The Ultimate Guide to Picking Up Girls for Modern Men

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If you're ugly, okay, no problem. Since you can't change it, face it with equanimity. Don't overdo it with appearance enhancements. If you make a woman think you're insecure because of your looks, you've already taken the first step towards failure. In your interactions with women, learn to use humor to laugh at yourself. Exaggerate your physical flaws as you like, turning them into jokes. Even if they don't become strengths, they'll at least add some fun to your conversation. This kind of conversation builds confidence, and almost all women like confident and funny men. Of course, not all flaws can be used for humor, like being blind or lame.

2. Deception is Key:

If you don't love a woman but want her body, you must deceive yourself into believing you are. Women are perceptive; they can tell at a glance whether someone loves you or not. So, before deceiving a woman, you must learn to deceive yourself. If you fall in love with a woman, never show it. Constantly remind yourself not to truly fall in love, regardless of whether it works or not. Once you're caught in the whirlpool of emotions, it's hard to win.

Love is a war. Before going to bed, men and women are always selfish enemies. Men fire the bullets of love to conquer women's sexual territory, while women defend their bodies but crave love. Love is never without deception, and sex is never discouraged. Neither is willing to compromise until one day they lie on the same negotiation bed. And so, the climax is over; some weep, some smile.
3. Emotional Costs

Unlike prostitution, no matter how ruthless you are, pursuing a woman always requires some emotional investment. If possible, try to get the woman to treat you to a meal beforehand, even if it's just a bowl of noodles or a few skewers of lamb. The amount of money isn't important, but the significance is crucial. This involves the emotional investment of a person, which is very important, especially the first time. If, after this meal, you feel you are not interested in this woman, don't want any future involvement with her, and don't want to owe her anything, then you'd better offer to pay the bill and maintain gentlemanly conduct. Conversely, if you fall in love with a woman, you must never be too generous. You don't need to pretend to be a gentleman; you need to be the bad guy. Women like bad boys. When they get home, they'll wonder why they invited such a jerk to dinner. They'll be completely baffled as to whether they've fallen for him. They'll be deeply immersed in self-criticism, and finally, they'll find a ridiculous reason to go to sleep feeling sad. This is when the woman's investment begins, and you've taken the first step towards success. Don't go out for pointless meals with women. If you've had two meals together and there's still no progress, and there's no love involved, quickly move on to someone else.

Unlike going to work, no matter how convenient your transportation is, don't drive or take public transport to find a woman. You need to make her come to you, no matter how far away she is—a kilometer, a hundred kilometers, or even a thousand kilometers. Distance isn't important, but it's significant. This also involves the issue of emotional investment.

Combining these two points, if a woman travels a long way to treat you to a meal, then eagerly hops on the last bus home, reeking of alcohol, it's hard for her not to love you. Therefore, in many cases, many women won't leave after a meal; they'll stay and spend the night with you because they've invested their emotions and crave something from you, even if it's just physical intimacy—it's a form of reciprocation. However,

this won't work for a man. If you go to great lengths to treat her to a meal, and she politely sees you off at the station, don't expect anything in return. She won't be moved by your hard work and generosity because this isn't love. With you, her vanity is satisfied, her charm is showcased, and her self-esteem remains intact, so she doesn't love you.

4. Gaining Sympathy

If you feel a woman doesn't love you, but you've fallen for her... You're witty, adorable, frank, sincere, extravagant, and talented, but she doesn't appreciate any of these qualities. Then there's another trick: feign pitifulness, squeezing out a fake tear or two when necessary. You can fabricate stories for her. Tell her about your unhappy childhood, being an orphan, being abandoned by a woman, your despair about life, the shadows of your family, a suicide attempt, being beaten and hospitalized…

Women are born to be men's mothers; they possess a motherly heart. You must present yourself as their son when telling your fabricated misfortunes. If you can't be a director of a love story, then you must learn to be a good actor, immersing yourself in the tragic plot. There's nothing shameful about that, because love itself is a play.

Sympathy is not love—that's true—but according to Marxist philosophy, the two sides of a contradiction can transform into each other. Sympathy can instantly turn into love; there are many examples of this, too numerous to list.
5. Quick and Decisive Action:

For women online, chatting is their greatest enjoyment. Through chatting and flirting, they can gain emotional satisfaction, even if it's fictional, enough to fill the emptiness in their hearts. For men, however, chatting is just a means. If they can't control themselves, they might develop feelings, even if it's fictional, it's enough to keep them up all night. After chatting for a long time, women naturally get bored. If a man doesn't take action, the woman will leave him one day—perhaps in three days, perhaps in three years—and all his efforts will be in vain.

There's no need to spend a long time getting to know a woman well. When two familiar people are together like friends or family, what's the novelty? Sleeping with her is less appealing than sleeping with her husband or boyfriend at home. What they crave is that half-baked excitement; only then does an affair have meaning. Many women, even with a steady partner, why do they still go out and find other men? Isn't it just for a change of scenery? If you treat her like a brother, it's completely meaningless.

Casually suggest a get-together at the opportune moment, without being overly serious and asking, "Are you free tonight?" That's like something out of a movie—completely impractical. One hundred percent of women will say no, regardless of whether she loves you or not. In relationships, whoever elevates that delicate connection to the level of love first loses. In love, whoever expresses it first loses. It's never too late to talk about love after you've slept together. The sublimation of love isn't through words, but through
lightning-fast physical contact.

6. Balance is key.

Call a woman casually, without scheming a time or place. Call whenever you feel like it. It can be on the street, in a shopping mall, in a crowded restroom, after drinking, in another woman's bed, in the office, or in a car. It doesn't need to be quiet or private. Everything should be natural and spontaneous. Keep the call short, don't talk about love or longing, just ramble on about trivial things, act like you're crazy, and even suddenly hang up. Call back three days later to explain, as if nothing happened. This way, you'll feel more at ease, and the other person will feel reassured, without experiencing significant psychological pressure from a phone call. However, don't call a woman every day. Don't worry about her not contacting you for extended periods. If she cares about you, she'll wonder why you haven't called in days. If she doesn't care, a few calls won't solve the problem; you'll need other methods. If a woman loves you, she'll interpret your calls as concern; if she doesn't, she'll see them as harassment. Whether it's concern or harassment, better to have none than something bad!

You could even suddenly disappear from her life for a long time and see her reaction. If she forgets you, you might feel disappointed, but that doesn't necessarily mean she's rejecting you. If you want to continue, you can unexpectedly appear outside her building one night or bump into her on her usual route. You can enthusiastically walk up and shake her hand or hug her, regardless of her feelings—be bold. Or you can simply nod casually and continue walking, ignoring her and letting her be frustrated. In short, don't easily let a woman know you're pursuing her. No matter how painful it may be, if you truly want her, you must endure that pain.

7. Great love, small gestures.

If a woman is willing to spend time with you, she's already subconsciously prepared to sleep with you at any time. Leaving aside feelings, very few women use the guise of friendship to freeload (except for Shanghai women). Almost all women are humiliated in a state of mental confusion. When exactly you can sleep together depends on the woman's mood. A man's efforts are usually focused in the early stages. Later, the only thing a man can do is create an atmosphere, evoke emotions, and draw a circle for the woman to have a good reason to enter. She can say she's drunk, she can say she's in a bad mood, or she can say her husband is unfaithful. In short, you need to make her psychologically balanced before she has a reason to sleep with you. I still want to say that sex is actually just a small thing. We're in a high-level socialist stage now; nobody treats this like the Cultural Revolution. The battle between men and women ultimately boils down to a psychological one; the body is just a peaceful feast. Besides the first time, how many women shed tears over an insignificant, mundane sexual encounter? These are just topics of conversation years later or beautiful memories before they die. Those women who would rather die than submit will surely repent before they die. They always thought men were playing with them, and only at their deathbed did they realize they hadn't lived a life worthwhile. Perhaps this is the tragedy of women.

So I still want to remind men, don't always be impatient and drooling at crucial moments. Eat, chat, and get emotional. Every step is crucial. If you're thinking about going to bed after dinner while eating, you'll be flustered, your flirting will fail, and the meal will end badly. Do you think it's worth it? Whether you have women or not, you should make women feel that you don't lack women, and that you don't necessarily need her tonight. Why is it that the more women a man has, the more new women join him? Why is it that the fewer women a man has, the more scarce women he is? That's the reason. Sex is a pleasant thing, not about taking or possessing; it's a celebration arranged by God for us. We should first thank God, so we shouldn't be too hasty.
8. Before going to bed.

I'll use examples to illustrate this point to make it easier to understand. If you're planning a meal before going to bed, the location is crucial and depends on the bed's location. If you're in a dormitory, choose a restaurant nearby. If you've booked a hotel room, have dinner or lunch with the woman at the hotel restaurant. The amount of alcohol isn't important; just drink. What you eat isn't important either; just enjoy yourself. Don't try to get her drunk, as that will only make her feel disgusted and wary. So, the food is secondary; the key is what to do afterward. Women generally lack assertiveness and often wait for the man's instructions. Men typically handle this in two ways: first, they eagerly suggest, "Shall we go upstairs and rest?" etc., aiming to get her into the room; second, they might be unable to say anything, unsure what to do after paying the bill, and simply wait for the woman's decision. Both approaches leave many women feeling awkward and disappointed, leading to many unpleasant endings.

Following the first approach, very few women will agree to "come upstairs and rest for a bit." They'll usually respond with things like, "No, maybe next time," "I have something to do," or "Let's go for a walk instead." Even if they genuinely want to go upstairs for a romantic encounter, they won't say it directly. They need to give themselves or their partners a psychological explanation, so if a man brings up such a question or request, he's already doomed to fail. Following the second approach, the woman's decision is predictable. Unless she's a prostitute, I doubt she'll proactively suggest entering your room. The outcome of "goodbye" might not be what either of you hopes for. Perhaps both are still burning with desire, but almost no woman will actively cater to a man. Therefore, it's unwise for a man to wait for a woman to arrange things in bed. You are a man, and women often prefer to leave themselves to your discretion; they prefer silence. The man must shoulder this responsibility.

You must choose the third approach—silence and action. The so-called "silence" means paying the bill immediately after the meal, while the happy atmosphere hasn't faded, the romantic story hasn't ended, and the effects of alcohol haven't worn off. Don't say anything; just stand at the elevator door and wait for the door of passion to open for you both. Don't say anything, no matter what the woman asks. If all else fails, pretend to be drunk. The key is for the man to give the woman a sufficient reason and an out. Once she's in the elevator and in the room, she might not say a word. Book the room in advance. Don't wait until after the meal to think about taking those innocent women to hotels. What kind of behavior is that? Are you afraid others won't see?

If you're unsure and don't want to book a room in advance, go to her home. Take her to the street, get in your car, or hail a taxi. Don't ask her opinion; this is crucial! Once you're both in the car, go to your home. Don't ask her things like, "Come to my place?" or "What are you planning to do?" These kinds of questions will make it difficult for her to answer, and she'll eventually have to say she's going home. Some women might enter a room, drink some water, and then ask to leave. In this case, you have two choices: First, tell her to get lost, don't see her off, slam the door shut, and let her go home and regret it. She came all this way for a meal, stayed in the room for so long, and then spent over a hundred yuan on a taxi home in the middle of the night—is she crazy? She wouldn't be able to justify it to herself. Any woman with a modicum of manners would feel guilty towards you. Second, rape. There is no such thing as true rape!
9. The Principle of Choice:

Men who are indiscriminate and accept all comers may seem to get many women, but in the long run, they will not gain women's favor. In other words, we must improve our aesthetic sense and worldview through dating. Through dating, we can also learn many principles of life and cultivate a unique lifestyle. When you really can't hold it in, it's better to choose prostitution than to randomly pay for sex when you're in a hurry—this violates the law of value.

Don't get involved with classmates, colleagues, fellow villagers, clients, or even relatives you have no blood relation to (such as your sister-in-law). You can only seduce female friends with whom you have no social connection. Don't use your work, studies, or position to seduce or corrupt any woman into sleeping with you. Picking up girls is a pure business; it doesn't rely on interpersonal relationships to achieve your goals. Otherwise, it's no different from doing business. Chinese people often make this mistake, which is extremely shameful.

10. Treat women well

. There's a practical standard for judging whether you love a woman: after having sex with her, if you want to continue holding her while sleeping, it means you've fallen in love with her; if you desperately want to leave her after having sex, it means you'll never love her.

Even so, you can be ruthless but never shameless. Don't just pull up your pants and go to urinate afterwards. Hold the woman in your arms and comfort her properly, don't let her feel like she's being used, regardless of whether you love her or not. If you encounter a virgin, you must pay her. If she doesn't want cash, you can use other methods, but you must do so willingly. The specific amount depends on your income, but normally it's a month's salary. This is sincere; I'm not joking. Don't be too cruel to women. In this world, if you owe too much, you'll have to pay it back someday.
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