This is a very detailed development tutorial; I hope it will be helpful to everyone. (Repost)

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Years of planning and psychology work have broadened my perspective, but unfortunately, I've mainly used it on developing my wife's sexuality. While I don't have much experience with other women, my wife has accepted threesomes and we've had a few solo encounters. The main reason I haven't had threesomes is because she doesn't accept online dating, making it difficult to find suitable partners.

So, let me share the methods I've used, very specific, hoping to help those who are just starting out and feeling lost.
Initial Stage:
1. During recent sexual encounters, deliberately appear physically weak and unsatisfied with your wife. After 3-4 times, subtly bring up the topic of threesomes or casual sex. For example: "I feel a little guilty for not satisfying you the last few times. I finally understand why some husbands find other men to have sex with their wives." If your wife responds, continue the conversation until you reach the point where you don't mind her cheating or having sex with other men. For example, "If I ever really can't perform anymore, I'll find you a casual sex partner." These statements need to be tailored to your wife's personality. If your wife doesn't respond after bringing up the topic, or commonly calls you a pervert, just treat it as a joke. Don't delve too deeply into it at this stage. Repeat the previous steps until she responds.
Keywords: #Don't mind your wife being with other men# #You want to satisfy her, you love him# #Your wife seriously thinks about this topic#
This process can take a long or short time. My wife took about a month to start responding to this topic, and from then on, we could officially start talking about it.

2. Starting a conversation and taking action are two different things. At this point, you are still far from success, so don't be impatient. Next, you need to do the opposite of the first step. You need to be particularly vigorous during the next round of sex. This requires persistence. I did it every day, ejaculating twice each time, for about a week. I felt completely drained... In short, do your best to get your wife to ask you how you've recovered recently and how you're so vigorous. Then you can say, "I was thinking about what would happen if you found someone else. I was thinking that if I found you someone, I would definitely find a handsome guy with a big dick, but I was afraid you would get addicted and become less intimate with me. So, when I thought about these things, I felt that I couldn't lose and had to perform better." You still need to organize your own language, but you must have keywords, which will be mentioned separately below. This step demonstrates that you are genuinely considering the issue mentioned in step 1, letting your wife know this and observing her reaction. If she decisively refuses, for example, explicitly saying no, you need to repeat steps one and two. This process is quite challenging, so avoid being impatient. It will be smoother to proceed to step two only after you have had sufficient communication on this topic following step one. If your wife's attitude is enthusiastic, it means you can move on to the next step. If her attitude is ambiguous, it usually indicates ambiguity, and you don't need to delve deeper. Just end with phrases like "we'll see" or "as long as you don't run away." This shows that you are conditionally accepting and have given it considerable thought, but don't discuss it too deeply.
Keywords: #Thinking about other men having sex with my wife makes me particularly enthusiastic# #Wife doesn't explicitly refuse# #Conditionally allowing my wife to be with other men# #Avoid being impatient#

3. The first two steps lay the foundation; a good foundation will make the later steps smoother. Now that we have created the conditions, the next step is guidance. This step requires you and your wife to watch some 3P or adult films together. If your wife doesn't like them, reading novels is also a good option. The content needs to be carefully selected. It's best to avoid Japanese adult films here and watch more realistic videos shared online for a better experience. What you need to do is discuss the content with your wife while watching. For example, if we're watching a 3P film, I would discuss with my wife how a woman physiologically needs two men to be satisfied. The final conclusion of our discussion would be that my wife doesn't like two men having sex with her at the same time in a 3P, nor does she like the "sandwich" method; she only wants one man to finish before the second one continues. Of course, these little preferences will vary from person to person. The goal is to let your wife experience and fantasize. My wife doesn't actually like watching films or reading novels; she's rather lazy. I got her into deep fantasies by reading online novels to her while we were having sex. To cater specifically to my wife's tastes, I wrote six short stories, each one bringing her to multiple orgasms. Of course, she doesn't know I wrote them…
Keywords: #Exploring the projection of plots from films or novels onto my wife# #Encouraging my wife's deep fantasies#

4. Now we can get to the main point. In step three, you should have learned what types of films your wife finds irresistible. For example, after watching a film about aromatherapy massage, my wife couldn't stop thinking about it. She repeatedly said that if she could enjoy such a massage, she would definitely be aroused and want to be fucked at least once. To address this, we can steer the conversation towards real life. For example, you could say you know where to get such a massage and offer to take her. If she asks if it's true or if she's willing, you can offer some conditions. A conditional agreement is more powerful than an unconditional one. For example, you could say you have the right to stop at any time, that you won't just watch her being fucked by others, but that you'll also participate in a threesome or take turns fucking her, etc. At this point, whether your wife agrees or not is irrelevant. Even if you don't agree, just pretend to be reserved. Watch a few more movies and read a few more novels.
Keywords: #TailoredTreatment #GuidingToReality #ConditionalAgreement

5. It's time to set rules. Setting rules can make things inevitable and also show your love for your wife and your emphasis on marriage and family. The rules can be gradually outlined from the conversation in step four. Depending on your wife's attitude, you can also tell her directly. In my case, I once chatted with my wife on WeChat and then typed out our rules to her: First, it cannot damage the family and relationship; second, it must be safe, no diseases or pregnancy; third, it must be transparent, all activities must be with your consent; fourth, you can stop at any time. There are some other minor rules, which can be set according to your own sexual interests. However, don't be as formal as I wrote above. Just treat it like a chat. For example, I told my wife that she can't be taken by someone else, and she can't stop me from having sex with her when she meets a handsome guy with a big dick. My wife replied that she wouldn't, and that she could have sex with me too.
Keywords: #SettingRules# #RulesForInformalCommunication#

6. Start looking for people. This is actually the hardest part, but it's not about finding a masseuse just because your wife likes massages. There's no need for that. Once your wife agrees to the rules, it means she's opened her heart. Here, I initially chose to let her go solo, based on our situation and the choice of person. My wife's first affair was with her first love at a class reunion. She didn't pursue him then, and she felt regretful. I gradually guided this person into our pool of potential partners. My wife didn't actually agree, but after drinking quite a bit at the reunion, she ended up going to a hotel with him. A crucial step was taken. My wife had a concern here: the man also had a family. I couldn't dispel this concern, so I could only let her desire outweigh her concerns.
Keywords: #NotChoosingPersonBasedOnWife'sPreferences# #IfYouCan'tDispelConcerns,LetDesireOutweighConcerns#

7. A new page has been turned. Having taken the first step, the rest will follow naturally. After that, I expressed my emotions many times, not out of jealousy or blame, but out of resentment that my wife didn't take photos and couldn't have a threesome with this person, leaving her to enjoy herself alone. This resentment led my wife to agree to two things: she would take photos for me if we went solo, and she might let me join in a threesome. Currently, we're in this state. My wife and that man have had sex a few more times, but very infrequently, and they don't contact each other regularly; the relationship is very delicate… Then, we continue looking for suitable people. My wife's reluctance to accept online acquaintances makes this step difficult, so we can only start with massages. I don't need to elaborate on who we're with at this stage.
Keywords: #LetItBe# #ExpressingPurpose#

8. Actually, there's another plan, but I don't know if it's feasible. That is, after my wife has successfully been with several men or had a few threesomes, I must get her to accept online acquaintances, otherwise the path will be too narrow.

9. Once she accepts online acquaintances, we can officially start the topic of exchanging QQ numbers. This is the ultimate goal.

The above is my experience; if we work efficiently, it can be completed in about a year. Actually, my wife has another concern: she's afraid someone might ruin her, and she's worried that other women wouldn't care. I'm currently trying to dispel this concern.

There are other options, depending on my wife's personality.
The husband-led approach requires more effort from you. Your wife will naturally follow your lead; the more open you are, the more open she will be. You can reduce her shame by opening the curtains during sex or having sex outdoors. Gradually move from secluded locations to places with more exposure, taking photos or videos along the way. Once you're comfortable and have tried all the recommended places, try taking selfies and posting them online. For safety, don't show your face and observe her reaction until you're comfortable with video sex or interacting with other users online. Similarly, once she's tired of these methods, move on to the next step. In such couples, the wife might verbally object, but secretly think, "Don't ask me about this; if I ask, it means no." But if you just do it, it's fine. However, it's always safer to proceed step by step. The

online friend involvement approach is best with someone to cooperate with, but you can act it out yourself. You can suddenly change your style during sex. Your wife will definitely be confused and ask questions. Just say you were chatting with a friend and they said that doing it this way occasionally can make you more excited. If she agrees, continue. If she says she doesn't like it, ask her what she likes. Then, based on your wife's preferences, change the style again in the second stage, or suddenly add many techniques and variations. Your wife will ask questions, and you can say a friend taught you. If your wife liked your style before, you can say this friend understands women well and is experienced. If your wife said she didn't like it before, you can say this friend said if you liked that style, you would definitely like these techniques. The style and techniques chosen in this step must be something your wife likes. This will leave your wife with the impression that this friend is very skilled in sex. Next, you will directly guide your friend into sex. For example, you can say that your friend told you to ejaculate on your wife's hair, and then, without telling your wife, take her out for a wild time, saying that they and their spouses have done it this way and it's very exciting. You originally wanted to try it too, but you told her anyway. Find similar topics yourself. Later, you can say during sex that your friend told you to ejaculate twice first, or do other things to excite a woman. You must do it twice, as you said. After repeating this several times, you will be able to have sex according to your friend's instructions. Next, you need to find an excuse during sex, such as feeling dry or experiencing penis pain, and then express your frustration. While doing it, ask your friend for advice. Following your pre-written script, your partner can instruct you to change positions or use other methods. At this point, you can explain your situation to your partner during sex and follow their instructions. Repeat this several times. If possible, you can also take photos and send them, or live stream the process with audio and video. Your partner can gradually say some bold things, such as feeling uncomfortable watching or wanting to have sex themselves. At this point, a third person is involved during sex. After you gradually get used to it and are mostly finished, you can suggest that this person provide on-the-spot instruction.

This is a method I previously considered but didn't implement. I think it's quite good.

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