How to get your girlfriend to go from accepting oral sex to getting used to it, and then to loving it?

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How to get your girlfriend to accept oral sex, get used to it, and eventually love it?

Part 1: My First Oral Sex Experience.

She was my ex-girlfriend. We were both studying in Wuhan at the time, and we started dating during our senior year. My first time was with her. She was very innocent and didn't know anything at first. She didn't know about emergency contraception, embalming pills, the safe period, or any positions. Although I had no prior sexual experience, I knew all this basic knowledge. I also watched a lot of porn in the dorm during college, sometimes with both of us in the dorm turning off the lights and watching together. Anyway, we rented a place together. In our senior year, we had fewer classes, and when we weren't going to job fairs, we spent almost every day at home, having sex constantly. We often went on MOP together. Once, I saw a post with the word "kj" in it and asked what it meant. I said it meant oral sex. At that time, she didn't understand. After I explained, she finally understood, and then she had an incredulous look on her face. I dug out some old porn videos from my hard drive and picked one to show my girlfriend. I didn't let her watch Japanese ones because most Japanese porn videos have men giving women oral sex, some even have 69 positions, and the men are ugly and the women aren't much to look at either. I found them disgusting. I chose a legitimate American porn video, the kind produced by a reputable company with clear visuals and super handsome and beautiful men and women. Of course, it didn't have any scenes of men giving women oral sex (I admit I had ulterior motives :). Later, I suggested that my girlfriend give me oral sex many times, but she always refused, until one day…

My girlfriend is actually quite insecure around me. She's always been very sensitive, feeling that I don't love her enough and afraid that I'll leave her. That day, lying in bed, I brought up oral sex again. She hesitated for a moment, then slid down to my waist and slowly took my penis into her mouth. I looked at her in surprise. To be honest, I always said I wanted her to give me oral sex, but it was just talk. Although I've always had this kind of desire and even fantasy, I never expected my girlfriend to give me oral sex, let alone kiss me every day. This made me a little doubtful. But now my girlfriend is curled up next to me giving me oral sex, just like in porn. I was very surprised.

If you ask me how my first time performing oral sex felt, to be honest, apart from a strong sense of psychological satisfaction, it wasn't comfortable at all. My girlfriend had no idea what to do with my long, thick penis; all she knew was to hold it in her mouth, wrapping it with her lips, but not tightly enough, leaving me completely numb. She didn't know how to use her tongue, nor how to lick the groove under the glans. Her teeth kept hurting me, and you know, the glans is very tender. Several times it hurt, but I endured it without complaining, since my girlfriend was already performing oral sex on me. For a full half hour, my girlfriend kept her eyes tightly closed, as if she was mustering the courage to do something, and she was drooling profusely. Later, I pulled away, and my girlfriend opened her eyes and asked, "What happened?" I said, "Let's do sex instead," and then we ended up having sex.

2.

After the first time, oral sex became a regular occurrence. My girlfriend loved me very much and didn't think my genitals were dirty. This aligns with the views of many friends in the post "Do Women Like Licking Men's Penis?". If a woman loves you, she'll do anything for you, provided your penis is clean. So, every time I asked for oral sex, she would first ask, "Have you washed it?" After watching a few aesthetically pleasing American adult films that I found, she began to master the techniques. She always knew to hold and suck my penis tightly, making it feel even tighter than her vagina. I could see her face concave from the force of her sucking. She gradually learned how to make me feel most comfortable, knowing that the glans was the most sensitive spot, and how to kiss the groove under the glans with her tongue. She glided deftly on my penis, even knowing the rhythm of oral sex. After a series of up-and-down sucking motions with her mouth, she would gently touch the glans with her teeth. I don't know where she learned this trick; maybe it was in an article we read online about how women perform oral sex. From that moment on, I knew how pleasurable oral sex is for women—it's consistently comfortable and lasts a long time. Sex with her usually lasts 10 to 20 minutes, sometimes even less, but oral sex with me always lasts 40 minutes to an hour. I think it's because during sex I'm impatient and can't control myself; when I'm really enjoying it, I don't want to stop and keep thrusting until I'm over quickly. But when I'm really enjoying oral sex, she might get tired, change positions, or slow down. After I turned on the heat, my stimulation wasn't as intense, so I could last a long time without ejaculating. To be honest, during sex, I'm always worried about ejaculating too quickly, which puts a lot of pressure on me. During oral sex, if I didn't ejaculate after half an hour, I even felt my penis was less sensitive and numb. Seeing that my partner seemed tired, I wanted to ejaculate sooner. During oral sex, I often hoped she would take the entire penis in. I knew that if she took it all in, it would hit her throat and make her nauseous. At first, I would gently hold the back of her head and slowly press her head down. She would open her mouth wide and take it all in. When she took it all in, my heart would race. The satisfaction was indescribable. But after just a few seconds, she would frown and shake her head, indicating she was having difficulty breathing. Okay, I had to let go quickly, and then she would take her mouth out and gasp for breath. If I was too engrossed and took my hand out too slowly, she would frantically press down on my legs, quickly pull her mouth out, crawl to the edge of the bed, and gag a few times until tears came out. Then she would come over and hit me, yelling: "You bad guy :)..."

But unlike in porn, every time I was about to ejaculate, I would yell: "I'm coming!" and then she would pull her mouth out. I would use my hand to masturbate a few times and ejaculate on my stomach. Every time this happened, she would look at me apologetically because she felt that I had used my hand to ejaculate, which was bad for my health. After that, every time I yelled that I was about to ejaculate, she would still continue to masturbate faster a few times, pull her mouth out at the moment of ejaculation, and then look at the stream of white liquid gushing out with a surprised look. I never ejaculated in her mouth or even made her swallow it (things changed later, but that's another story), nor did I ever ejaculate on her face—that would be too perverted. Besides, I frequently kissed her mouth and face…

I remember the cutest thing about her was after I finished giving me oral sex, I'd lie exhausted beside her, and she'd lean in, hands on her hips, and whine, "Kiss!" I'd usually turn my face away, and then a flurry of punches would land on me, and she'd yell, "Look at you, you don't even want to kiss me anymore!" Then I'd run to the bathroom to brush my teeth.
III. Falling in Love with Oral Sex

After graduation, I started working overtime frequently, often seven days a week, not getting home until the early hours of the morning. After showering, I'd be too tired to move. My girlfriend still had a year before graduation, and besides classes, she'd stay home waiting for me. Sometimes she'd make sexual advances, but I was too weak to do it, and she often wasn't satisfied, even though we used to have sex at least twice a day. So this often happens: when I'm half asleep, I feel my penis being manipulated. I know it's my girlfriend. I open my eyes to look at her, but I'm too lazy to move. She's focused on giving me oral sex, occasionally closing her eyes as if in a trance. I know she's probably fantasizing about me having sex with her while giving me oral sex, about me penetrating her body. Sometimes she'll grab my hand and let me touch her breasts, while her genitals are already soaking wet. When I'm about to ejaculate, she'll moan softly as I slightly twist my body, and she'll hold my hand and press it hard against her breasts. I realize that my girlfriend gets satisfaction and even pleasure from giving me oral sex. She's started to enjoy giving me oral sex, and before each time we have sex, she always "kisses" my penis first.

I don't remember which time it was, but when I was in the throes of excitement and spasms of orgasm, I didn't remind my girlfriend that I was about to come. My semen shot directly into her mouth. She felt it, paused for a moment, but didn't pull her mouth out. Then she continued to thrust hard, and the next few spurts of semen shot in as well. And so, for the first time, I ejaculated inside MM's mouth, sending all my semen inside. After I finished, MM tightly wrapped my penis in her mouth and slowly pulled it out, then spat it into the wastebasket next to the bed. Because it was sticky, MM spat it out several times before she could get all the semen out. Then she raised her head, her hair disheveled, and laughed, calling out, "Husband~" Her voice was muffled because there was still a layer of semen stuck in her mouth. I lovingly stroked her head. Ever since MM fell in love with oral sex, it was usually MM who asked for oral sex. Sometimes when I was too tired from work and came home, I didn't even want to do oral sex, because MM would either have me lie on my side and she would masturbate from the side, or I would lie flat and she would lie on top of me. I couldn't turn over in either of these positions, which was very uncomfortable when I was particularly tired. MM would try her best to find a more comfortable position for me. Sometimes my urethra gets a little red, and my girlfriend asks if I will get an infection from always giving me oral sex. After that, whenever she gives me oral sex, if I turn over or frown, she will always ask: Are you uncomfortable? If you are uncomfortable, then we won't do it. It's all my fault. You are already so tired and I still messed around.

MM seems to treat her mouth like a hole, just like her vagina. Sometimes she has me lie on my side and give her oral sex. She says this is her favorite position because if I lie flat, my penis is pointing in the opposite direction to her throat, and every time I take it in a little deeper, it hits the upper palate. Also, MM has to kneel between my legs, which gets tiring after a while. But if I'm on my side, MM can lie down, and my penis is pointing in the direction of her throat, so she can take it in as deep as she wants. But there's a drawback to this: her head can only move back and forth, not up and down, which makes her neck sore after a while. At this point, she stops, puts her head on the bed to rest, and then takes my penis in her mouth tightly, pats my butt, and then I lie on my side and move my hips in and out of her mouth, just like our favorite side-lying sex position, except I'm penetrating her mouth instead of her vagina. However, this was only a minority of cases. It was difficult to control the force and depth when I inserted my penis into her mouth, and it was easy to make her feel nauseous. Also, she needed to hold my penis tightly in her mouth, otherwise I would move her whole head. So, after a few thrusts, once her neck felt more comfortable, she would signal me to stop and continue giving me oral sex.

At that time, I felt very lucky because I had a woman who always thought of me and was willing to do anything for me, a woman who only knew how to give and never asked for anything in return.

And that's why the breakup afterwards felt so painful…

IV. Breakup

When I joined the company, I was one of the best in my cohort. Soon, the company decided to transfer me to Beijing. The night before I left, we made love passionately. She bit my penis hard for the first time, and that night I was in tears. After coming to Beijing, I could only go back every few months. The distance made my feelings for her slowly fade, but she still thought of me every day, depended on me, and waited for me to return to Wuhan. Gradually, I began to have a premonition that I would break up with MM. I'm a very career-driven person; I hope one day I can buy IBM. MM's whole world revolves around love and me. Besides, her education level is relatively low—she only has a college diploma. I admit, I'm a selfish man…

In winter, I went back to Wuhan. I decided to break up with MM. At that time, I already had a more beautiful and outstanding girlfriend in Beijing. I went back to settle some things. I knew that for MM, her whole world was about to collapse…

When MM heard my decision, she cried so hard she forgot everything. She asked me to hug her one last time. What followed was one last, passionate lovemaking session. I was on top of her, thrusting forcefully. She cried out, "Don't leave me…"
I'm done writing. I only intended to write about oral sex, because during my year-long relationship with MM, she gave me oral sex countless times. Those feelings from before are still deeply buried in my heart. But I couldn't stop writing later. It's been half a year since I broke up with my girlfriend, and I still cry every time I think about it. I left her because of my career, leaving behind a woman who was perfect in both love and sex (I once saw an online test that said Scorpio men and Pisces women have the highest sexual compatibility).

My current girlfriend is excellent and beautiful, but she has never given me oral sex, nor have I asked for it. I'm starting to become like millions of white-collar workers in Beijing, suppressing my primal desires and freedom, living a so-called wealthy and noble life, but I would rather go back to the past...

Looking back, I realize I've written something that's neither fish nor fowl. The beginning was very professional, but the later parts became more and more like a novel. This is the first time I've written something this long since graduation, and it brought back so many memories... I have to go to work tomorrow—no, it's today. Time to sleep. I'll post this here for now and come back later when I have time. Let's see if you want it to be purely narrative or more like a novel. I'll revise it later.

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