The long road of not changing partners

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Seeing forum posts full of stories about sex, group sex, threesomes, and single men, I haven't seen anyone writing about experiences with non-switching partners. Is it because people generally dislike non-switching, or is there simply not a large audience for it?
Personally, I don't really accept sex; I can't imagine my partner having sex with someone else. Maybe it's male chauvinism, but I think non-switching partners can bring more excitement. Think about it, an ordinary person rarely sees real-life couples having sex, especially seeing it with their partner—it's like watching an adult film together, haha. But finding a suitable non-switching partner is really difficult.
I think the starting point should be the wife. With that couple, I only focus on the man because women are emotional creatures; whatever she finds acceptable, the woman doesn't matter to me. I care about the atmosphere; I don't want anything to happen with the woman. That's their love, and it's all beautiful. I think if we really find a suitable partner, it shouldn't be someone from the same city. I don't intend to continue this relationship to avoid unnecessary trouble later. I figure it'll get boring after one or two times. Also, I hope the couple we find shares our views; this is very important. It would be awkward if the other couple was always thinking about switching partners or was particularly open-minded. Sometimes I wonder if finding three couples would be better. That way, there wouldn't be awkward silences, and everyone's attention wouldn't be focused on the other couple's bed. The atmosphere might be better, haha. Just thinking about it... Actually, in my concept of couples' dating, it should be about two people experiencing and exchanging feelings with other couples. This experience isn't about switching partners. Maybe some people say that if you don't switch partners, you'll switch, but I think that's difficult. We're too stubborn and conservative, haha. I wonder how many people think like us! Pure, unchanging partners!
Let me introduce ourselves: my wife and I are in our 30s, from Beijing, and we don't smoke. We strongly dislike smoking. We don't have children. My wife is worried that having children will affect her figure, and since neither of us really likes children, we probably won't have any in the future. The search for a partner who shares the same interests is a long one, and I hope that after we start our travels, we'll meet that couple in the city we're traveling to.
Also, some might say, "What about videos? Can that compare to being there in person? It's just like watching a pornographic film. Besides, with all the hidden cameras these days, my colleagues and friends are constantly on 1024 and 91. If this gets exposed, I'll be a fool for life."

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