Flirting: 32 Tips to Heat Up Your Sex Life

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The most common problem in bed is that men are like microwave ovens, quick and easy, while women are like slow and meticulous chefs, requiring a whole day of preparation, preheating, and slow cooking. Therefore, our advice for couples' sex life is: men should slow down, extending what should take a few seconds to a few minutes, allowing the woman to gradually become aroused. And the reward? Of course, it will ignite her passion and desire. Chinese men especially need to learn this; it's a crucial part of foreplay.

You're ready, she needs the preheating. Let's ignite her passion now:

Warm-up

1. Give her a sexy pair of underwear.

If you think giving ordinary underwear is too old-fashioned, choose sexy underwear. Find a time when you seem unwilling to have sex, such as while eating at a restaurant, and slip it to her under the table, asking her to change in the restroom. It may seem exaggerated, but her desire is slowly being unlocked. Of course, this tactic is not recommended for a first date.

2. Hold her until she wants to leave.

A skilled kisser can excite a woman, but don't underestimate the power of a passionate embrace, especially if she initiates it. Let her know you don't want to stop holding her.

3. Use her name

. Women love it when men call them by their names. The more special the way you use her name, the better. For example, call her name in the middle of a sentence, write her name on your shoulder, on your hand—anywhere she can see it. It's a painless tattoo that brings pleasure. This will make her happy and feel cared for.

4. Whisper in her ear.

In public, at a party, tell her what you want to do later: "Tonight, I'll make you climax repeatedly." For women, this kind of interaction is just as exciting as real sex.

5. Don't send flowers, send a card

. Leaving a bouquet of flowers in the office is a bit outdated. If you want to be special, send a card. This subtle gesture will make your partner want you even outside of sex. Start by writing a "thank you card," mentioning details you've never had a chance to thank her for—making you breakfast on Sunday mornings, cleaning up your stubble in the sink. A woman who receives praise during the day will reciprocate at night.

6. Put a picture of her in your wallet.

It seems mundane, but it's a small act of kindness with profound benefits. Women naturally enjoy rummaging through things, and finding her in your wallet or catching a glimpse of her will undoubtedly bring her a secret joy.

7. Tell her why you love her .

Everyone says "I love you," but getting a man in love to explain why is more difficult. Perhaps it's the way she gently bites into chocolate, or the charming way she wrinkles her nose slightly when she drinks a shot of liquor. The more unique the reason you give her, the more special she'll feel.

8. Remember the details of your time together.

To make tonight and the days to come perfect, remember everything from your first time together: where you were, what she was wearing, what you talked about, and how it felt. Regularly recall these details; it will be a lifelong commitment.

9. Show your lovesickness.

Leave love notes in many places around the room: on the refrigerator, on the bathroom mirror, under her pillow. These overly sweet gestures might seem contrived, cheesy, or fake to you. But a man truly in love loses much of his rational judgment in his actions, and most importantly, she'll see you as a lovesick teenager.

10. Apply lipstick for her. Helping

a woman groom herself is a reverse behavior; she'll feel pampered and served, and it will also make her feel that a part of her body attracts you. Other methods: shave her feet, apply toe polish, wash her hair. According to a foreign online survey, 76% of men have washed their partners' hair.

Hot tip: Give her auditory pleasure. Don't underestimate the power of expressing your desires.

In relationships, being honest about your sexual needs and letting your partner know how to please you can help both of you reach peak sensual pleasure more quickly—that's the purpose of flirting. "Making flirting a part of life" doesn't encourage you to be a restless, flirtatious butterfly. Rather, it means that once you understand the importance of flirting for developing your sexual self and even managing your sex life, it will naturally become an integral part of your personal style. Actively developing your sexual self will make you invincible in relationships. Because men never know what surprises you'll bring them next. Here are some tips to

escalate the situation:

1. Kiss her joints.

You already know which areas to kiss, but now shift your focus: her knees, elbows, shoulders, ankles, neck, and hips. Don't caress for too long, but these areas are very sensitive. See if you can drive her wild.

2. Juice her...

Movies are great sex education materials, teaching you many ways to enhance your intimacy, such as playing quirky games with chocolate sauce and cream. Another method is to turn her into a juicer—the best sex food is fruit juice. You can caress her body with mango or papaya juice, then lick the juice off her. Get both of you sticky, and the subsequent bath together can reach another level.

3. Use Berries:

Forget coffee and toast; bring some hot chocolate, foods that stimulate female libido, or strawberries to bed. Berries can replenish the zinc you lose after ejaculation.

4. Use Stillness to Control:

During foreplay, tell her you won't go to another part of her body until she tells you she needs it. This method is effective for both physical and mental responses, encouraging her to relax, experience every subtle sensation during sex, achieve a state of mind-body connection, and clearly discern her true needs. Then, you, as the protagonist, can enter where she mentions.

5. Give Her a Massage:

This is a well-worn topic, seemingly something everyone knows, but the key is to use fun methods: On a hot day, roll a can of cold drink down her thighs; on a cold day, heat a towel in the microwave and use it to massage her. Put some salt on her stomach and slowly lick it off.

6. Give Her Cool Stimulation:

Simple caresses require the partner to be fully engaged, but for the one giving the caresses, varying the techniques and adding variety can greatly deepen the other's experience. For example, stimulate her senses with something cool and playful—freeze a handful of grapes for 20 minutes, then place them in rows on her neck, breasts, and thighs, and slowly chew them. Finally, bite down on a grape and gently press it against her clitoris.

7. Keep it clean.

Here's a masterclass in bathroom sex. Fill the bathtub with hot water and bubbles, then apply the bubbles to your abdomen, chest, and thighs. Have her lie on top of you, and rub your body against hers like a bath brush.

8. Caress her from head to toe.

To enhance the shower experience, mix shower gel and water thoroughly, spray her entire body, and then caress her. This way, she can experience three different stimuli: the rinsing of the showerhead, the smoothness of the shower gel, and the vigorous caresses of your hands.

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