[Repost] Methods to bring a woman to orgasm (Women's innermost thoughts)

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[Repost] Methods to Make a Woman Orgasm (A Woman's Inner Thoughts)

First, let me talk about a few things I hate most about guys. Some guys never give a girl oral sex, but they expect her to blow-feed them, or lick her—just wet her, that's enough. They might even spit on their hands, smear it on their vulva, and then insert it. Please, that wetness is saliva, not the girl's natural lubrication. It's so inconsiderate. Even if I thrust for a long time, I rarely feel anything. First, it's psychologically uncomfortable; second, the clitoris isn't stimulated, and the vagina isn't sensitive enough.

Many guys say their girlfriends don't like being licked or don't like clitoral stimulation. The first reason is that the girl thinks it's dirty—a psychological factor. This requires a lot of communication, or perhaps a little coaxing. Many guys say that girls don't want to give them oral sex, but if you really make them feel good, they will reciprocate.
If you only use your penis to thrust, a girl will never orgasm. The best method is to thrust while simultaneously rubbing her clitoris with your hand. When she's close to orgasm, increase the speed. After a while, she won't need your hand anymore because she's already orgasmed. Stop rubbing her clitoris then, otherwise she'll just be in pain. At this point, if you can further increase the speed of your thrusting during her orgasm (how to tell if she's orgasming is very simple: she'll moan loudly, and her body will move involuntarily), then she's orgasming. At this point, increase the speed of your clitoris rubbing, while keeping the speed of your thrusting moderate to high (to avoid ejaculating or running out of strength later). After she orgasms, don't worry, she'll automatically remove your hand without you having to say anything. If you still can't ejaculate, then increase the speed of your thrusting by 200%. She'll moan louder and louder. Therefore, you'll never orgasm by just thrusting with your penis.
The first method I mentioned was to bring a woman to orgasm, guaranteed to make him fall in love with you. Another method is to use your tongue to lick his clitoris. The technique requires a bit of skill. The best way is to start from the vaginal opening and work your tongue upwards towards the clitoris, as the vaginal opening also has sensation. However, to bring him to orgasm, you need to shift your tongue and focus on the clitoris (adjust the pressure as needed). When
licking the clitoris, don't lick directly down. If I pulled back the foreskin and licked the glans immediately, many men would cry out in pain! It's too sensitive. So, lick the left and right sides of the clitoris first, occasionally brushing it over. Be careful with your teeth, or use a little saliva to cover the clitoris with your lips, opening and closing them like a fish, or press down on the clitoris with your tongue, using the underside of your tongue instead of the tip (because I can only feel it; men with practical experience, please share). Regularly rub the sides of the clitoris up and down. Strangely, my right side is more sensitive than my left. When I masturbate, I constantly rub the right side of my clitoris with my hand instead of directly rubbing the clitoris.

You could ask your girlfriend to masturbate in front of you, and then you could masturbate together and watch. This way, you can understand what makes her feel good. Because some things are hard to say.
I'm certain that licking the clitoris can lead to orgasm, but it's like a woman just using her mouth to make a man ejaculate—it's quite tiring. But which feels better, a woman using her hand to make a man ejaculate, or using her mouth to make him ejaculate?

I once met a really difficult guy who took 40 minutes of oral sex to ejaculate. I swear, my oral sex skills aren't too bad. He was a very strange person; he could thrust for two hours straight and still not ejaculate. He said that in three years of dating, he only ejaculated three times using penetration. He had a large penis, was on the basketball team, and had great stamina, but he just couldn't ejaculate. Having sex with him was an endurance race, from initial pleasure to pain, to weakness, to numbness—it was incredibly unsatisfying. So it's not about how long it lasts. And it was very boring. Towards the end, he said he was hungry and asked me to cook instant noodles, which left me freezing cold.

If you have a free hand, caress the breasts, or use your two fingers – but before inserting two fingers, use one finger first to get the vagina used to it. I love it when the guy licks while stirring his finger inside the vagina, like a whisk. Or, with your palm facing outwards, do a cycling motion to stimulate the G-spot. The sensitivity of the G-spot is beyond imagination, so the guy needs to adjust the pressure of his fingers.
When the clitoris is stimulated, the entire vaginal opening becomes sensitive. At this point, you can reduce the stimulation to avoid the girl being overwhelmed. Cover the vaginal opening with your palm and vibrate. This kind of stimulation can also bring me to squirt.
Or, you can rub your penis against the opening, especially when the guy is about to ejaculate. You can do this after pulling out, so the girl won't feel like you're about to come, but it will still make her feel very comfortable.

Many people say that girls will ask you to stop. I've thought about many reasons, but I basically know that most girls feel like they need to urinate during orgasm, or afterward. These girls may have the ability to squirt, but the key point is that they can't handle that overly sensitive feeling, or they feel like they need to urinate and suppress it. This feeling is like a man having an erection and wanting to urinate but unable to.
For those who can't handle it, it might be uncomfortable, just like how some men feel pain when touching their penis after sex, while others don't.
So when a woman gets too stimulating, she might ask to stop. But when stopping, you can just stop thrusting, but try the less stimulating method I just mentioned. Don't touch the clitoris anymore, it will be uncomfortable, but you can touch the vaginal opening. Also, the G-spot on the breasts (if you don't understand, read my "Squirting Woman's Account"). Areas that aren't normally major erogenous zones become very sensitive at this time.
And my most unforgettable bad experience was when a guy said: "Hey, you're not wet yet, lick me wet before I put it in." I remember this guy vividly. We were going to continue dating, but his behavior made me think he was a very selfish guy. If a woman isn't wet, it's because the guy didn't try hard enough, why should I be a customer service representative? So we broke up not long after. It wasn't that his bedroom skills were bad, although they really weren't great, but I think his rudeness was the main reason.

There's also the issue of ejaculation occurring without warning. Even if I haven't climaxed yet, and I know guys might not be able to hold back, saying something makes a woman feel more involved, rather than just being seen as a vessel for release. I like it when guys say before they ejaculate, "I'm going to cum, you have to climax with me! I'm going to give you a lot of sperm!" This excites me immensely. It's the same as telling Maggie I love hearing men moan; I love hearing that too. But please don't use profanity. (Remember, no matter how excited a woman is, if she says she can ejaculate inside, you shouldn't, unless she's in her safe period. Respect and equality are the foundation of a relationship and the key to perfect sex next time.)
I've met guys who were 183cm tall, but their penises were only the length of a thumb—like using a small glue bottle. Do you understand? So height and penis size really have nothing to do with each other. Size is important, but I've encountered guys with large penises who didn't provide much pleasure. So technique is still the most important thing. Do you expect to still have superhuman stamina in your 30s and 40s?

Men's libido starts to decline after 25, but women's libido increases during this period. I hate it when some men emphasize their "gifted" nature but have terrible technique. I feel like these guys only know how to thrust, and they think they're naturally gifted and don't need to work hard.
The men who make me squirt aren't very big, but they don't rely solely on their penises to make me squirt. These two men are around 12-13 cm, with normal girth. One is a bit bigger, 15 cm. He can make me squirt just by thrusting, and our foreplay isn't long, but compared to that, the one with superior technique I'll mention later made me feel better.

One of them is incredibly skilled. His "gifted" nature is average; he lasts very short, and can't even thrust quickly, only for a few tens of seconds. I think if he didn't stop, he'd probably ejaculate in less than ten minutes. But his amazing thing is that he knows he's about to ejaculate and will pull out and rub my vagina. I don't know if other women do this, but when I'm being penetrated, my vagina keeps pushing outwards, like it's pushing the man out. He suddenly pulled out, and because the force pushing outwards suddenly lost its resistance, my fluid gushed out. After I squirted, my vagina became very, very tight. I've often heard people say that during sex, a woman's vagina becomes looser the more penetration occurs, or that too much fluid makes it slippery and reduces friction. I don't know if that's true, but mine didn't. The bed was always soaked with fluid. My boyfriend once squeezed so tightly that he came out and went limp—I'm so sorry about that. So even a not-too-thick, not-too-big penis felt incredibly good to me.
I really like the rear-entry position, where the woman lowers her body and raises her buttocks, making it easier to hit the G-spot. The rear-entry position also allows for deep, forceful, and quick penetration. For the missionary position, try having the woman lie on her side with one leg on the man's shoulder and the other under his foot. This also allows for deep penetration and easy G-spot stimulation.

A woman's erogenous zones and sensitivity need to be developed. Many of my friends didn't experience orgasm when they first started having sex, even in the first few years. This isn't necessarily due to the man's lack of skill or talent; it's just that the body needs time to adjust to certain sensations.
Next, let's talk about the 69 position. 69 is certainly great, but honestly, many women don't like it. Usually, in 69, the woman is on top, and when her vagina is stimulated, she's already exhausted. Maintaining a prone position is difficult enough, let alone performing oral sex. It's impossible to concentrate on enjoying the position. I prefer the man to perform oral sex on the woman first before switching sides. Before penetration, some girls might already be dry. This involves using the penis, moistened with the girl's saliva, to gently rub against the vaginal opening before starting thrusting.
This improves the quality of oral sex for both partners. It's true that sometimes the girl's odor is stronger, so if you don't like it, you can shower and start foreplay. Even though the man's genitals are exposed, they still have an odor. So be empathetic! (But I did encounter one who smelled really bad—not his penis, but the pubic area smelled like body odor. I almost vomited, but I still gave him oral sex. Although I didn't like the smell, I couldn't be selfish and suppress it. I just didn't do it for him as often afterward.)
Finally, please don't worry about size or time. Treat your girlfriend well, be considerate and attentive to her feelings, and make her love you to death. This is much better than a skilled, naturally gifted womanizer who thinks he's a savior of women. Because love is the best aphrodisiac for women. When I give oral sex to the man I love, just his satisfied sounds and his ecstatic expression make me incredibly wet. Even without kissing or caressing, love alone cannot bring about a physical orgasm. However, during sex, making your partner feel your love can lead to an orgasm at any time. Once, when I was menstruating, my partner wanted to lick me before sex. I told him I was menstruating, but he said it would hurt if I were dry, and he still licked my clitoris and surrounding area. I was stunned. Although the licking only lasted a few minutes, I orgasmed immediately upon penetration. Many people might find this example hard to accept, and even I find it strange. I'm not suggesting you do it, but this kind of thoughtfulness, tender words, and gentle actions makes people happy. Remember, there are limits to technique.

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Let me first talk about a few things I hate most about guys. Some guys never give girls oral sex, but they expect girls to blow-feed them, or lick them until they're wet, or even spit on their hands, smear it on their vulva, and then insert it. Please, that wetness is from saliva, not the girl's natural lubrication. It's so inconsiderate. Even if I thrust for a long time, I hardly feel anything. First, it's psychologically uncomfortable, and second, the clitoris isn't stimulated enough, so the vagina isn't sensitive enough.
Many
guys say their girlfriends don't like being licked or don't like clitoral stimulation. The first reason is that girls think it's dirty, a psychological factor. This requires a lot of communication, or a little coaxing. Many guys say that girls don't want to blow-feed them, but if you really make them feel good, they will reciprocate.
If
you only use the penis to thrust, the girl will never orgasm. The best way is to thrust while rubbing her clitoris with your hand, and then speed up when she's close to orgasm. After a while, she won't need it anymore. Since he has already orgasmed, stop rubbing his clitoris with your hand, otherwise he will only experience pain. If you can increase the speed of your penis's thrusting during his orgasm (how to tell if he's orgasming is very simple: he'll moan loudly, and his body will move involuntarily), then he's orgasming. At this point, you should increase the speed of your rubbing of his clitoris, while maintaining a medium-high speed of penile thrusting (to avoid premature ejaculation or lack of strength). After he orgasms, don't worry, he will automatically remove your hand without you saying anything. If you still haven't ejaculated, then please increase the speed by 100%. Thrusting at a speed of 200 will guarantee he moans louder and louder, so simply thrusting with the penis will never lead to orgasm.
(Source: club.chinaren.com)
The above describes one method to bring a woman to orgasm, guaranteed to make him fall in love with you. Another method is to use your tongue to lick his clitoris. The method requires some skill; the best way is to start from the vaginal opening and work your way up to the clitoris. The vaginal opening also has sensation, but to bring him to orgasm, you need to shift your tongue and focus on the clitoris (adjust the pressure as needed).
When licking the clitoris, don't lick directly down; if I open... If you start by pulling back the foreskin and licking the glans, many guys will probably groan! It's the same, it's too sensitive. So, start by licking the left and right sides of the clitoris, occasionally brushing it, being careful with your teeth, or you can hold a little saliva in your mouth and cover the clitoris with your entire lip, opening and closing your moist lips like a fish, or press down on the clitoris with your tongue, using a gentle, rhythmic motion. Don't use the tip of your tongue; use the underside of your tongue to relax and lick (because I can only feel it; men with practical experience, please share). Regularly rub the sides of the clitoris up and down. Strangely, my right side is more sensitive than my left. When I masturbate, I always rub my clitoris continuously with my hand. On the right side, instead of directly rubbing the clitoris.
(From: club.chinaren.com)
You could ask your girlfriend to masturbate in front of you, and you could masturbate together and watch. This way you can understand what feels good to her, because some things are hard to explain just by asking.
(From: club.chinaren.com)
I agree that licking the clitoris can lead to orgasm, but it's like a woman just using her mouth to make a man ejaculate—it's quite tiring. But which feels better, a woman using her hand to make a man ejaculate, or using her mouth to make him ejaculate?
(From: club.com) On chinaren.com,
I once encountered a really difficult guy. It took him 40 minutes to ejaculate. I swear, my oral sex skills aren't too bad. He was a very strange person; he could thrust for two hours straight without ejaculating. He said that in three years of dating, he only ejaculated three times using penetration. He had a large penis, was on the basketball team, and had great stamina, but he just couldn't ejaculate. Having sex with him was ultimately a test of endurance, going from initial pleasure to pain, to exhaustion, to a complete loss of sensation—it was incredibly unsatisfying. So, it's not about how long it lasts. And... Bored, towards the end, he said he was hungry and asked me to cook instant noodles, which left me freezing cold.
(Source: club.chinaren.com)
If you have free hands, please caress your breasts, or use your two fingers, but before inserting two fingers, please use one finger first to get your vagina used to it. I love it when the guy licks while stirring his finger inside the vagina, like a whisk. Or, with your palm facing outwards, do a cycling motion to stimulate the G-spot. The sensitivity of the G-spot is beyond imagination, so guys should adjust the pressure of their fingers.
(Source: club.chinaren.com)
When the clitoris is stimulated, the entire vaginal opening becomes sensitive. At this point, you can reduce the stimulation to avoid overwhelming the woman. You can cover the vaginal opening with your palm and vibrate it. This kind of stimulation can also induce my squirting.
Alternatively
, you can rub your penis against the opening, especially when the man is about to ejaculate. Pulling out allows you to do this without making the woman feel like you're about to come, while still providing her with pleasure. Many people say
that women will ask you to stop. I've thought about many reasons, but I know that most women feel the urge to urinate during orgasm, or 　after
sex. These women may be capable of squirting, but the key is that they can't handle the overly sensitive sensation, or they suppress the urge to urinate. This feeling is similar to a man's erection and inability to urinate. For those who can't handle it, this feeling might be uncomfortable, just like some men experience pain when touching their penis after sex, while others don't. 　From: club.chinaren.com So when a girl gets too excited, she should tell you to stop. But when you stop, you can just stop thrusting. Try the less stimulating method I just mentioned. Don't touch the clitoris anymore, it will be uncomfortable, but you can touch the vaginal opening. Also, the G-spot on the breasts (if you don't understand, read my "Squirt Girl's Self-Description"). Areas that aren't usually major erogenous zones will become very sensitive at this time. 　From: club.chinaren.com Another unforgettable and terrible experience I had was when a guy said: "Hey, you're not wet yet, lick me wet before I put it inside you." I remember this guy vividly. We were going to continue dating, but his behavior made me think he was a very selfish guy. If a girl isn't wet, it's because the guy didn't try hard enough, why should I be a chauffeur? So we broke up not long after. It wasn't that his bedroom skills were bad, although they really weren't great, but I think his rudeness was the main reason. 　From: club.chinaren.com There's also the issue of ejaculation occurring without warning. Even though I might not have orgasmed yet, and I know guys might not be able to hold back when they want to ejaculate, saying something makes the girl feel more involved, rather than just being a vessel for release. I like it when guys say before they ejaculate, "I'm going to ejaculate, you have to orgasm with me! I'm going to give you a lot of sperm!" This makes me very excited. It's the same as telling Maggie I like guys moaning; I love hearing it too. But don't swear. (Remember, no matter how excited a girl is, if she says she can ejaculate inside, you shouldn't, unless she's in her safe period. Respect and equality are the foundation of a relationship and the key to perfect sex next time.) 　From: club.chinaren.com I've met guys who were 183cm tall, but their penises were only the length of a thumb. They used small glue bottles, do you understand? So height and penis size really have nothing to do with each other. Size is important, but I've met guys with large penises who didn't give me much pleasure. So technique is still the most important. Do you expect to still have superhuman stamina in your 30s and 40s? 　From: clubub.chinaren.com Men's libido starts to decline after 25, but women's desires only increase during this time. I hate it when some men like to emphasize their "gifted" nature but have terrible technique. I think these guys only know how to thrust, and they think they're naturally gifted and don't need to work hard. 　From: clubub.chinaren.com The men who made me squirt weren't very big, but they didn't rely entirely on their penises to make me squirt. These two men were around 12-13 cm, with normal girth. One was a little bigger, 15 cm. He could make me squirt just by thrusting, and our foreplay wasn't long, but compared to that, the one with superior technique mentioned below made me feel better. 　From club.chinaren.com: One of them has amazing technique, but his talent is average; he lasts very short, and he can't even do fast thrusting, only a few tens of seconds. I think if he didn't stop, he probably would have ejaculated in less than ten minutes. But what's amazing is that he knows he's about to ejaculate and will pull out and rub my vagina. I don't know if other girls do this, but when I'm being penetrated, my vagina keeps pushing outwards, like it's pushing the guy out. When he suddenly pulls out, because the force of pushing outwards suddenly loses its resistance, my juices spray out. After I squirt, my vagina becomes very tight. I often hear people say that during sex, girls become looser the more they are penetrated, or that too much juices make it too slippery and reduce friction. I don't know if that's true, but mine doesn't. The bed is already covered in juices. My boyfriend was squeezed so tightly by me once that he was squeezed out and went limp, I'm so sorry. So even a not-too-thick, not-too-big penis feels amazing to me. 　From: club.chinaren.com I really like the rear-entry position, where the woman lowers her body and raises her buttocks, making it easier to hit the G-spot. The rear-entry position also allows for deep, forceful, and quick penetration. The missionary position can be tried with the woman lying on her side, one leg on the man's shoulder, and the other under his foot. This also allows for deep penetration and easy G-spot stimulation. 　From: club.chinaren.com A woman's erogenous zones and sensitivity need to be developed. Many of my friends didn't experience orgasm when they first started having sex, even in the first few years. This isn't necessarily due to the man's lack of skill or talent; it's just that the body needs time to get used to certain sensations. 　From: club.chinaren.com Next, let's talk about the 69 position. 69 is certainly great, but honestly, many women don't necessarily like it. Usually, in 69, the woman is on top, and when her vagina is stimulated, she's already exhausted. Maintaining a prone position is difficult enough, let alone performing oral sex. It's impossible to concentrate on enjoying the position. I prefer the man to perform oral sex on the woman first, and then switch roles. Before penetration, some girls may already be dry. This involves using the penis, moistened with the girl's saliva, to gently rub against the vaginal opening before starting thrusting. 　This improves the quality of oral sex for both partners. It's true that sometimes the girl's scent is stronger, so if you don't like it, you can shower and start foreplay. Even though the man's genitals are exposed, they still have an odor. So be empathetic! (But I did encounter one who smelled really bad—not his penis, but the pubic area smelled like body odor. I almost vomited, but I still blew on him, even though I didn't like the smell. I can't be selfish and suppress it, but I've blew on him less often since.) 　Finally , don't worry about size or time. Treat your girlfriend well, be considerate and caring about her feelings, make her love you to death. This is much better than a skilled, naturally gifted womanizer who thinks he's a savior of women. Because love is the best aphrodisiac for women. When I give my beloved man oral sex, just his satisfied sounds and his ecstatic expression make me incredibly wet. There's no kissing or caressing involved—love alone can't bring a physical orgasm, but during sex, letting your partner feel your love can make them orgasm easily. Once, when I was menstruating, my partner wanted to lick me, but I told him I was on my period. He said it would hurt if I was dry, but he still licked my clitoris and surrounding area. I was stunned. Even though it only lasted a few minutes, I orgasmed immediately when he penetrated. Many people might find this hard to accept, and even I find it strange. I'm not suggesting you do it, but this kind of thoughtfulness, tender words, and gentle actions makes people happy. Remember, there are limits to technique. 　(Source: club.chinaren.com)

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