My wife wants a divorce.

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Two weeks after I returned to Beijing, I received a call from Ru. She invited me to dinner to discuss some things.
I saw Ru again at Da Dong Roast Duck Restaurant on Dongsi Shitiao. Wearing delicate makeup and a business suit, Ru looked both familiar and strange. The meal was somewhat awkward for both of us. Halfway through, Ru seemed hesitant to say something: "Li Chen, let's get a divorce!"
I was taken aback; my chopsticks, which were about to pick up some food, froze in mid-air, and I remained silent for a long while.
Seeing that I didn't respond, Ru paused, then continued, "We've been separated for over two years, and I'm living with someone else now. Continuing like this is awkward for both of us. Let's just part ways amicably!"
Although I had expected this day to come, its sudden arrival still left me feeling down. "Ru, is there really no chance for us to get back together? I still can't let you go."
Ru didn't speak, but I noticed her eyes were a little red. "Let's break up. I feel like I was too young before, I didn't think things through, and I made a lot of mistakes. Looking back now, I feel really sorry for you. Getting to this point is mostly my fault. There are many good girls out there now; you'll soon find someone you love and who loves you. I sincerely hope you can be happy."
I couldn't control my emotions, and tears streamed down my face…
A week later, Ru and I reached a divorce agreement. She would raise the child alone, and I would get the house.
Initially, I offered her the house, but she said she had somewhere else to live and didn't need it anymore, so I didn't insist.
After getting my divorce certificate from the Civil Affairs Bureau, it marked the imperfect end to my five-year marriage with Ru.
As we parted, we wished each other happiness, and I watched Ru drive away in her BMW 5 Series.
In the days that followed, I poured all my time and energy into work. My superiors noticed something was wrong and asked me why. I didn't hide anything and told them I was divorced. People around me started introducing me to potential partners, but either I didn't like them, or they didn't like me. I think the main problem was that I hadn't adjusted psychologically and was still in the shadow of my previous marriage.
After the divorce, I never contacted Ru, and she never contacted me either.
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One day, more than a year later, around 8 pm, I was still at work, and all my colleagues had left. My phone rang. It was an unfamiliar number with an area code starting with 023.
I answered, "Hello."
"Hello, is this Li Chen?"
came a familiar yet somewhat unfamiliar voice from the other end of the line, belonging to an older woman.
"It's me. Who is this?"
"I'm Ya Ru's mother! Li Chen, is this a convenient time to talk?"
My heart skipped a beat. Had something happened to Ru? "Yes, Auntie, please tell me!"
"Sigh, I know you and Ru divorced, and maybe I shouldn't have called you. Ru is going to marry your classmate's father, Lao Kong. Did you know that?"
"What? Ru is going to marry Lao Kong? That's impossible!"
This explosive news sounded so unreal to me. They broke up because they didn't get along, so how could they be together again? Wasn't Ru living with a real estate developer? These questions flashed through my mind.
"It's true! I don't know what's wrong with Ru. She wants to marry a man thirty years older than her, and she won't listen to anything I say. They're going to get their marriage certificate soon, and I'm worried. That's why I'm calling to ask you to help persuade her." "
Wasn't Ru with a real estate developer? How come she's with Lao Kong now? We haven't been in contact since the divorce, and I don't know anything about her situation. Please tell me!"
"Sigh, Ru was initially with that real estate guy, but later, I don't know how, my daughter got heartbroken. Around that time, Lao Kong happened to come to Beijing. Ru told me that during that period when she was quite confused about her relationship, Kong was always there for her, taking good care of her, and she was very touched. Later, Ru broke up with that real estate guy and got together with Lao Kong. They've been living together ever since. Lao Kong has been asking my daughter to marry him, to be his wife, but Ru has always refused. However, recently, I don't know what's wrong with her, she's confused and agreed to marry him. She called me, hoping I would support her, but how can I support her? She's only 30 years old, and Lao Kong is 60. The age difference is too big, and they're not suitable in any way. Li Chen, please, Auntie, persuade Ru!"
"Okay, Auntie, I'll try talking to Ru..."
After hanging up, I felt a mix of emotions. The woman I loved was going to marry Kong Lin's father, and I couldn't deny that I was the one who caused all of this. If Lao Kong hadn't come to Beijing, perhaps none of this would have happened, and Ru and I would still be living happily together. If I hadn't made Ru give birth to that child, their relationship might have ended then and there.
I didn't sleep well that night, determined to talk to Ru.
The next day at noon, I called Ru, dialing a number I hadn't called in a long time. It rang, but no one answered for a long time. Seeing that Ru didn't answer my call, I felt quite bad. Maybe she didn't want to contact me anymore!
As I was thinking, my phone rang. The caller ID showed Ru!
"Hello."
"Hello, you called me?"
I heard a familiar voice on the other end of the line, but the tone was so unfamiliar and polite.
"Yes, how have you been lately? Is it convenient to talk now?"
"I'm fine. I was having lunch with my colleagues and didn't hear it. How are you? What's up?"
"Oh, I'm fine. Nothing much. Your mother called me yesterday and said you're going to marry Uncle Kong. Is it true? " There was
a moment of silence on the other end of the line: "Yes, it's true. My mother shouldn't have called you. I'm sorry."
This time it was my turn to be silent. Ru had admitted herself that she was going to marry Uncle Kong, who was over sixty years old.
"Your mother doesn't want you to marry Uncle Kong, and she asked me to talk to you. Are you free tonight? Let's have dinner and chat."
"No need, I've made up my mind. Li Chen, thank you for your patience with my mother."
I was speechless for a while: "Then I won't try to persuade you. Let's go out for a bit, okay?"
I felt Ru think for a moment on the other end of the phone: "Okay, but I have something to do tonight. How about tomorrow at noon? If it's convenient for you, come over for lunch. I'm still working here at Oriental Plaza."
"Okay, I'll come over tomorrow at noon."
"Okay, I'll hang up now. Bye!"
The next day at noon, on the B1 floor of Oriental Plaza, I saw Ru, whom I hadn't seen for a long time. Ru looked great, and her hairstyle had changed. Her short hair, reaching her ears, made her look very capable. She had a Burberry scarf around her neck, and a tight-fitting white turtleneck sweater that accentuated her high breasts. Her dark gray knee-length professional skirt hugged her full hips, and her light gray stockings and black pointed high heels added to her sexiness.
We found a quiet restaurant and sat down. "Long time no see, you're still so beautiful."
"Thank you! How are you? Do you have a girlfriend?"
"No. Someone introduced me to someone, but none of them were suitable..."
Ru and I started chatting. Ru was in a good mood that day, and after I asked her what had happened to her before and after the divorce.
It turned out that the reason Ru was so eager to divorce me was that she was pregnant with the child of the man she was living with, a real estate developer. That man's name was Wang Lixin, from Shaanxi. He and his wife had been working in Beijing for almost twenty years, starting with a clothing business, then becoming real estate agents, speculating on houses, and eventually becoming developers.
Once, he was driving out of town on business, and his wife accompanied him. They had an accident on the way; his wife was killed instantly, and he was seriously injured. He and his wife had a very good relationship, so he hadn't remarried after her death, until he met Ru at a gym.
He initially tried to talk to Ru and ask for her phone number, but Ru ignored him. She hadn't been approached by other men at the gym, and she thought he was unreliable. Besides, he looked quite old, and while not ugly, he was very ordinary-looking and didn't have anything that attracted her.
The man didn't give up and continued to find opportunities to talk to Ru, such as waiting for her to finish her workout so he could go with her to the parking lot to get her car. After several such encounters, Ru saw that he seemed sincere and thought there was no harm in making friends, so she started talking to him.
One time, at Wang Lixin's repeated requests, they went out to eat together after working out. Wang Lixin told her about how he and his wife had struggled in Beijing, and Ru gained a new understanding of this man, finding him to be quite honest and reliable.
Later, as they spent more time together, Ru gradually became familiar with Wang and told him that she and her husband were now separated, and that her husband was living in Guangzhou
and might have someone else. After learning this, Wang began to boldly pursue Ru, inviting her to bars in Houhai, driving to the Great Wall together, and frequently eating together. Their relationship gradually became ambiguous; Wang would hold her hand and even try to kiss her, but Ru refused. Once, he bought Ru a Hermes bag, which she also refused.
On several weekends, Wang invited Ru to visit a nearby city for a couple of days, but Ru declined, knowing that if she went, their relationship would take a step further. She knew in her heart that Wang wanted to develop a serious relationship with her, but at that time she hadn't decided how far she wanted to go and wasn't ready.
One Saturday, Wang asked Ru to drive to Shidu. On the way, Ru realized they were going further and further away, so Wang told her he was taking her to Beidaihe and wouldn't be going back that night. She had no choice but to go with him. When they arrived and checked into the hotel that night, Ru didn't feel comfortable asking for two rooms.
That night at the hotel, Wang did what he had wanted to do for a long time, and after that, the two became lovers. Wang really liked Ru, and since he was financially well-off, he was very generous to her, often taking her to designer stores to buy her clothes and shoes. He bought her more than a dozen pairs of Prada shoes alone, and her clothes were mostly from big brands like Hermes, Gucci, LV, and Burberry. At first, Ru felt embarrassed to have him buy her these things, but later, as their relationship developed well, she stopped refusing.
Wang often invited Ru to his villa in Shunyi for weekends, and the two eventually started living together. Ru worked at Oriental Plaza, which was quite far away, so Wang arranged for his driver to pick her up and drop her off every morning and evening. When Wang saw that Ru was driving the Bora we had bought years ago, he didn't tell her and instead bought her a BMW 5 Series in her name.
During that time, Dou Dou was being cared for by Ru's mother in Chongqing. After a while, Ru missed her child and told Wang she wanted to bring him back. After bringing the child back to Beijing, Wang and Ru hired a nanny to help take care of him.
Wang treated Dou Dou very well, taking him out to play whenever he had free time and buying him many designer clothes and toys.
Just after I returned to Beijing, Ru discovered she was pregnant. She was too embarrassed to tell anyone, including Wang and me. The most important thing was to get a divorce; otherwise, it wouldn't be good for anyone, and it would be a greater insult to me, her nominal husband.
After the divorce was finalized, Ru tried to find out Wang's opinion on whether they should define their relationship through marriage. Wang understood that Ru's formal divorce from her husband was paving the way for their relationship, and he sensed that Ru intended to marry him. Everything was fine until his daughter, Xiaoli, became the problem.
He and his wife had an only daughter studying in England; she went abroad after graduating from junior high school, at the age of nineteen. He doted on her, giving her a million or two a year for tuition and living expenses, and even buying her a sports car. She was spoiled and extremely willful.
After Wang's wife died in a car accident, he became even more protective of his daughter, partly because he felt guilty for the accident and partly because he felt indebted to his daughter for losing her mother so early.
Marrying Ru was a big decision, and he wanted to consult his daughter to see if she could accept his remarriage and the new family members—Aunt Ru and her son, Dou Dou.
When his daughter heard her father hinting at marrying another woman on the phone, she burst into tears, saying that her mother had been dead for over a year, and her father wanted to find her a stepmother; she refused. She felt that if her father did this, she would be gone.
Wang tried several times, but seeing his daughter's resolute attitude, he had no choice but to give up.
Wang told Ru that there was an ancient custom of observing three years of mourning for a deceased wife before remarrying, and he hoped to wait another year, until the three-year period was complete, before discussing marriage again, and to live together first. Seeing Wang's attitude, Ru didn't want to force him, but she was quite disappointed, mainly because she was already pregnant with his child.
More than a month passed, and the topic of marriage was no longer mentioned, but the pregnancy couldn't be delayed. One night before going to bed, as Ru and Wang were preparing to sleep, Ru told Wang for the first time that she was pregnant, already two months along. At that
time, she was in a very passive position, seeking his opinion. Ru said that she had hoped that Wang would decide to keep the child and then marry her later, but the man's attitude disappointed her.
Wang first seemed surprised by Ru's pregnancy, then said that he was too old, almost fifty, and didn't have the energy or physical strength to take care of a baby with Ru. Moreover, she and Ru already each had a child, so having another one was unnecessary. He also said that because he couldn't marry Ru in the short term, registering the child's birth would be troublesome, and he didn't want the child to be born without a legal status.
Ru felt a chill run through her. Wang's meaning was clear: he wanted her to abort the child.
At that moment, she thought of me. I would rather she have another man's child than have her have an abortion.
On the surface, Wang spoiled her, buying her designer brands, luxury cars, and gifts for the children, but when it came to crucial issues, he was selfish and completely insensitive to her feelings.
That night, Ru didn't sleep a wink, secretly shedding tears. She pondered the question of keeping the child or having an abortion for several days. Initially, she wanted to give birth out of spite, but later, she reasoned that the child's father didn't want the child and didn't want to marry her. If they separated later for other reasons, how would she, a single mother, raise two children?
Having made up her mind, she went to the hospital alone, without telling Wang, and had an abortion.
The pain after the anesthesia wore off made her reconsider Wang and their relationship.
Wang knew Ru had gone to have an abortion alone and that she was angry, so he tried his best to appease her, buying clothes for Dou Dou and enrolling her in the most expensive early childhood education classes. However, Ru now felt that Wang was only good at putting on a show; deep down, he loved himself and his daughter most. For a long time after the abortion, Ru refused to have sex with him.
Later, Ru's mother came to Beijing to visit her and stayed with her in Wang's villa. Wang was very polite and caring towards Ru's mother, and even offered to buy a house in Ru's name for her mother to live in Beijing in her old age. Ru was too embarrassed to accept, and Wang said he was short of funds at the time, so the purchase wasn't made. However, these things still made Ru feel a little better.
Not long after, another problem arose. Wang's daughter, Xiaoli, returned from England for summer vacation. Seeing that her father's house had a woman and a child, she was hostile from the start and wouldn't speak to Ru. Although Ru was unhappy, Wang kept telling her that Xiaoli was still young and immature, and that losing her mother had made her a bit extreme, so Ru shouldn't mind.
Less than a week after Xiaoli returned, Ru got up on Saturday morning to get her car from the garage and found that her BMW had been severely damaged. The front of the car was completely deformed and dented. Ru was very angry and went to ask Wang. Wang said that Xiaoli had asked for the car keys the night before to drive out, and he went to find Xiaoli, but she was still sleeping and wouldn't open the door.
In the afternoon, she got up, and her father asked her if she had hit the car. "Yes, I did. So what if I damaged the car you gave to a woman?"
she said.
"How can you talk like that? Apologize to your auntie right now."
Xiaoli glared at Ru, who was standing nearby, and turned to go back to her room.
"Ru, don't be angry. This child is just like that. I've spoiled her. I'll get the car fixed."
How could Ru not be angry?
A few days later, Ru came home from work and saw Dou Dou crying. She picked up her son with heartache and said, "Dou Dou, what's wrong? Let Mommy hold you."
"My sister hit me. She said I'm a parasite, and that Mommy is a bad person, a liar... Mommy sleeps with Daddy... Daddy gave Mommy a car and clothes."
Ru was furious when she heard this. She was usually a very gentle person, but she couldn't bear it anymore when Xiaoli bullied Dou Dou and said such bad things to him. She handed her son to the nanny and ran upstairs to find Xiaoli.
"Xiao Li, come out here!"
After knocking for a while, Xiao Li, wearing headphones and pajamas, opened the door impatiently. "What's wrong?"
"Why did you bully Dou Dou and say those things to him? How could you be so mean!"
Xiao Li was also angered. "Because his mother sleeps with other people's fathers for designer clothes and BMWs! His bastard son lives a life of luxury too, a parasite..."
Before Xiao Li could finish, Ru couldn't hold back anymore and slapped her hard across the face. Xiao Li got angry and started fighting with Ru. The two fought for a while before the nanny, who heard the noise, ran upstairs and desperately pulled them apart. Because the nanny sided with Ru and mainly held Xiao Li back from hitting Ru, Xiao Li felt wronged and ran out crying. Ru didn't stop her.
That evening, Wang came home and saw scratches on Ru's face and arms. He asked with concern, "Who did you fight with?"
Ru was still angry with Xiao Li. "Your precious daughter!"
Then she told Wang what had happened.
After hearing this, Wang anxiously called Xiaoli, but no one answered the phone. He called many times, but still no one picked up.
"Xiaoli is still a child, how can you be like her?"
"But how can a child say such vicious things?"
...
And so the two started arguing.
That night, Xiaoli didn't come home, and Wang waited on the sofa in the living room all night, not sleeping with Ru as usual.
Ru was truly heartbroken this time. Not only did Wang not protect her and Dou Dou, but he also didn't discipline their daughter. Thinking about how he wouldn't get married because their daughter wouldn't let them, Ru felt that she wasn't that important to this man.
The next day, Ru covered her wounds with heavy makeup and went to work. When she came home that night, she found that all her clothes and underwear in her closet had been cut up! It must have been Xiaoli who came back and did it to get revenge on her.
This time, Wang was home, and Ru showed him the clothes in her closet that had been cut up. Wang said that Xiao Li had just come home, and if she provoked her again, she might run away from home again. He didn't know what might happen, and only said, "It's ruined, I'll have someone buy you the same thing tomorrow."
Ru felt heartbroken. This father unconditionally indulged his daughter. She was truly afraid that one day Xiao Li would do something to Dou Dou.
That night, she tossed and turned, thinking about how the man refused to marry her, would rather have an abortion than have a child, and how he favored and doted on his daughter. The more she thought about it, the more wronged she felt, and she had no one to confide in. She was extremely sad and didn't sleep a wink all night.
The thought of leaving this man had already begun to take root in her mind, but she hadn't made up her mind to move out. Where would she live if she moved out? How would she arrange her and Dou Dou's living expenses? These were all problems.
Ru had considered the possibility of getting back together with me, but my personality was rather weak, and we weren't that far apart in age. She had never found the security and protection she craved from me, which was why she ultimately didn't consider getting back together with me. Of course, there were other reasons as well. She was afraid I would look down on her because she had lived with Wang. She was also worried about how to treat Dou Dou, who wasn't my biological child.
Ru has a rather gentle personality. Losing her father at a young age made her crave security from a young age, subconsciously hoping to have someone to rely on. She needed a mature man to protect her, which explains why she was taken advantage of by Uncle Kong while I was away on a business trip, later becoming the mistress of her colleague's husband, Brother Li, and ultimately, being with Wang.

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