A record of the real feelings after couples swapped partners

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Wife-swapping originated in Europe and spread to Asia in the 1980s, flourishing in Japan and reaching a period of prosperity. However, in recent years, this immoral activity has been repeatedly discovered in China, and its popularity has been escalating. Generally, those who enjoy this activity are mostly men, as they seek stimulation, curiosity, and desire. However, a recent case has given me a new perspective: women also enjoy this activity, and one woman even participates every holiday, which sends chills down my spine.

The man, Jin Liang, is from Beijing and now works in the south. He is married and has bought a house there, but they don't have children yet. He works as a manager at a foreign company in the south. His wife, Wang Shanshan, is a native southerner and owns a clothing store. Such a family should be happy, but people are never satisfied with the status quo and always like to stir things up, and this family truly embodies that.

Jin Liang called me first that day, saying his family was facing difficulties and he hoped I could help. I wanted him to talk about it over the phone, but he said it wasn't clear. I asked if we could talk on QQ. He said it would be best to talk in person. Reluctantly, I had to find time to meet him. We arranged to meet at a quiet teahouse. The evening glow painted the west red. Jin Liang was thirty years old, 1.75 meters tall, and quite handsome, with a buzz cut. He looked very energetic. We sat at a table by the window. He was a little reserved at first, unsure how to speak to me. I knew this was a natural human instinct for self-protection. So I explained the professional principles and regulations of a psychological counselor to him, explaining that we would guarantee the other person's privacy and never disclose it to anyone. This gained his trust, allowing him to tell me the truth. He downed a cup of tea in one gulp, then held the empty cup. I could tell he was nervous and struggling internally. I told him, "Tell me, how can I help you if you don't?" Finally, he put the cup down, and that's how his story began.

"Actually, I'm just a bastard," was his first sentence. He said he had a happy and loving family and was planning to have children, but after seeing wife-swapping games online, he became interested. He wanted to experience this new thrill, so he started searching online for information about wife-swapping communities. Eventually, through an introduction, he gradually learned about the whole process. Apparently, wife-swapping games usually take place in secret locations. The participants must be married couples and bring their marriage certificate and ID cards. These games are generally participated in by so-called upper-class people to ensure their safety and reliability. After receiving the news, Jin Liang began to ponder it, frequently feeding Wang Shanshan information about wife-swapping games. At first, Wang Shanshan didn't take it seriously, but gradually she realized his curiosity was affecting their normal life, and she even sensed Jin Liang's urge to participate. Wang Shanshan started to dissuade him, and although Jin Liang verbally refused, he remained determined to get involved. Under Jin Liang's persistent nagging, Wang Shanshan agreed to let him go and see for himself. Everything is ruined at the beginning; this initial visit changed the entire family.

It was a Saturday evening, just as darkness fell. Jin Liang drove Wang Shanshan to an upscale suburban community, a row of villas. They parked in front of villa number 6 in row 3. Several cars were already parked in front of the gate. The two got out and stood at the entrance, unsure how to get in. A man in his forties emerged from the gate, identifying himself as the head of the Xixiang Community and the owner of the property. He asked if they had invitations. Jin Liang then remembered they needed invitations and quickly pulled one out of his pocket. Seeing the invitations, the owner invited them in. Outside the villa's living room, there were five or six couples. The owner first led them to the study, asking for proof of their relationship. Jin Liang quickly pulled out his ID card and marriage certificate. The owner checked the documents, verified their identities, and registered them. It turned out that everyone participating in this wife-swapping game had to register. After registration, the owner led them to the living room and introduced them to the others. Everyone seemed very welcoming, and they quickly began to chat. It turned out this was supposedly high society; those who came were either company directors or private business owners.

Although it wasn't the first time the two had attended such a social gathering, the purpose of today's event was different, so they were still somewhat awkward. However, after a few drinks, the awkwardness gradually dissipated. Then, the host's wife came out of the room. This woman appeared to be in her thirties, but her skin was still very fair and well-maintained, without a single wrinkle. The lady acted very poised and generously. She introduced herself as Sato Iran, a Japanese woman. No wonder this game was so popular, as wife-swapping originated in Japan in Asia. She welcomed everyone to today's event, and then everyone introduced themselves. Although some had been there before, they were still somewhat shy.

Then came the so-called most crucial moment, the real part of the wife-swapping. This part wasn't started by the men, but by the women choosing the men. Sato Iran said that this was true women's liberation and freedom. Half-heartedly, after all the other women had chosen their men, only Sato Iran and Wang Shanshan remained. Sato Iran took Wang Shanshan's hand, stroked it, and said, "Little sister, I'm entrusting you to my man. Your man is mine, don't worry, I won't mistreat him." Wang Shanshan appeared powerless, yet unsure how to refuse. She had already sensed Jin Liang's eagerness. Perhaps out of tolerance, or perhaps indulgence, Wang Shanshan followed her mistress to her room, and then everyone went to their respective rooms. Sato Iran then led Jin Liang into her room, decorated in warm colors, creating a cozy atmosphere. Sato Iran's charm was indeed extraordinary, giving Jin Liang a feeling akin to first love. Under Sato Iran's teasing, Jin Liang quickly opened up, and they proceeded to the main event. Their intimate encounter not only excited Jin Liang but also gave him a unique sensation. This indulgence satisfied both his body and soul; he had completely forgotten that his wife, Wang Shanshan, was in another man's arms.

The next day, everyone acted as if nothing had happened and returned to their own lives. Jin Liang thought the matter would end there, but reality is reality. From that day on, Wang Shanshan truly changed. She seemed addicted to this game, and whenever they had a day off, she would take Jin Liang to participate in this wife-swapping game. The frequency of these participations gradually made Jin Liang feel guilty, because he had led his wife down this path. However, this frequency eventually reached a point that Jin Liang could not tolerate, because Wang Shanshan was always so proactive, and they rarely had marital relations anymore. This is why Jin Liang came to me today. I didn't directly tell Jin Liang what to do; I just told him to reflect on his actions. I didn't believe his wife would be so proactive, and I didn't believe that desire and passion could make her lose herself. So I decided to meet with his wife to truly understand the situation.

I found his wife on the third day, which was also a weekend. She had originally planned to participate in this wife-swapping game, but when she heard that I was looking for her about this, she came over. Wang Shanshan was twenty-eight years old, young and beautiful, with an air of nobility about her. After learning my identity and that Jin Liang had come to see me, she sat down, choosing to sit beside me rather than across from me. Before I could ask her anything, she burst into tears, nestled in my arms, crying like a child. She sobbed, "I don't want to participate in this so-called wife-swapping game, do you believe me?" I said, "I've never believed it, but I don't know why you've become like this." Wang Shanshan wiped away her tears, calmed herself slightly, and then told me the reason.

Wang Shanshan said, "When Jin Liang took me there for the first time, I was actually unwilling. But under the circumstances, I still participated in that damned wife-swapping game half-heartedly. But I really didn't betray my marriage, do you believe me? The man in the room talked to me a lot. Because he knew it was my first time, he didn't force me. This so-called social gathering wasn't his original intention, but it's mostly his wife running the whole thing, and the ultimate goal is to make money. The reason I went every weekend wasn't because I enjoyed participating in this so-called wife-swapping game. I just wanted to make Jin Liang feel guilty, to punish him from the bottom of my heart. Each time I went, I didn't choose other men; I just stayed with the host. He treated me like an older brother and took good care of me. Although he kept trying to comfort me, telling me to relax and not to be disappointed in the marriage, how could I not be disappointed in the current situation? I'm still a woman after all; I'm not that strong. My marriage has reached this point, and I really don't know how to trust it anymore, but I can't bear to let go. I really don't know what to do next." Every weekend I went to those so-called wife-swapping games just to avoid Jin Liang. I didn't want to face him, didn't want to see him. If it weren't for his curiosity, we wouldn't have a family today. Wang Shanshan finished speaking and nestled in my arms again, like a child. I knew Wang Shanshan's heart was aching. I hugged her tightly. It's so incredibly difficult for a woman to face this. The fact that she's endured this shows how strong she is. I didn't want to lecture her too much because I felt heartbroken for her. After all, we're both women; what woman could withstand such a life?

I held Wang Shanshan tightly and said, "Marriage is something everyone experiences, but choosing different people means choosing different marriages. Marriage is something two people have to work on together. If a marriage encounters difficulties, you can't blame just one person. So we also need to look for the reasons within ourselves first. Jin Liang's curiosity about that so-called wife-swapping game must have had a reason. Whatever he was thinking at the time, now he's finally had a change of heart and knows to turn back. As the saying goes, a prodigal son's return is more precious than gold. The past is the past; give him a chance." No man is immune to making mistakes in this kind of situation. It all started out of curiosity. This so-called wife-swapping is at least better than having a mistress. Just think of it as him visiting a prostitute. Since we've been strong until now, we must remain strong to the end. Otherwise, who will we show our weakness to? The past is the past; don't dwell on it. Don't live in yesterday. Tomorrow's stage belongs to us. We must look forward; life is our own.

Marriage requires careful management; only by doing well can you find happiness. Since we've come this far, we must overcome it. If you truly can't get over it, then divorce is the only option. It's your choice; whatever you choose, I will support you. I only wish you happiness.

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