How important is a harmonious sex life for a marriage?

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I see too many divorces around me because of a lack of fulfilling sex lives. A marriage without sex must mean there's no love left. I don't believe that two people sleeping in the same bed, existing like dead fish, can last.
A male friend of mine divorced his wife after nearly six months of abstinence without any apparent medical condition. During a meal, he said, "If it were due to illness, I could understand, but for no other reason, a normal man sleeping next to a woman for an extended period without experiencing any satisfaction... I don't know what to do."
Her wife later confirmed that she was having an affair with another man from the same workplace; she personally caught them at the door of a hotel room.
If the other person doesn't touch you for a long time, there are only two possibilities:
1. It's really not necessary. To put it simply, it might be due to a cold personality.
2. Another possibility is that he found satisfaction in other ways, such as through other women.
Both of these situations are devastating to a marriage. As Eileen Chang once said, if marriage is for the sake of making a living, then marriage is a long-term form of prostitution.
Nowadays, not many people maintain their marriages just to make a living, but love is not only something that can be talked about, but also something that can be shown through actions.
I once found it very difficult to understand why our grandparents, who had never known each other before, could share a bed for so many years and even grow old together just because they met when the red veil was lifted.
I once made a bold assumption: LV
1. During sexual intercourse, couples gradually become more dependent on each other;
2. When hormones are secreted, one's ability to distinguish the appearance of another person becomes increasingly blurred, which is because of familiarity that one forgets about beauty or ugliness.
Of course, those who are exceptionally beautiful or exceptionally ugly are exceptions.
Then, I asked no fewer than 50 friends in private, and I got the same answer.
I recall a survey I saw years ago that showed that the longer a couple is together, the more similar they become in appearance. This is what's known as "couple resemblance," and this resemblance stems from the harmonious union that develops between two people after a long period of intimate love.
Come to think of it, my grandparents were introduced to each other, not based on love, but they're both over 85 and still alive. My parents were also introduced, and my father once openly admitted that they married first and then developed feelings for each other. They've been married for over 30 years.
A good marriage truly equals a harmonious married life + mutual tolerance + mutual support. Some people ask, which is more important, romance or sex? Anyway, I think they're equally important; neither is dispensable.
I have always disagreed with the current notion that love is the foundation of marriage, that it is far too important.
In my view, sex is the skeleton, supporting you both through thick and thin, while love is the outer shell. If you're comfortable with each other, like each other, and others admire you, that's good enough. Love is certainly more important; without a good physical appearance, it's not a marriage, it's just a physical relationship. But without a physical relationship, even the best physical appearance can't last.
Therefore, no matter how busy you are, please don't neglect essential marital life and romantic care; both are important. Never underestimate the immense benefits of every act of intimacy, and never miss an opportunity for love and understanding. Sex, love, and marriage—that is the truth.
To love enough and to do enough are the basic capabilities of marriage. As a man, I know how important sex is to me. My back doesn't ache, my legs don't hurt, I can climb five flights of stairs in one go... and my legs are still a little weak. Enough said, I'm full, time for some sex.

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