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The correct way to train and develop your wife
Published: March 24, 2020 Author: Bali Bali SPA Popularity: 3822
I am Li Yue, the founder, chief male technician, and developer of the Bali Bali SPA brand. Due to my profession, I have come into contact with countless couples and have personally and successfully trained and developed nearly a hundred couples. In this process, I have accumulated a lot of practical development experience and some profound insights. I would like to take this opportunity to communicate and exchange ideas with everyone, and hope to inspire more people who are cheating, so that they can take the right approach to reach the other side of happiness, thereby effectively promoting marital affection and family life happiness.
First, we need to be aware of some incorrect ideas and behaviors during the initial guidance phase.
(i) They only care about their own wishful thinking and do not know how to put themselves in others' shoes.
I've seen far too many friends who've been cuckolded come to me, anxiously asking:
What if she doesn't add strangers?
"She doesn't use your WeChat, how could you possibly 'train' her?"
"No matter what, I just want to see her with another man..."
"I wanted to drug her and then have another man come to my house..."
There were countless ideas, but they all shared a common thread: helplessness and extreme stubbornness.
Why don't you consider that dating is a matter for both partners? How can it be just your wishful thinking or wild fantasy? Drugging your own wife? You really think of that? If you actually did that, wouldn't she hate you to death when she wakes up? Besides, how many truly outstanding women would easily accept that kind of advance from a stranger? Women are more focused on emotions and feelings than men. Even if she wanted to try, this approach won't open her heart to you. If she readily accepted chatting with other men, what are you worrying about? Wouldn't you have succeeded already? Your frustration stems from the fact that this method doesn't work. You know it's a dead end, but why are you stubbornly banging your head against the wall? Stubbornness and inflexibility are just formalities; to put it bluntly, it's just being inflexible.
Men who exhibit such stubbornness and inaction are generally introverted, poor at socializing, and deep down selfish, only concerned with their own feelings. They tend to be dreamy, emotionally fragile, inflexible, and lack resourcefulness in handling problems. They often hold a "lower" position in their marriage and may frequently be complained about by their wives for being "uncaring and inconsiderate," which is often the case. (This is not intended to be derogatory or offensive, but simply an objective analysis.)
(ii) Indulging in fantasies, working in isolation, and failing to learn from others. Most wishes in this world don't come true simply because you desire them. You must first possess the ability to realize your wishes and dreams, and then take concrete steps to implement them. What if you lack this ability? Then go and learn!
Many couples who have enjoyed the pleasures of making friends, especially the men, share a common characteristic: they understand women well, have a positive and optimistic attitude, know many ways to make love, and are open to new knowledge. They know how to guide their wives' thoughts and behaviors at the right time, in the right environment, and in the right atmosphere, without rushing things. Instead, they subtly and gradually influence and stimulate their wives' thinking and imagination, while also effectively stimulating their desires. They can also find and create suitable platforms and opportunities for their wives to participate and enjoy the process together. They don't see this as a difficult problem; it's an instinctive strength of successful people—that's what makes people different.
Just like making money, some people dream of getting rich their whole lives, but always run into obstacles. Some are mediocre, while others lose everything. Others, however, are adept at making money; their mindset and actions demonstrate the ability to do so. Aren't these differences between people all around us? If you want to make money, you need to communicate with and integrate with those who are successful, learning from their strengths and skills. Isn't that the same principle? Why stay trapped in your own world, endlessly fantasizing? If you don't learn, don't change your mindset, don't take the right actions, and don't know how to adapt, how can you possibly achieve your goals? (WeChat: spa520777)
(III) Impatience, restlessness, passivity, and a lack of understanding of gradual progress. Many friends who have been cheated on have had a sudden realization after my guidance and advice, understanding that their previous efforts were futile, and happily accepted the development plan I tailored for them. However, in the implementation process, they reverted to habitual thinking, always thinking, "I want to do this," "I want to do that." To give an analogy, it's like someone who is sick and goes to see a doctor. The doctor gives them the correct prescription, but they refuse to listen and insist on arguing with the doctor. As a result, the doctor is helpless, and the doctor's trip is wasted; the illness not only doesn't get better, but it may even get worse. This is the same principle. Some friends, unable to withstand the torment of their inner desires, have fallen into the trap of being aggressive and rash, wanting my plan to be effective in a day. Is that possible? Rome wasn't built in a day. You've already formed a fixed image in your wife's mind. If you don't follow the correct plan step by step and try to achieve quick results, each repetition will make it even more difficult. Yes, it might be difficult for you to do things that are different from your usual habits, but you still have this desire. If you don't fulfill this desire, you will suffer even more. So what should you do? Just choose something relatively easy to do, right? Either give up or do it. There is no other way.
The above is an overview of some of the mental struggles, key aspects, and incorrect mindsets and behaviors encountered by cuckolded individuals during the training and development process. There may be many more, but these issues are particularly prominent, hindering and affecting the normal realization of their inner desires. So, the question is, what is the correct path to a happy and fulfilling life?
First, learn diligently with a humble and pragmatic attitude. Mastering the right methods is crucial in everything you do. It's one thing to waste effort, but if you go in the wrong direction, you'll lose more than you gain. Are you currently at a loss when it comes to "training" and "developing" your wife? Have you tried many things in the past using your own methods, but haven't you achieved your goals yet? Some have even been criticized by their wives as "perverted" or "having too much time on their hands." Some friends always complain, "She's too traditional," "She's too serious," "She could never accept this..." I want to say that there are no women in the world who cannot be developed, only wrong methods and ineffective men.
Many people cling to their own views and practices for two main reasons. First, they lack exposure to diverse perspectives; some even believe they or very few others share this idea, and they lack suitable mentors and friends to exchange ideas with, resulting in a narrow outlook. Second, they are unaware of the experiences of successful developers, haven't witnessed real-world scenarios, and are unfamiliar with correct development methods. This leads to information isolation, limited knowledge, incorrect approaches, and poor results. At this point, what you need is to broaden your horizons, connect with more people in the field to learn and exchange ideas, and clearly recognize your own shortcomings in order to find appropriate and specific solutions.
Secondly, learn to put yourself in your wife's shoes and always consider her feelings. Since you're a couple, infidelity is a matter for both of you. Neither of you being happy or agreeing is a good outcome. If you want your wife to meet your expectations, don't go against them by simply and forcefully coercing her to comply. Women aren't your subservient appendages. Besides, even if your wife agrees once out of fear of your power, it won't be willingly, and she won't enjoy it. And will you truly be happy then? The psychology of men who are cuckolded is that they deeply love their wives and want them to experience different feelings and pleasure. If she doesn't experience pleasure, you'll feel even more guilty, and you'll spiral deeper into this cycle, becoming increasingly impatient and ultimately damaging your marital relationship and destroying your family's happiness. Is that what you truly want?
Remember this: a woman will only do things she doesn't want to do for the man she deeply loves. If you want her to happily accept your ideas, you need to change yourself in the little things of life, letting her feel your love, becoming a happy woman, and becoming the kind of man she expects. Make her feel that her devotion to you is willing, giving her a sense of accomplishment, value, and pride. Then, you can do whatever you want, let alone in a romantic relationship. What you force upon her is your own idea of happiness, not happiness for both of you. True happiness is when everyone is happy!
Third, if you have a dream, you must bravely pursue it. Of course, this requires the right mindset, the right methods, and the right actions. Development and training may seem simple, and the principles are easy to understand, but it is actually a complex system that is both holistic and multifaceted, involving many aspects. For each person, with different personalities, family backgrounds, and levels of experience, it's impossible to use a single method or plan. It's crucial to emphasize the differences between each individual and their specific situation to achieve truly effective results. Furthermore, and more importantly, it depends on whether the individual's emotional intelligence and execution abilities can truly translate this into action. Your wife is your wife; she trusts you the most. You are the one who executes the plan. If you try to use someone else to directly contact your wife, even if she agrees, once it succeeds, her heart will no longer be with you—this is definitely not the outcome you want.
This is based on my personal experience, and I welcome any kind comments or corrections. You are also welcome to contact me personally to discuss your opinions. If you like this, I will write more original articles on this topic in the future. Thank you all.

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