What does a good sexual partner need to know?

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Generally speaking, sex can be divided into four categories: 1. Comfortable and loving sex; 2. Uncomfortable but loving sex; 3. Comfortable but not loving sex; 4. Uncomfortable and not loving sex. Whether it's a sexual relationship between spouses, lovers, partners, or casual acquaintances, ensuring comfort is a basic courtesy and respect. Simply satisfying one's own physiological needs while neglecting the other person's feelings is impolite, regardless of gender.

Just as men can sense the skill level of women, women can sense the differences in men's performance during sex. Therefore, it's important to improve one's own skills while engaging in casual sex.
Here are some methods I've collected and found useful in practice:

Kissing Techniques:
Everyone knows how to kiss. Some might say, "Isn't it just kissing? Who can't do that?" Yes, everyone knows how, but the experience varies from person to person. My current partner also did a lot of kissing and sucking on my tongue the first time we slept together, which made my tongue hurt for days (I really don't know how my ex taught me, but I've corrected it now). So, when kissing, don't start by kissing and shoving your tongue around in your mouth; it's neither elegant nor a good experience. The Japanese Adams divide kissing into seven steps. Of course, in practice, you don't have to follow the script exactly; just be flexible. The names and key points are as follows:
1. Adam's Kiss: Use a light, lingering touch to caress the other person's lips, corners of the mouth, and cheeks. Don't move left and right, but rather lightly touch and then move on to other areas.
2. Gentle Kiss: Relax the mouth muscles, then press your lips against the woman's lips, feeling their elasticity and softness.
3. Whisper Kiss: The focus is on the soft, smacking sound when the lips part.
4. Tongue Kiss: The man's tongue touches the woman's tongue, intertwining and caressing. No need for strength, just enjoy the smooth, sticky feeling (my favorite).
5. Deep Kiss: Increase pressure when kissing the cheek, then look into each other's eyes deeply.
6. Teasing Kiss: The woman extends her tongue without applying force, the man opens his mouth, his oral cavity like a vagina, and slowly inserts it.
7. Suction Cup Kiss: Forcefully suck on each other's oral cavity, lips completely sealed together, creating a vacuum in the mouth.

Having discussed lip stimulation, let's move on to breast stimulation. Breasts are a major erogenous zone for women, so they require careful attention. This includes stimulation through the hands, mouth, and penis.

1. Hand stimulation: This involves the fingertips, between the fingers, and the palm. 2. Techniques include kneading, grasping, pinching, lifting, pressing, rotating, and vibrating. 3. Directions: These can be up, down, left, right, clockwise, or counter-clockwise. The stimulation methods for each breast can differ.

2. Mouth stimulation: This involves the tongue and lips, using methods such as sucking, licking, and holding.

3. The penis can also stimulate the breasts through methods such as poking, pressing, rubbing, and flicking.

In practice, here are some sequences for stimulating the breasts: Stimulation from the front: The man rubs his face against the woman's breasts through her clothes. Generally, while rubbing her breasts with his face, she will hug him tightly. Then, while praising her affectionately, he gently removes her top and bra (if it's an open top, he does this while kissing, using his hands to unbutton it). He then rubs her breasts and kisses her. After rubbing her breasts to a certain point, he kisses one breast directly with his mouth and stimulates the nipple on the other side with his hand. After caressing the nipples, he stimulates the clitoris with his hand, guiding the woman's hands or head to the man's penis.
Stimulation from the back: The woman's back is against the man's chest, and they kiss. The man gently rubs her breasts from behind through her clothes, then slips his hands inside the clothes while kissing her, removing her bra. He rubs her breasts directly with his hands and kisses her neck, then kisses her again, finally stimulating the nipples.

Clitoral stimulation

requires understanding the genital structure, including the labia majora and minora, vagina, perineum, clitoris, and anus. Techniques

include: sliding finger technique, free-flowing finger technique, figure-eight technique, dotting technique, ring finger technique, and friction technique.

One step in clitoral stimulation: Place both hands on the inner thighs from the sides—stimulate the labia from bottom to top—then move them up and down in the middle—stimulate in a figure-eight motion around the clitoris—stimulate the clitoris with a tapping technique—rub with a ring finger—stimulate the clitoris with a patting technique—roll your fingers, pinching and gently lifting the clitoris with your thumb and forefinger—rub

. Of course, there's also massage and stimulation of other sensitive areas like the ears and lower back. Once everything is ready, it's time for the penis to enter. However, due to the unique structure and flexible contraction of the vagina, after penile insertion, the vagina can react and change its shape to match the size of the penis. Only when still can the vagina remember the shape of the penis and prepare for what happens next. Therefore, hold the penis still for a few seconds after insertion and don't move around. If you start thrusting immediately after insertion, it will feel like there's something in your body and may cause discomfort for the woman. Also, penile stimulation for women includes squeezing and vibration methods, so don't keep thrusting while the penis is inside.
For a woman to experience vaginal orgasm, the key is not the thrusting itself, but the rhythm. This highlights the importance of stillness—not only after penetration but also during intercourse. Pause briefly, hold a moment of stillness, and then resume thrusting.
For both partners, mutual caressing and pleasure are ideal. It shouldn't always be the man arousing the woman; he should also stimulate her natural desires. Respect her modesty while igniting her latent, genuine desires. Don't rush to ejaculate; don't just focus on bringing her to orgasm. The best approach is to keep her feeling comfortable. A woman

's orgasm is like a flower, requiring a process of blossoming. Before, during, and after intercourse, don't forget to caress her with your hands. Some compare women to musical instruments; the same instrument can produce different qualities depending on who plays it, so keep practicing!

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