues into the woman's vagina and stirring them around. Stirring them however you like, as long as you can get it moving. Women often enjoy this, but men should be careful with the base of their tongues; sticking it out too far can cause injury. Men with wide, thick tongues (like me, poor thing!) can only insert a small portion, but they can curl their tongues up to insert it. Although it's not much, it can make the woman feel very full. The sensation of a wide, thick tongue sweeping upwards from the vaginal opening is something men with long, thin tongues can't provide. Men with long, thin tongues can gently tease the cleft of the woman's labia with the tip of their tongue, which is also very pleasurable. Each method has its own merits.
Now you can focus on getting the "pearl." Move your tongue up to the woman's clitoris and concentrate. Many men may think that simply licking a woman's clitoris vigorously with their tongue is enough to bring her to orgasm, but this is a misconception. The clitoris is very sensitive; if you lick it too hard, she will experience more pain than pleasure, which is pointless. There
are a few things to keep in mind when kissing the clitoris: your tongue must be wet, gentle, and pointed; keep your tongue moist (the water prepared in Chapter 1 will come in handy now); and lick the clitoris gently, using only the tip of your tongue. To penetrate the clitoris, use the five-word technique: "point, flick, pluck, press, stir." Pointing refers to gently touching the tip of the clitoris with the tip of your tongue; flicking refers to flicking the clitoris upwards from below with your tongue; plucking refers to gently plucking the clitoris from side to side with your tongue; pressing refers to occasionally pressing the clitoris with your tongue, just slightly lowering it; stirring refers to stirring around the clitoris with your tongue while it's in your mouth.
At this point, you need to pay attention to the woman's reactions, as she will be very engaged and excited. You can feel a throbbing sensation under her clitoris, which is very noticeable when you're holding it in your mouth. Don't interrupt her sensations abruptly; keep the movements even, as sudden, fast-paced movements can easily bring her to orgasm.
During sex, men often want it to last longer and ejaculate later for greater comfort. Women, like men, also want this pleasurable sensation to last longer. Therefore, it's important to be understanding of this feeling in women. Only use a faster pace to help them reach orgasm if they strongly insist on giving in or if your tongue becomes numb from kissing for too long.
Here's a very useful technique: Don't imitate the way male protagonists in adult films lick clitoris indiscriminately, and don't always kiss a woman's clitoris in the same way as described above. When you feel you can give her an orgasm, you should use your entire lip to hold the woman's clitoris in your mouth. Press your upper lip against the base of the pubic hair above the clitoris, and use your lower lip to separate the woman's labia, getting as close to the vaginal opening as possible (depending on how big your lips are, hehe). Hold the woman's clitoris in your mouth (leaving some space), making the woman feel like her clitoris is floating in your mouth.
Using the five-word mantra to launch the attack, this is the most meaningful moment for a man to lick a woman's clitoris, because you can control her level of arousal and orgasm through your lips and tongue. Usually, I lick for a round until she has a sudden spasm, and when she's about to climax, I gently release her, leaving her clitoris, making her scream in anger. Or, as soon as I release her, and when she's about to scream, I immediately put my mouth on her again, and she's so comfortable that she can't scream anymore.

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