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In today's society, there are too many temptations. No one can guarantee that neither spouse will do anything that could harm the other. A husband may solicit prostitutes outside the home, and a wife may have an affair at home. Just because it didn't happen today doesn't mean it won't happen in the future. Just because it didn't happen during the honeymoon period doesn't mean it won't happen after many years of marriage. We see and hear far too much of this.

Whether it's the husband's or the wife's behavior, it constitutes smuggling, which will harm the other party and even endanger the stability of the family, thereby jeopardizing social stability. This is unacceptable.

From a fairness perspective, Chinese society is still a patriarchal society. It's okay for a man to have relationships with as many women as he wants, but if a woman has a relationship with another man, then the problem becomes serious, which is extremely unfair.

From a physiological perspective, women's sexual needs are far stronger than men's. However, constrained by traditional ideas, women dare not pursue happiness, which is a tragedy for society and for women themselves.

To solve these problems, we believe that couples making friends is a good way to resolve them and will be the mainstream way to handle male-female relationships in the future.

The history of human sexual culture is essentially a history of millennia of exploration into how to rationally control sex, a history of repeatedly oscillating between the extremes of sexual freedom and sexual repression, seeking a suitable balance. Due to disparities in wealth, social status, and age, different people have varying levels of understanding of sex. If everyone were to have absolute freedom and indulge in unrestrained sexual behavior, it would inevitably lead to chaos, which is not in anyone's fundamental interest. In this sense, marital mutual support, built on the family unit and respecting each individual's wishes, is a process that maximizes sexual satisfaction without excessive release. It embodies the equality and freedom of the new era and perfectly aligns with the needs of modern humanity, encompassing both social and familial control over sex. Therefore, it is not indulgence, but rather development and progress.

As long as the couple is loving, has a good relationship, and talks about everything without keeping secrets from each other, they can adopt a "let's all have fun together" approach, while adhering to the three principles of "adults," "voluntariness," and "privacy." With a positive attitude and progressive mindset, they can make high-quality friends, communicate fully, and build deep friendships. Then, when the time is right, what is meant to happen will happen naturally, and it will be a happy one.

Families that can engage in sexual exchange must be at a very high level! Firstly, the couple must have reached a consensus; otherwise, it wouldn't be called exchanging, it would be called theft. Secondly, they must genuinely care about each other's happiness and find joy in the other's happiness; otherwise, they wouldn't do it openly but secretly. Thirdly, they must want to maintain the existence of their family to negotiate and resolve their sexual concerns; otherwise, they would be indifferent and unmoved by sexual issues. Considering these points, sexual exchange is a good thing, not a poison in family life.

The main difference between humans and animals is that humans are shy and hide what they consider undesirable. As a result, the body is often covered by clothing, and the reproductive system is the most crucial part of this covering. Consequently, the function of the reproductive system gradually transformed from a simple reproductive function into a private behavior, and later became associated with love and affection. Sexual activity was then called sex, and it was believed to exist only between lovers. Because sex can result in death, in order to control the population, sex, marriage, and family were linked together, leading to the current perception that sex is the exclusive domain of married couples.

The family is a cell of social life and is essential for a stable life. However, maintaining harmony in a family involves many aspects, including love, obligations, and responsibilities. Therefore, the state has laws and regulations to protect marriage and maintain the family. But does sex really only exist within the family?

Sex is a need! Like hunger and thirst, it's simply a physiological requirement. Eating and drinking tea don't seem to be the exclusive domain of the family, and it's impossible for sex to exist only within the family and marriage! Therefore, extramarital sex and premarital sex are commonplace in today's society, and sex is often disguised as love, attempting to elicit sympathy and understanding.

Physiologically speaking, sex is unrelated to love or family; it's something you do when you want, simple and straightforward. Emotionally, sex and love are indeed inseparable; humans are emotional beings, and having sex with someone you have no feelings for should be a terrible thing! But it's not that love necessarily leads to sex, because sex is indeed higher than ordinary emotions. The families involved in sex swapping must be loving, which is why they consider each other's perspectives instead of simply seeking personal pleasure. Moreover, this love is a very high level; they would only agree to accept sex swapping if they considered the other person's happiness as their own!

Imagine this: if a wife enjoys getting her hair done, and a male hairdresser skillfully manipulates her hair with his hands, would the husband object? If a wife enjoys beauty treatments, and a male beautician massages and caresses her face and forehead with his smooth fingers, would the husband object? If a husband enjoys drinking and playing drinking games with several women, would the wife object? If a husband is tired and enjoys a massage or foot reflexology, and a female masseuse does the massage for him, would the wife object?

Some say that sexual disharmony is the root of all crime, which may not be true, but the inability to fulfill desires should be the root of all disharmony. There is a culture of eating, a variety of drinking, and a variety of sex. Therefore, swapping may indeed be a means to solve the bland life of many families in reality, where there is no passion but only affection.

It can be said that in these swap families, the men are tolerant and the women are generous. The families of those who can swap should be stable. I think they don't want to destroy anything, but just want to give each other a fresher and more exciting experience. Love is the mastermind behind their lives! I see nothing dirty or shameful in these families.

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