Seeking medical treatment

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"My name is Qian Cheng (pseudonym), I'm eighteen years old, and a senior in high school. Lately, I haven't been able to concentrate on my studies. I can't focus in class and my mind keeps wandering. With the college entrance exam just around the corner, I'm afraid it will be difficult for me to get into my ideal university. I don't really want to go to university in another city, because then I won't be able to come home often and will be away from my mother for a long time. I love my mother very much, and I might not be used to being away from her. We've always lived together and never been separated. My parents divorced when I was in the second year of junior high school, and I lived with my mother. Before the divorce, my father was rarely home, and after the divorce, he never came back to see us. I haven't looked for him, and I don't miss him. I believe what my mother said is true; he left us because he didn't want us anymore." My mother is a gynecologist. She's very beautiful, with a full figure and a great physique. She's almost forty but looks very young. During the period right after my parents' divorce, her boyfriend often came to our house. While I was sleeping, they would have passionate sex. Sometimes I would pretend to be asleep and peek at them; the scenes were incredibly intense. Perhaps my mother sensed something, because after that, I rarely saw them at home. One evening, after returning home from evening self-study, I found my mother taking a shower. The bathroom door was ajar, and her voluptuous, fair body was completely exposed before me. I stood frozen at the bathroom door, feeling a surge of heat and an unprecedented urge. I don't know how long I stood there, but suddenly I heard my mother call me to come in and help her scrub her back. I obediently went in, and my mother laughed and scolded me... "Silly boy, how can you do this with your clothes on?" So she helped me take them off. I was completely flustered, and my "little brother" had gotten hard without me even realizing it. My mother hugged me and said, "Silly boy, you've grown up." I blushed deeply with embarrassment. In the bathroom, my mother told me that I grew up drinking her milk, and made me put my hand on it. She also showed me her genitals and made me touch that area, telling me that it was the gateway to my life... After the bath, my mother called me to her room to sleep. That night, my mother and I had sex. I was very nervous and clumsy, and my mother taught me how to do it. That night's experience was something I had never experienced before. From then on, I felt that my relationship with my mother was closer, yet there was a sense of distance... I still can't shake the feeling that I sleep in my mother's room two or three times a week. Once, while sleeping, I asked her if other people slept like this, and she told me I wasn't her biological son. She said a biological son's penis can't penetrate his mother's body. I vaguely understand that incest is a shameful and vulgar act. I feel very lonely. I'm afraid to make friends. I'm worried about others finding out this secret. I'm confused. Can't a son and mother really have sex? Can't there be love between a mother and son? Now I doubt whether I'm really my mother's biological son. Why can my penis penetrate her body? Doctor, do you think I'm her biological son? "Besides this reason, do you have any other evidence to prove you're not her biological son?" "I've looked but haven't found anything. My mother has always loved me. My father was very busy working away from home, and my mother and I often slept in the same bed. After starting junior high, we started sleeping in separate rooms, and then my parents divorced, and that's when all this happened. My mother doesn't really hide anything from me at home, like changing clothes, going to the toilet, or taking a shower. I remember before this incident, once when my mother was taking a nap, I secretly touched her breast. When she didn't wake up, I even sucked on her nipple. I only stopped when she turned over, and she didn't say anything afterward." "That time in the bathroom, your mother told you that it was the gateway to your life. What do you think that meant?" "It meant that I came into this world from her. Then why did she tell me that I might not be her biological son? She even said that if I were her son, her 'little brother' wouldn't be able to penetrate me. She's a doctor, so I believe her. If she's not my biological mother, I'll marry her when I grow up. If she really is my mother, I'll live with her and take care of her for the rest of my life." "Isn't what your mother said before contradicting what she's saying now? Humans evolved from animals. Physiologically speaking, as long as an individual has normal sexual function and reaches sexual maturity, they can have sexual intercourse. But that doesn't mean they can have relationships with anyone without restraint. What's the difference between that and animals? Over millions of years of evolution, humans have developed self-awareness and social attributes. To distinguish humans from animals, to make the human species more advantageous in evolution, and to live an orderly life, ethics and morality were formed in this process, and people's behavior, including sexual behavior, is thus constrained. Your mother is a doctor; her two statements are inconsistent. Her purpose in saying this is only to rationalize her behavior, and it has no scientific basis..." Another child lost in a single-parent family, later, through numerous phone consultations and in-person visits, he unloaded his psychological burden, gained a deeper understanding of sex and love, ended his incestuous behavior, gave up the idea of marrying his mother, and Qian Cheng was admitted to a university far from home, starting his new life. Since its inception, the callers have revealed that incest in single-parent families is a concerning issue. Most of these callers are men. Some seek help from psychologists because they experience emotional distress or inner conflict during the process, while others only come to light after encountering setbacks in interpersonal relationships, marriage, or romantic relationships in adulthood. Female callers are less common, perhaps because women are more shy and may not dare to confront this issue. However, the fact remains. Although their stories are diverse and varied, a psychological perspective reveals common patterns and characteristics in this phenomenon. They all experienced parental divorce at a young age and lived with their mothers. Their mothers were almost always portrayed as intelligent, capable, beautiful, voluptuous, passionate, and sexually alluring. They were perceived as lacking in propriety, dressing excessively provocatively in front of their sons; not discreetly engaging in sexual activities such as changing clothes, bathing, or masturbation, treating their sons as if they were invisible; or being overly concerned and intimate with their sons, projecting their own feelings for other women onto them for comfort. They also handled their sons' budding sexual awareness inappropriately, failing to properly guide or stop their tentative actions or curiosity about sex, even allowing them to run rampant, or even exploiting their sexual ignorance in a way that could be considered indulgence and seduction. The children, on the other hand, tend to be timid, introverted, have few friends, lack sexual knowledge, have limited interests, and have had little contact with same-sex role models. Their mothers intentionally undermined their fathers' image, and after the divorce, they had no contact with their fathers or new family members, lacking new information input and same-sex role models to emulate, resulting in a lack of established self-image. Despite the many problems their children may have, parents still play a dominant role in incestuous relationships, and it is their children who are truly harmed. The younger generation pays a heavy price and endures unprecedented psychological pressure. Early sexual experiences have a profound impact on their future, leaving an indelible stain on their innocent sexual landscape, burdening their young minds and paving the way for a difficult and challenging life. For them, family divorce is already a misfortune, and incest is an added insult to injury. The psychological trauma is primarily felt by underage teenagers, whose sexual development is thwarted, their sexual desires are misguided, and they rush headlong into the wrong objects. Their intense and uncontrollable desires, coupled with societal moral constraints, cause them distress and confusion. As adults, they often struggle to establish normal romantic relationships, and their personalities may become self-conscious, withdrawn, and isolated, hindering their ability to build healthy interpersonal relationships and fostering a lack of social responsibility. In single-parent families, sex education for children relies heavily on verbal instruction and example. Parents play an undeniable and crucial role in guiding their children's psychological development and bear an inescapable responsibility. As a parent, you may be a victim of an unhappy marriage, but don't pass on your unhappiness to your children. Any inappropriate behavior can lead them astray. It's worth noting that Freud's widely circulated theory of the Oedipus complex often serves as the best evidence to beautify and rationalize incestuous behavior, suggesting that such a complex exists inherent in human nature. The extreme example of patricide and incest provides a shield for such behavior and becomes a model for incest. Freud probably didn't anticipate this, and I think it goes against his original intentions.

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