Love is simple, sex is complicated: the girl who has been dealt with.

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In our city, there are girls who have undergone sexual intercourse, but these girls aren't necessarily tasteless, promiscuous, or morally corrupt. They simply experienced sex early on, and their beauty and allure can captivate many men. In fact
, calling these girls "interrupted" is itself a form of contempt or discrimination, yet their original desires are the same as those of girls who remain virgins.
The thought of girls equates to sex or sexual intercourse, becoming a theme of postmodern love.
Thus, in a society where traditional virginity is no longer synonymous with shame, a girl's embarrassment isn't solely determined by premarital sex or whether she has already had sexual relations.
That day, she called and asked, "Was it the article you wrote?" She had seen my article online and inquired around before finding me. Facing such a young girl, I didn't say much, only that she was a good girl and would find her own emotional support, and that she shouldn't dwell on one unsuccessful relationship. She blinked and then asked me, "If you were my boyfriend, would you like a girl who has had her hymen repaired?"
I couldn't express my true thoughts. She said, "I know almost no boy would be so forgiving and stay with such a girl forever. Men are very particular about girls like that. But just like me, I'm a boy, not a virgin. The girl might not even realize it. After careful repair, that hymen will remain intact, only to be broken by one person and one man on their wedding night. It doesn't really have a permanent connection to the girl's virginity."
After the hymen was reconstructed, the girl said she still didn't feel the sense of being a pure girl. This isn't evil for girls who have had sexual experience, because a girl who has lost her virginity isn't necessarily no longer pure. Losing one's virginity
isn't always the girl's fault, even though we are searching for chastity.
But sexual chastity can't be truly restored simply by reconstruction. Isn't it just that hymen that has no real meaning?
However, people say this is a secret that must never be told, a girl's Achilles' heel. The girl says, "I've said the same things, and those discussing these things aren't real girls, but rather showy women or feminists."
I say, "That's not your fault. Because I don't want my views to cause my loyal readers and netizens to die for me."
But people will say I'm not a complete girl, because I can't continue to pretend to be innocent like girls who haven't had sex, or even pretend not to know men's sexual desires.
Why must we always link feelings, marriage, and sex together?
But isn't our current marriage just another kind of sexual relationship? If I have a man I admire, what philosophical words, besides my body, would be the best gift I could give him? Even great philosophers can't just revisit aphorisms or philosophical maxims in bed.
Marriage cannot exclude sexual life, but people don't truly have emotional exchanges only through sexual intercourse.
Besides, most true philosophers are celibate.
I couldn't shake the feeling of being "repaired" and give this girl a satisfactory answer. She confided her secret to me, saying that the feeling of sex was wonderful, but afterwards, it seemed as if that passionate night of lovemaking with him foreshadowed the sin I would bear.
Like the common understanding of sexual chastity: "In a society that values female chastity, men are motivated to mold themselves according to women's expectations, becoming responsible men." This is the common understanding of chastity. However, let's examine this understanding again. Chastity is important to women, but compared to women's social awareness and historical responsibility, women are not merely providers of pleasure for men. The true meaning of women's liberation lies in the fact that when women gain social recognition and their rightful status, their bodies belong to themselves. To control and obtain true happiness, rather than a feeling of promiscuity, isn't that far more meaningful than clinging to classical sexual chastity?
When we're only interested in the technical aspects of virginity, we realize that women's status is far less than the appreciation of women. Just as beautiful women are now part of an economic society, a responsible man shouldn't use so-called chastity as the sole basis for his love.
Even if she has had sex, it doesn't mean she truly understands sexual relationships; deep down, she still yearns for pure, romantic feelings.
Marriage isn't about zero distance. In fact, the relationship between men and women (naturally, it's about genuine human affection, but it doesn't exclude harmonious sexual relationships) has reached a point of fusion. Can you say that the relationship between men and women must be maintained through sex?
If so, should we separate love and marriage, or should I refuse a man's advances when he's dating me?
Love cannot ultimately end without sex, but the most fundamental aspect of love is the connection of souls and the communication between hearts.
If the maintenance and entry of sex is merely a pure sexual enjoyment without emotional investment, then it is simply the release and attainment of lust. Who would want their marriage to be nothing more than a physical exchange? This is
a dialogue about the release of the soul and the existence of chastity.
She is essentially saying that although she had a sexual relationship with her ex-boyfriend, men are still strangers to her.
She still hopes that a new man will genuinely not care about her past, including the fact that her one-night stand with a man she once loved wasn't truly genuine.
Rationally understanding sex and truly understanding women isn't difficult, but is it futile to think that a hymen reconstruction surgery will bring true love?
When a man's desire can be rekindled, can he control his true feelings of desire? Actually, it has nothing to do with whether the girl is a virgin or whether she has a hymen.
Otherwise, in this era where sex is so simple, it would be as we've said many times before: love is simple, but sex is complicated.

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