The ultimate sex diary for all couples!

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I was born in a provincial capital city in the south, but I had a strict upbringing. Although I was very curious about sex and had read

some books and watched some movies, learning many terms and seemingly understanding what it was all about,

I didn't realize how completely clueless I was about sex until my first time with my boyfriend (now my husband).

Of course, it was a long time ago, and I don't remember the details. I only know that my boyfriend's husband didn't do it for long

and didn't say anything. Later, after we did it several times, my husband stammered that my first time

really made him dizzy. He said that after I got into bed, I spread my legs and lay there stiffly without even a moan. He felt like he

was manipulating a puppet. I was so embarrassed by what he said. He said he had a roommate in college whose girlfriend never

made a sound or moved. That guy always complained to my husband that he felt nothing, and that he might as well dig a

hole in a piece of fat and masturbate himself.

After my husband said that, I started paying attention to my own body. But because I'm still conservative, my husband

has always been on top. I wanted to move around a bit, but my husband held me down so I couldn't move, so I gave up. However, I

was able to focus my sensations. Before, I was just passively accepting my husband's penetration without any pleasure.

Now, I don't want to think about anything else, I focus all my sensations on the friction. Gradually, I felt a little pleasure,

and this feeling kept amplifying. I couldn't help but moan, and the volume

increased ... Afterwards, my husband said I moaned very loudly, and I was so embarrassed, worried that someone would hear

.

After I started moaning, my husband became more passionate during sex. He started doing some foreplay, saying he could

tell I hadn't had much sex just by touching me because I got very wet down there as soon as he touched me. He couldn't resist and

stopped doing foreplay. Now that I'm starting to open up, he teases me, saying he wants to lick my genitals with his tongue.

I refused, feeling it was dirty. I also didn't dare touch his penis, finding it strange and a bit dirty. That day

, after we finished having sex, I was getting ready to sleep when he grabbed my hand and put it on his penis, making me touch it. I was a little reluctant,

but didn't want to go against his wishes, and since I really like him, I figured it was still acceptable.

As a result, I became addicted to touching him. Now, I feel like something's missing if I don't touch him every night before bed. I often

hug him from behind while he's washing dishes, then slowly slip my hand inside his pants to touch him. Sometimes, to increase his

excitement , I try to unbuckle his belt and pretend I can't. After a while, when

I finally manage to unbuckle my husband's belt and put my hand inside, he's already incredibly excited. He says it's my random

touching aroused, hehe...

After becoming intimately acquainted with my husband's penis, I found myself unable to resist the urge to lick it. However, my long-standing

family upbringing made me hesitant. I can't remember when it first happened; it

was somewhat inexplicable. I vividly remember first tentatively sniffing it—no taste. Then

I licked it with the tip of my tongue, still no taste. Only then did I dare to put it in my mouth, but I had no idea

what to do. I just moved it around a few times haphazardly, thinking my husband would enjoy it. But instead, he frowned and said

my teeth were touching it, and it hurt. I was so disappointed...

Seeing that I had no idea about male erogenous zones, my husband earnestly began to explain it to me (what a lecherous husband!). My husband

said that the erogenous zone on a man's penis is the small groove around the glans. Rubbing it with his buttocks will

arouse him, and of course, rubbing it with his mouth will also arouse him. After my husband said this, I started to understand a little. After doing it

a few more times, I could basically control the rhythm of my mouth. Actually, it's very simple.

When my mouth moves to the lower part of the penis, I loosen my mouth a little and mainly suck. When it moves to the head, I tighten my mouth and

mainly suck. My husband's size is close to the maximum size for Chinese men, so sometimes it still inevitably touches his teeth

, but it's okay. At that time, my husband is already starting to moan with pleasure. He doesn't feel the slight pain at all

. Hehe, sorry, it's a bit lewd. I feel that my level is pretty good now. Not only can I use my mouth, but

I can also use my tongue to lick the groove freely during the movement. At the same time, since

my mouth can't suck the lower part of the penis, I rub it with my hand. The rhythm is very coordinated, but since my speed can't reach the intensity that my husband wants to ejaculate,

my husband is always extremely aroused by me, but he can still save his energy to experience vaginal

friction orgasm.

Once you start, you'll want to start again and again. Maybe that's just how alluring sex is. Giving my husband oral sex

isn't unusual for me anymore. I just really miss the beginning, when we weren't

married yet. My husband treated me like a precious flower, and he obeyed my every command. I'm very clean, so I

insisted he shower every day. It was the dead of winter, and he actually did it! Plus, his job was easy then

, not too stressful, so his penis never smelled. If we went to bed immediately after showering, it

would have a faint soapy scent. I loved giving him that. He seems to be addicted to oral sex, and I feel an indescribable pleasure

whenever he starts moaning. But now, since we got our marriage certificate,

my husband has started subtly defying my orders, especially in winter when I ask him to shower every day. He makes all sorts of excuses to avoid it

, and sometimes I get so angry that I slap his butt, but he remains unmoved.

Because of his infrequent showering and the pressure of work, his penis always smells a bit fishy. So, when I want to give him oral sex

, I have to supervise his shower myself, because he can't get it clean even when he washes it himself, while I can get it perfectly clean

. The reason is simple: when he washes it himself, it's always small, and he has to turn it inside out to clean it properly

, while when I wash it, it stretches out and gets clean in no time. Now I'm quite frustrated because sometimes I suddenly

want to give him oral sex, but since he hasn't showered, I can only look on longingly...

Of course, after accepting the fact that I give my husband oral sex, getting him to give me oral sex is no problem at all. I've forgotten

when it happened, and I don't remember the details very well either. I only know that at the beginning, my husband always complained that

my breasts were getting in the way of his tongue touching my sensitive areas, and he would always jokingly threaten to

shave them completely while I was sleeping.
Now, my skill level is that I can move my hips freely during oral sex and coordinate with his tongue's up-and-down motion

, but overall, it's not as exciting as I imagined. My husband likes 69 with me, but I'm only so-so.

Well, the 69 position was quite stimulating and probably the best way.

Changing positions was imminent, so we started trying various positions, but in the end,

the missionary position was the best.
When I knelt and he entered me from behind, neither of us felt very high. My husband had difficulty ejaculating, and sometimes his thrusts

hurt. However, I had a little trick: in this position, I could put my hand on his vas deferens (

between the scrotum and anus) and rub it with my fingertips or press it firmly. This would make my husband

feel great , and sometimes he would ejaculate, but while he was satisfied, I wasn't. So we rarely used this position.
My husband loves the woman-on-top position the most because it's effortless and he gets a lot of pleasure. Every time I'm on

top , he gets so aroused he acts like a woman, his eyes half-closed, moaning, his hands stroking

my breasts as he moves with me. Sometimes he'll even touch himself. Seeing him so happy

gives me satisfaction, especially hearing his moans. But, ladies, I'm so tired

! The pleasure from the friction can't offset the leg and back pain from the up-and-down motion.

And even if I go fast... I couldn't reach the intensity my husband wanted to ejaculate. At this point, he was already on the verge of climaxing

, and I was too tired to continue. He would grip my

buttocks tightly and move his hips up and down until he ejaculated. While I enjoyed it, I couldn't reach orgasm

. Later, feeling sorry for me being so tired, he let me sit on top and do the movements. But

ultimately, he couldn't enjoy the effortless pleasure, and I still couldn't reach

orgasm in this position, so we abandoned it.

(Narrator: "Why are you putting in so much effort? You could have him support you with his hands or use his waist to thrust against you and then

drop you. That way you could both enjoy it, silly!
Keep going...")

There were a few other positions we tried:
Standing doggy style: It feels similar to kneeling doggy style, but it seems like it can only be used when the weather isn't cold

, otherwise it'll be too cold, haha.
Sitting on my husband's lap in a rear-entry position: It doesn't feel good. I'm quite tired. My husband supports my waist, but I still want to move

. If my husband sits on the edge of the bed, since he can't move, I feel that sitting on his lap is hard.

If my husband sits in a wheelchair, he can use the elasticity of the seat to match my rhythm, but the wheelchair will

slide, and we are both worried that we will fall off the chair. The sofa should be okay, but our sofa is in the living room,

and we don't think we have ever made love in the living room.
Side-lying rear-entry position: This position is very easy for both of us. I just lie on my side, and my husband can wrap his arms

around me, touching my breasts with one hand and stimulating my clitoris with the other. He can also use his penis

to move inside my vagina, which is quite nice. I can reach orgasm. My husband also doesn't need to exert much

effort because he is lying down. We often use this position.

(Continuing the narration: "You can try changing the location, or even create some more stimulating environments!")

There are some other positions that we've only tried once or twice, and the effect wasn't very good:
I sit facing my husband on his lap, and I'm the one doing the movements. My husband says he can bury his face in my

chest and feel the undulating stimulation, but I have nowhere to get support when I move. Because my husband is sitting on the bed, and I

'm kneeling on his lap with my legs bent, it's difficult to get support from my legs, and it's also difficult to get support from his shoulders.

So this position makes my movements rhythmless, let alone pleasurable.
My husband lay flat on his back, and I sat on his lap with my back to him, penetrating him. This position made the angle of penetration a bit

unusual, which some people might enjoy, but my husband didn't seem to find it particularly pleasurable. We tried it a few times but couldn't get him to enjoy it

, so we gave up.
In short, after trying so many positions, we basically boiled it down to two: face-down and rear-entry, just with

different body positions. After trying so many, we went back to the most traditional missionary position, and

for rear-entry, we chose the side-lying position. Ultimately, we concluded that there's not much to change in sex positions

; the key is foreplay. Because foreplay isn't limited by physical limitations, you can use your imagination to the fullest to tease him

, which can make sex less boring for both of you.

I have a little confusion about this. Although my husband's oral sex doesn't give me great pleasure, it's very stimulating, but

he seems to enjoy it. He says that just kissing my genitals feels amazing, and my screams (

because it's so stimulating) make him even more excited. Once, he almost ejaculated while giving me oral sex, but he

only lasted a few thrusts before he came inside me. I was furious because he finished right after I had just gotten aroused. I said in a huff that

I wanted to masturbate, and my husband felt ashamed, so he stimulated my sensitive areas. Even though I said it, I was still

a little embarrassed. I rarely masturbate and consider it a very private thing. I felt a little awkward in front of my husband.

He was leaning over and stimulating me, and I couldn't help myself. That day, I

did some of the most pleasurable masturbation I've ever had, much better than when I did it alone. Afterwards, I was completely exhausted on the bed, and my husband

was still gently kissing every inch of my skin. It felt amazing. Later,

I would masturbate a little when I had sex with my husband, which made our sex life more harmonious.

Just like life with my husband has its ups and downs, our sex life, while full of passion, is

n't smooth sailing.
If you do something repeatedly every week, you'll definitely get tired of it, and sex is the same.

My husband seems to have run out of ideas; his foreplay has become formulaic. I often joke that he does it in three stages: sex

is like taking a shower. First, he uses his hands to adjust the hot and cold water (that is, he

touches my breasts), then he tests the water temperature (that is, he touches my genitals to see if they're wet), and third, once the temperature is

right, he rushes in (when my genitals are sufficiently wet, he starts). Ugh... I strongly

protest his foreplay. On the contrary, I'm constantly improving. My husband's inner thighs, the area around his vas deferens,

his penis, his penis, his ejaculation point, his nipples, his belly button, and every inch of his skin are my

targets . Every time, my husband is aroused to the point of ecstasy. It's so frustrating...

We've tried having sex by candlelight or while listening to music, and once I even put beeswax on my husband's penis while giving him oral sex.

Honey is just a temporary novelty and excitement; we're not happy doing it too often. To be honest, my husband and I have no

private conversations, so sex lacks mystery. Sometimes I try to make the atmosphere more romantic, but it doesn't work

very well because my husband isn't a romantic person. By the way, oral sex and sex in the shower are also very exciting, and we quite

like doing that.

(Narrator:
You're amazing! "
I admire you!" "
Find a wife like you!")

Don't sigh, everyone. I was completely clueless about sex at first, but I'm where I am today because

I love my husband very much and can do anything for him. Plus, my husband never looks down on my

ignorance in this area and always patiently guides me. So women have potential. As long as you find a

girlfriend or wife who loves you enough, and you can patiently guide them, I believe you can also be sexually happy

.

My story is basically finished. Thank you for your support.
The original intention of this post was to help those men and women who lack sexual happiness.
I sincerely hope that men with sexual experience won't always complain about the women around them being clumsy and lacking in romance.

Instead, guide them properly; the results might surprise you.
I also hope that women with sexual experience won't be afraid of being called promiscuous by men. Enjoying sexual bliss is everyone's right,

regardless of gender. And women without sexual experience shouldn't be shy either. Try to cooperate with your boyfriend or husband's

guidance; enjoying sexual bliss can make you shine anew.

Interested friends can also share some new sexual techniques for discussion. Even if you're

an expert, you'll eventually run out of ideas, but sex will be

an indispensable , unless you're already in your twilight years, haha. Let's all improve together!

I believe oral sex is the highest form of expression of love between two people. There's no better way

to show your love than by expressing boundless reverence for a man's genitals.
The basic action
is to gaze at his genitals—not just a casual glance, but holding them in your hands to express a feeling of reverence.

When you begin to touch him, his penis will start to become erect, and that's when you can begin to really examine it

. First, you'll notice if his foreskin is retracted. Next, carefully examine the shaft of his penis. At its tip

is a ball-shaped structure, slightly larger in diameter than the shaft itself—that's what people commonly call the glans.
At the tip of the glans is a small opening, which is where the man ejaculates. The outermost edge of the glans is called the clitoral

ring, which connects the head of the penis to the shaft. Note that this is its most sensitive area; when you're giving your

partner oral sex, use extra gentleness here. I like to call this the soft groove; I personally love a man

's soft groove.
The middle of the junction between the glans and the shaft is one of the most tender spots on a man's body. If he hasn't had surgery,

this is also where the foreskin connects. Simply using the tip of your tongue to gently and repeatedly touch this area can potentially bring your

partner to orgasm. You might want to spend some time stroking the glans and its surroundings.
Below the glans is the shaft of the penis, where there aren't many nerve endings. Therefore, if you only lightly stroke this area with your hand or tongue

, it won't provide a strong stimulation for the man. I find it strange that many women believe that

sucking on the penis will make a man ejaculate. This is not true. It's actually just that the woman's throat is

playing with the glans, which is the real reason for male ejaculation.
Below the penis are the testicles (balls, eggs, call them whatever you want, just don't ignore their

importance). The testicles are particularly sensitive to pain and are generally thought to play only a

supporting . Wrong! In fact, if you treat them correctly, they can also bring your partner to

the peak of pleasure. For example, take them in your mouth, one or even both at the same time.
So pay attention to his penis, study it carefully, fully understand his most sensitive areas, and prepare to unleash your sexual knowledge

on him. When you lean over his genitals, make good use of your tongue and your lips. Technique is very important when sucking your lover's penis to give him a full experience of pleasure. When his hard penis proudly points to the ceiling, cup his testicles with one hand while gently, softly, and carefully licking the underside of his erect penis with only your tongue. When your tongue licks his soft folds, you'll find that this area gives him extreme pleasure. Unless your partner is made of stone, you'll find that area that pleases him most as your tongue travels around. Once you find the spot that excites him most, focus . For most men, the most sensitive area is where the outermost edge of the glans penis meets the foreskin before circumcision . Use your wet tongue to lick and gently tap this area repeatedly to induce ejaculation. If you're not pay attention to subtle changes in his penis. These changes , allowing you to prepare for his ejaculation in advance. At this time, the glans penis will appear slightly larger than when it's normally erect, and during ejaculation, he will move his hips to extend the penis as far forward as possible. Generally, before ejaculation , one or two drops of clear fluid will drip from the opening of his glans. When you see this and feel the opening of the glans opening, you should know that the truth is about to be revealed. Go all out and ejaculate! The best position is to kneel between your partner's legs, starting from the base of his penis, not from the side or top. Of course, I will mention various positions later; try them out with your partner to see which one suits you best. Circling oral sex: This doesn't mean imitating various sounds, but rather taking his hard penis into your mouth, being careful not to use your lips. Make a circular motion with your head. As you circle back and forth, his penis will rotate left and right in your mouth, touching different parts. Be careful not to let your teeth touch it. The position mentioned above is already good, but another method is to have your partner lie flat, and you take it directly from above the vertical penis . Remember to rotate gently and purposefully, not violently. If your method is correct, do this...

This could mean hours of flawless pleasure. If you still want to make sounds, a few wet,

smacking sounds will probably drive him wild.
Use a lollipop to elevate your man slightly, kneeling in front of him and raising his erect penis to expose his testicles

. Use your tongue to lick from the base of his testicles straight up to the tip of his glans. You can use your hands to help here

. Lick up and down a few times, like you're licking a lollipop as a child.
Suck (this is one of the basic techniques of blowjob) slowly taking his penis into your mouth, not too deep, just enough for your tongue to

cover one side of the glans, your lips around the shaft slightly beyond the glans, and your hand holding the rest of the shaft.

At this point you have a few options. Try twisting your head from side to side while keeping your tongue on the edge of the swollen glans,

while your hand rubs the penis up and down.
When he reaches orgasm, he might want your mouth to cover his penis as much as possible; if you do that, you'll

miss a crucial moment. Instead, you can gently lick the outermost edge of his glans, which can further stimulate his pleasure and

enhance the intensity of his orgasm. With experience, you'll be able to accurately predict when he'll ejaculate, allowing your actions to be more

precise.
To intensify his orgasm, you can press your thumb against the base of his penis to block the flow of semen and prevent

ejaculation . Although your partner may exhibit convulsions and a conditioned reflex to ejaculation, the semen won't leak out. Continue

to suck on his glans, delaying his ejaculation. When you finally allow it to ejaculate, you'll find it incredibly

long and intense. Even though you only delayed it for a short while, the intensity of his ejaculation will surprise you.
The testicles are two things that can enhance your partner's sensations. Hold his penis with your hand and gently lick his testicles with your tongue,

gradually wetting them completely with your saliva. Then take them all into your mouth and let them soak up

some . Remember to smooth down his pubic hair first to avoid accidentally touching or hurting your partner. Try pressing on his

perineum , located midway between the testicles and anus. Some men enjoy prostate massage during blowjobs.

This is where your fingers come in handy. For
a simple blowjob, take your wet lips into his glans and

slowly rotate them around the back of the glans (the soft groove mentioned earlier). This doesn't require much skill, but it's very effective because this is the most sensitive spot on his genitals

. You don't need to be a blowjob expert, but you must find his most sensitive area. Continuous sucking here will

trigger a rapid but powerful ejaculation; remember, don't achieve this by bobbing your head up and down.
69 (No Turning Around): 69 isn't always the best way to give your partner oral sex pleasure. If you're not careful,

one might slow down to enjoy the other's oral pleasure. But I believe 69 is

the ultimate way to achieve pleasure. As long as you both give correctly and selflessly, matching each other's desires,

69 is unparalleled.
Deep Throat: When you first start giving a man oral sex, your first reaction is often nausea. Many men always want to push their penis as far down their throat

as possible , especially when they ejaculate.

The biggest obstacle to swallowing the entire penis at this point is the near 90-degree bend deep in the throat, so the first thing to do is find a position where your mouth and throat are almost in a straight line. The best way is to lie on

your back in bed with your limbs relaxed and your head near the edge of the bed so you can lean back as far as possible. This position allows your mouth and throat to be almost in a straight line, enabling your partner to insert their penis as far , while their pubic hair can gently brush against your lips. When the penis reaches the deepest part of your throat, you will naturally gag. However, by relaxing your throat as much as possible , you can gradually overcome this habit, and you should remain relaxed throughout the process. When he reaches the deepest part, you should adjust slightly to find the most comfortable position. Given your position, your head cannot make any movements to stimulate him; you only need to hold his throbbing penis tightly in your mouth. Of course, if you can manage to lick his soft groin area, then don't hesitate, act quickly. If you completely trust your partner, then you don't need to do anything at this point; just relax . He is in complete control, manipulating the entire process. At this point, his in-and-out movements will be like intercourse . He should move gently and slowly, especially if this is your first time trying this method. And the only thing he must remember is that he can only move in one direction from beginning to end. Without a doubt, he cannot try any other angle . Be careful with ejaculation! Don't let him get carried away when he wants to ejaculate. This is something you absolutely must be careful about when he puts his penis entirely into your mouth . He cannot ejaculate in your mouth! Because of your position on the bed, you don't even have a chance to "swallow" his semen. This is not only because his condom might fall into your stomach, but also because don't forget that his penis is in a position that can cause you to gag. Even without a condom, his semen will shoot directly into your abdominal cavity. If you and your partner understand this and pay attention in time, I believe there will be no danger or discomfort for either of you. Deep throating isn't something every woman will attempt, but that doesn't mean you can't be a great oral sex performer. When your partner inserts his penis deeply into your mouth, remember to relax. Being able to hold your position until he ejaculates isn't something that happens overnight; you might eventually be able to accept him having his penis fully inside your mouth, but you might not be able to maintain that position until he ejaculates. Hopefully, your partner understands that this isn't a rejection of him or his efforts, and of course, I sincerely hope you won't give up just because you've read this far and think you'll never master this technique. Keep practicing, and each time you'll be able to get him deeper and stay longer. The best position for the beautiful butterfly oral sex move is lying face down on him, but if he's standing, kneeling in front of him is also an option . Contract your mouth to create a vacuum, generating suction on his penis—enough to slowly draw it into your mouth. Wrap your lips tightly around his swollen glans and shaft, gently teasing the tip of his glans with your tongue. Simultaneously, begin moving your lips up and down. After a few minutes, switch to vacuum suction and repeat the action. Perform a figure-eight motion, keeping your lips tightly around his shaft and slowly moving towards the base of the penis, at least as far as possible. Use your tongue...

Slowly write the number 8 on the penis, about three to four inches long, keeping your lips tightly pursed throughout. Repeat this action

until you are tired, then switch to a vacuum suction motion.
Take the penis deep into your mouth, your lips tightly wrapped around the shaft. Then open your mouth and inhale as much air as possible, slowly

moving your mouth towards the glans. Your lungs should be full of air by now. Continue to open your mouth and slowly exhale,

while slowly moving your mouth to the base of the penis. This action cools the penis while inhaling and

excites it with the heat while exhaling. Repeat this action, then you can return to the vacuum suction motion. If you feel he is about to ejaculate, stop and let

him calm down for a few minutes.

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