Hooking up has nothing to do with money

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First, let me introduce myself. I'm 26 years old and got married two years ago. We haven't had children yet. My husband is a businessman who travels a lot, which has improved our family's living conditions considerably, but it has also left me alone at home, inevitably causing me to suffer from sexual desire. As those of you who have read my posts know, I'm a woman who's open-minded, but that doesn't mean I lack a sense of responsibility or family values. I believe that no matter how much fun you have before marriage, you still have to be responsible to your family and husband after marriage. On the other hand, in terms of appearance, while I wouldn't call myself a stunning beauty, I'm more than qualified to be considered "beautiful." Many netizens have told me that it's relatively difficult for a woman like me to successfully hook up. But the truth is, I have had successful hookups before, and more than once.

Here, I'll analyze one unforgettable experience for you. This hookup happened less than a year after I got married. It was a rainy winter day, the city lights were just coming on, and I was still all alone. I'd had a fight with my husband and was feeling really down. I was browsing websites on my computer, and out of boredom, I downloaded a dating app. I just browsed for a bit, didn't add anyone, and soon four or five people messaged me. Some said "Hello!", others asked directly, "Hey beautiful, are you lonely so late? Want me to keep you company?" Someone even said, "Hey beautiful, I have a big dick, want to have some fun?" Only one person messaged, "It's so cold, wanna grab some late-night snacks?"

Guys, if you don't read what follows, can you tell who successfully hooked up with me? Let's look at each of these different ways of asking. Saying "Hello!" is too bland and doesn't excite me. Usually, I'd just reply with "Hello too" or ignore them completely. Asking if I'm lonely isn't good either; it's too direct. What business is it of yours if I'm lonely? Am I supposed to tell you, "I'm so lonely, come fuck me!"? Guys, would a woman say something like that? Even if someone might say, "Do you even have a taste for a woman like that?" or "Let me have some fun," the underlying message is roughly the same: even if your big dick is really attractive, I'm a woman. Can I shamelessly tell you that I need your big dick to fuck me? What's our relationship anyway? So, the person who invites me out is someone who asks me out for a late-night snack. Everyone understands what this late-night invitation means; no explanation is needed.

There are nuances to late-night invitations. First, you can't invite someone too early, like at 10 PM. That's likely to be a one-night stand, because physiologically, I usually want to go after 10 PM. Second, late-night invitations are necessary for both men and women; they're a way of testing each other. Men invite women out to see if they're to their liking, while women go to see if the other person is interested. If you don't like the woman, it's just a small expense for a late-night snack. Are you really so stingy? At most, you can take her home afterward; everyone understands.

Narrated account: A woman's experience with hooking up in the same city.

That day, I went out for a late-night snack with him around 11 PM. When he saw me, he was clearly taken aback. Although he didn't say anything, I knew he hadn't expected me to be so pretty, because I don't have any photos of myself on my blog. He wasn't particularly handsome, but he had a clean-cut, refined look. It was obvious he had prepared. After eating a little something, I couldn't eat anymore. His conversation was very polite, focusing on things unrelated to hooking up. After paying the bill, he asked me, "Shall I take you home or find a place to sit?" I was still attracted to this kind of man, so I said, "Let's find a place to sit." I followed him to a hotel, and what happened next was natural.

Here are a few things that fellow enthusiasts should pay attention to. First, be subtle in your words. "Find a place to sit" is a very clear message to a woman. In the middle of the night, where else would you go but a hotel? His question was essentially asking if I was satisfied with him; if so, we'd go to a hotel; if not, he could take me home. So when I replied, "Let's find a place to sit," I was essentially telling him, "I agree to go to a hotel with you." Don't be so direct as to ask, "Shall we go to a hotel?" What do you take me for? Secondly, some guys say they're not good-looking and are afraid they won't be able to hook up with women. Actually, women don't care about appearances as much as men do about women's. Not every guy looking for a hookup is handsome, but you don't have to be. You must be presentable. Don't make women think you're a beggar on the street. What woman wants to have a relationship with a guy like that? Furthermore, even if the woman is very beautiful but doesn't like you, it's okay. You just spent a little money to have a beautiful woman accompany you for a late-night snack. Do you really think you're losing out? Most importantly, guys must pay attention to details. Details reveal a man's inner qualities and add points to his image. When I first saw him, I wasn't particularly interested either. Although I don't care much about looks, everyone appreciates beauty. Later, his demeanor and conversation attracted me. He was very talkative, but never discussed private matters. For example, he asked what I did for a living, but not specifically which company I worked for, because who would want a casual sex partner to know where they worked? Wouldn't that cause trouble later? Also, he didn't ask my name, only my surname. When we checked into the hotel, he deliberately avoided asking for my ID, because I didn't want him to know my true situation. These details made me feel comfortable, and I willingly let him into my body.

The next morning, he left while I was still asleep. He left four hundred yuan on the bedside table, then kissed me and said, "Baby, there's four hundred yuan on the bedside table. Take it and buy something you like."

This is a sensitive topic. Why? Do I need that little bit of money? No! Does giving me money mean I'll like you? No! There's a method to giving money. First, let's talk about whether or not to give money. If you want a next time, you must give it; if you're not satisfied with this woman, you don't need to. The meaning is obvious, and women understand it. Secondly, there's the question of how much to give. This isn't really a big deal; just do what you can afford. The most important thing is how you give it. Once, a man tried to give me money, and I immediately blackmailed him when I got home! What did he take me for?

This online friend and I maintained close contact, although we weren't often together, he was my only non-sexual partner. I hope my explanation has been helpful.

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