Tips and techniques for women's oral sex

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I really enjoy oral sex, especially giving women oral sex. I love seeing their expressions when I lick them, and I also enjoy tasting their vaginal fluids. Sometimes I also lick their anuses. I especially enjoy it when women sit on my head, with their entire buttocks and genitals on my face. This gives me a feeling of being conquered, and it also enhances the woman's sense of dominance. But ultimately, it's all about enhancing the enjoyment of our relationship. I wanted to share this with everyone in the hopes that you can learn something from it.

First, preparations before oral sex:

Sex is a wonderful thing. If you're not just doing it for release, you should create some conditions and an atmosphere for it, such as doing it at night and dimming the lights.

Both of you should take a shower first, especially the woman, because the female genital area has a more complex structure with many folds, making it easier for dirt to accumulate. So, when showering, make sure to open the labia majora and minora and clean them thoroughly.

Men should play some music and wait for her in bed. After showering, women should get into the habit of applying perfume to their genitals, but avoid using too much or too strong a perfume, as the man's nose is closest to the genitals when he's licking her, and a strong perfume can easily choke him. Also, avoid applying perfume to the labia, as the scent of vaginal fluid isn't created by perfume. Spray perfume on your palms and apply it to the pubic hair and inner thighs; a light application to the anus is also beneficial.

Prepare two towels, one large and one small. Place the large towel on the bed for the woman to lie on, and the small towel for wiping away sweat and moisture. Keep a glass of water nearby so she can easily reach it if thirsty, avoiding interrupting her experience.

Secondly, regarding sensitive areas:

Don't assume that licking the genitals means immediately kissing her clitoris upon entering the bedroom. Women's bodies react slowly; give them time to adjust. The clitoris is extremely sensitive, and stimulating it too early will be less effective.

Personally, I think the order should be like this: First, hug her and say a few sweet nothings, like "You're so beautiful," or "You're so sexy," to make her feel comfortable and relaxed. Then, start kissing her lips, earlobes, behind her ears, neck, breasts, lower abdomen, and waist. Pay attention to spending more time on her breasts, as they are a very important erogenous zone.

At this point, she should feel a slight tingling sensation all over her body, and you should start approaching her genitals. Begin gently licking her thighs with your tongue, starting from the outer labia majora, along the cleft of her thighs, from bottom to top, down to her hip bones (on both sides of her lower abdomen). Repeat this about ten times. She will feel very itchy and tingly, and there will be a soreness near the vaginal opening. Continue licking her thighs down to the Zusanli acupoint below the knee. Zusanli is also an erogenous zone for women. If her skin is delicate, you can kiss this area more often. If her skin is rough, it will feel like rubbing sandpaper with your tongue, so skip it and move back to the erogenous zone. Hehe.

Return to the groin area and repeat the actions described above. Make sure her sensations follow the flow of your tongue.
Third, overcome a woman's shyness

. After the previous activities, her psychological defenses should be largely broken down. At this point, she will be in a state of feigned resistance, and the man can begin his offensive.
The woman should take the initiative, spreading her legs into a V-shape, ideally arching them back to expose her entire genitals to the man. There's nothing to be ashamed of; in fact, this slight initiative can provide the man with greater motivation and engagement. Once the woman has raised and

spread her legs, the man should first target several key areas: the perineum, labia, and vaginal opening. The perineum is the connection between the vagina and anus. Although the skin in this area is taut, it is extremely sensitive. Gently lick this area with a moist tongue. When kissing the groin area, the woman will feel a tingling or numb sensation from top to bottom around the vaginal opening; when kissing the perineum, she will experience a comfortable, expanding sensation from bottom to top. When kissing a woman's vulva, if you can overcome your psychological barriers, you can surprise her by licking and touching her anus with your tongue. This will guarantee she screams with excitement.

If you have psychological barriers, lick upwards from the vulva to the labia. At this point, most women will be very wet. The vaginal fluid will be clear and thin; if you like, you can drink it (not a joke). It's freshly secreted and not dirty.
How should you kiss the labia? Don't touch them yet. Use your tongue to gently pry open the labia majora (some women have smaller labia majora, or the labia may separate on their own when they are more aroused). Take one labia into your mouth and sweep your tongue over it, paying attention to both the inside and outside. Then repeat the process with the other labia. Finally, turn your body slightly to the side, aligning your lips with the woman's labia. Gently take both labia into your mouth simultaneously, sucking on them. Use your tongue to make indentation and withdrawal motions between the labia; this will feel incredibly pleasurable for her.

Now it's time to start. Gently use your thumb to spread her labia apart, exposing her vaginal opening. Use your tongue to circle around the vaginal opening, varying the pressure, sometimes pressing your entire lip against it. Remember, never blow air into the woman's vagina; it's not fun and can easily lead to problems.

At this point, the woman's attention will be entirely focused on her vagina, and her clitoris will begin to swell and become visible (some women have very small clitoriss that are not easily visible; if you encounter such a woman, don't bother trying). If you haven't kissed her clitoris yet, she will only feel a swelling and probably won't experience much sensation. At this point, you can pause briefly from kissing the vaginal opening. Instead, gently tease her clitoris a few times with the tip of your wet tongue, arousing her sensation from the clitoris. The woman will let out a few soft moans. Then, you can return to kissing her vaginal opening and labia. At this time, the woman's clitoris has just been stimulated and she will be eager for you to kiss it again.

Remember, under no circumstances should you kiss her clitoris again at this moment. You need to leave the woman half-suspended in that feeling, and the man should begin to gently lick upwards from the woman's perineum towards the clitoris, slowly. When the tongue reaches the vaginal opening, move it from side to side, parting the labia while continuing to lick upwards, gradually approaching the clitoris.
At this point, the woman should be telling herself, "We're almost there, almost there! Hurry, hurry and take it in!" Ignore her cries and pleas; just avoid kissing her clitoris. When you're almost there, gently, as lightly as possible, use the tip of your tongue to lightly brush and touch her clitoris (your tongue should have a little saliva on it). Then, in the opposite direction, lick towards the vaginal opening. This will drive her crazy with anticipation, and her anticipation will naturally arouse her.

When kissing the vaginal opening, men with long tongues can try inserting their tongues into the woman's vagina and stirring them around. Stir however you like, as long as you can get it moving. Women really enjoy this, but men should be careful with the back of their tongues; sticking it out too far can cause injury. Men with thick tongues (like me, poor thing!) can only insert a small portion, but they can curl their tongues and insert them. Even though it's not much, it can make the woman feel very full. Furthermore, the sensation of a broad tongue sweeping upwards from the vaginal opening is something a man with a long, thin tongue cannot provide. A man with a long, thin tongue can use the tip to gently tease the cleft of the labia, which is also very pleasurable; each has its own merits.

Now you can focus on capturing the "pearl." Move your tongue up to the clitoris and concentrate. Many men may think that simply licking the clitoris vigorously will bring a woman to orgasm, but this is a misconception. The clitoris is very sensitive; if you lick too hard, she will experience more pain than pleasure, which is pointless.

There are a few things to keep in mind when kissing the clitoris: the tongue must be wet, light, and pointed. Keep your tongue moist (the water prepared in Chapter 1 will come in handy now), and lick the clitoris gently, using only the tip of your tongue. The key to attacking the clitoris is the five-word technique: "point, tease, flick, press, stir." "Point" refers to lightly touching the clitoris with the tip of your tongue.
Gently touch the tip of the woman's clitoris; flicking refers to using the tongue to flick upwards from under the clitoris; teasing involves using the tongue to tease the clitoris from side to side; pressing involves occasionally pressing down on the clitoris with the tongue, just enough to slightly reduce its pressure; stirring involves using the tongue to stir around the clitoris while it is in your mouth.

At this point, you need to be aware of the woman's reactions, as she is already very engaged and excited. You can feel a slight throbbing under her clitoris, which is very noticeable when you are holding it in your mouth. Don't interrupt her sensations abruptly; keep the movements even, as sudden, fast-paced movements can easily bring her to orgasm.

Men often want sex to last longer and ejaculate later for greater comfort. Women at this stage are similar, wanting this pleasurable sensation to last longer. Therefore, be understanding of this feeling, unless she strongly requests you to "give" her, or your tongue becomes numb from kissing for too long, in which case a faster pace can help her reach orgasm. Here's a very effective technique: Don't imitate the random licking of clitoris like the male protagonist in pornographic films, and don't always kiss the clitoris using the methods described above. Once you've done these actions well enough to give her an orgasm, you should use your entire lip to engulf her clitoris. Press your upper lip against the base of the pubic hair above the clitoris, and use your lower lip to separate her labia, getting as close to the vaginal opening as possible (depending on the size of your lips, hehe). Enclose the clitoris in your mouth (leaving some space), making her feel like it's floating inside.

Use the five-word technique to launch your attack. This is the most meaningful moment for a man licking a woman's clitoris because you can control her arousal and orgasm through your lips and tongue. Usually, I lick for a while until she has a sudden spasm, and just as she's about to climax, I gently release her clitoris, making her scream in frustration. Or, just as she's about to scream, I immediately put it back in her mouth, and she's so comfortable she can't scream anymore. How proud you feel when you can control a woman's emotions! However, don't go too far, or she might kick you off the bed.

When licking a woman's clitoris, you can simultaneously stroke her pubic hair, which feels very good; you can also gently tease her anus with your fingers; or gently insert your fingers into her vagina and stir; you can also reach up and grab her breasts with both hands. These are all actions that can make a woman feel even more comfortable, what's called "encircling the enemy to attack their reinforcements" in military terms.

At this point, whatever you ask of a woman, she will agree. If she doesn't agree, stop these actions, and she'll definitely agree in her haste, depending on how unreasonable your request is. I usually ask her to "go to the back door," but she never agrees: you can make her beg you to give her an orgasm, hehe, watching her sweetly beg you to give her quickly will make you feel very conquering. Then, while shaking your head, you quickly lick with your tongue, and the woman's thighs will squeeze tighter and tighter (ladies, pay attention, if your boyfriend tells you his neck hurts the next day, it's because you squeezed it, hmph), then a strong spasm, and then her body relaxes. If you're really interested, just hold her clitoris in your mouth and don't move it. Just suck on it, but don't use your tongue to do anything or touch it. At this time, the clitoris is very engorged and swollen, and extremely sensitive during orgasm. Touching it will make her feel "pleasurably" painful. Unless you want to really "punish" her, then keep licking and watch her happily dodge and weave.

Female orgasms can last a long time, from ten to several tens of seconds. They'll lie motionless on the bed, sometimes even convulsing. At this time, go do whatever you need to do, like wiping sweat or drinking water. Because at this point, the woman is practically oblivious to orgasms; her mind is completely focused on extreme excitement, and there's no room for you. When you come back, she'll have just recovered.

After a woman's orgasm from licking her clitoris, she desperately wants something like an eggplant inserted into her vagina. Need I say more? But these days, eggplants are unreliable; you'll have to rely on yourself. If you become "soft" because you're too focused on licking your partner's vulva, you can ask her to give you oral sex for a short while. Once you've regained your erection, you can move on to something else.

Not every girl is suitable for vulvar licking. Some girls may have excessive vaginal discharge and a strong body odor due to hormonal imbalances. Even after washing, their genitals may still have a strong smell, which is difficult for men to accept. I wouldn't like it either. Women with this characteristic should be understanding.
Also, avoid vulvar licking a few days before a woman's period, as vaginal discharge usually increases during menstruation. Licking her vulva at this time, with the discharge mixed in, is not hygienic. You can play some music while licking her vulva and kiss her in rhythm with the music. Subtly suggest that the rhythm of your licking is inspired by the music, allowing her to feel your kisses while listening to music. This will make her feel romantic and comfortable. Try some music with a strong rhythm to see which one suits your kissing frequency best. Personally, I recommend the guzheng piece "Wild Geese Descending on the Sandbank," the pipa piece "Ambush from Ten Sides," and the guitar piece "Hotel California." Definitely avoid "Moon Reflected in the Second Spring"—that melancholic music will ruin the atmosphere.

Both men and women need practice in clitoral stimulation. Once you're unfamiliar with it, twice you'll get used to it, and three times... well, you'll run out of ideas. All you need is emotional investment. Don't think clitoral

stimulation is shameful; you should know that it can provide a great sense of conquest. On the other hand, men need a sense of conquest, and so do women. This allows them to be more engaged, proactive, and cooperative during sex. Isn't a man's sense of conquest enough? Giving a woman clitoral stimulation not only shows a man's chivalry but also gives her satisfaction and a sense of conquest—why not?

If you want to show your girlfriend more love, respect, and equality, and you can overcome any chauvinistic tendencies, you can change positions—what I call the "enhanced version." Start by having the woman lie on the bed and perform basic genital licking. After stimulating various areas, the man lies on the bed with his head elevated using pillows, allowing the woman to "ride" on his head (hehe, this is truly riding on the man's head and dominating him). The man licks the woman's vulva with his face upwards. This method allows the woman to more actively adjust the stimulated areas, but it can be tiring for the man, as he often has to look up to kiss her, which can cause neck soreness.
However, this method of genital licking is several times more stimulating and satisfying for the woman than lying on the bed. Imagine from the woman's perspective: a man she loves is lying between her legs, or more broadly, a man is being ridden between her legs and licking her vulva—how stimulating, satisfying, and conquest-inducing that is! The man will feel the woman's vaginal fluids flowing down his chin, even his neck and the corners of his mouth. While licking, you can try gently rubbing the woman with the tip of your nose or your beard for a unique kind of stimulation.

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