Ethical views on threesomes and casual sex between spouses (repost)

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Sex is characterized by change, referring to the exchange of sexual actions, positions, and partners to enhance pleasure and diversify sexual stimulation. This changeability allows people to maximize the exploitation and value of sexual resources. The changeability of sex has two layers: first, the variation in sexual actions and techniques; and second, the variation in sexual partners.
Sex is an important source of emotional resources. With time and age, if sex lacks new techniques and variety, remains unchanged, lacks passion, or becomes merely a perfunctory activity, the emotional resources created by sex will dry up, leading to decreased sexual interest and reduced pleasure.
When people consistently use the same sexual partner, even with numerous variations in techniques, the acquired sexual resources gradually become insufficient, resulting in limited emotional resources—a lack of novelty, passion, and vitality. At this point, to obtain higher-quality emotional resources, people must seek the second layer of the changeability of sex: changing sexual partners. Changing partners yields significantly higher levels of emotional resources. However, in today's society, casually changing sexual partners is bound to be unacceptable according to social ethics and morality. Furthermore, if both spouses change partners without each other's knowledge, it will have a significant impact on the family and life, potentially leading to divorce. Conversely, facing the same sexual partner for a long time will inevitably lead to a loss of novelty. Yet, social ethics and morality restrict changing sexual partners. In this situation, how can couples maintain sexual passion and novelty without affecting their family, life, and current normalcy? This leads to the emergence of 3P; 3P or sex swapping becomes easier to explain.
Existence is its own justification. Everything that exists has its cause; nothing appears suddenly without reason. 3P and sex swapping are no exception. Couples engaging in 3P or sex swapping precisely aligns with the second aspect of sexual change: exchanging sexual partners. This is the fundamental reason for the existence of 3P and sex swapping. Through this method, both spouses can obtain high levels of spiritual resources and enjoyment, rekindling their passion. However, this lifestyle is not mainstream and is not recognized by current social ethics and morality. Therefore, couples engaging in this practice must be prepared both physiologically and psychologically. Only with thorough preparation can they achieve maximum pleasure through this exchange; otherwise, it will only backfire. Thus, couples currently proposing threesomes or swapping on forums are aiming to maximize the value of their spiritual resources, pursue a high quality of life, and maintain passion and motivation in their lives, not simply for sexual stimulation and indulgence. A good life is everyone's pursuit, and couples are no exception. Without disrupting their respective families and lives, and based on sincerity and understanding, couple swapping is a lifestyle choice and has its own rationale.

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