My Eight-Year Sexual History

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I've posted five times before, thank you all for your support. Thank you. I mentioned before that I don't like buying sex. Besides occasional romantic encounters in work and life, I also do casual sex, and the success rate is not low. Here, I'd like to share my personal experience with everyone, just to spark discussion. Of course, it's easy to hook up with handsome guys and rich kids, not worth studying. Today, I want to talk about hooking up techniques for guys with average incomes and average jobs. If you belong to this group, please be sure to read this article; I guarantee you'll benefit greatly. I. Tips for using chat apps App hookups are the mainstream method nowadays. It saves you the embarrassment of asking girls for their numbers in person and provides you with a virtual platform to showcase yourself. If you want to hook up, apps are your biggest helper. There's no such thing as an app with the highest success rate for hookups. The functions of current social software are all similar: people around, shake, message in a bottle, etc. But you need to know which app has the most users in your city: WeChat, Momo, or Yujian. I usually use WeChat and Momo, and this article will use these two apps as examples. An anonymous poll of female users showed that two-thirds of them crave one-night stands and sexual partners. (See Figure 1) This gives us opportunities to hook up. Most of these women own social media apps, so you need to make good use of your phone. (I) Location and Timing of Using Social Media Apps Hooking up doesn't mean you have to spend all day searching for targets; that's too tiring and yields little result. We all know that WeChat and Momo allow you to see people nearby, which is a great feature, and hooking up often relies on this amazing function. After all, proximity is key; people nearby are the easiest to approach. If you're in a big city, the chances of finding a message in a bottle from someone in the same city are also high. Try finding one every 5 minutes around midnight; you're guaranteed to find a sexy girl. It must be said that Momo is more powerful than WeChat in that as long as you activate Momo, regardless of whether you look at people nearby or not, your phone's location services are always on (unless you manually turn them off). This means that people nearby can see you. Unlike WeChat, which requires you to check the "People Nearby" location system before it's enabled, Momo allows you to actively search for targets or wait for attractive women to contact you. With WeChat, your profile picture only appears in someone's nearby list after you've searched for them. Therefore, if you genuinely want a casual sex partner and are using WeChat, you need to regularly search for nearby people. This creates opportunities for yourself and also provides opportunities for proactive women. So, where should you search for nearby people? In places with many women, such as shopping streets, food streets, cinemas, and near schools. I always search for nearby people whenever I'm in these areas, so nearby women can also find me. This can become a habit. KTVs and nightclubs also have many women. You might ask, why not search in these places? Think about it: firstly, they're drinking beer, singing, and dancing, so they don't have much time to look at their phones. Secondly, if you want to meet women at nightclubs, it's best to be there in person; chatting over drinks is much more real than chatting over a phone. Meeting women face-to-face is not the focus of this article, so we'll skip that. So when is the best time to search? The best time is midnight. Nowadays, young people are used to playing on their phones before going to bed. And the quiet of the night is precisely when single women feel lonely and empty. Moreover, there are many women who are slightly drunk at midnight. At this time, women's defenses are weak, and the fatigue of a day's work will also greatly reduce their vigilance and thoroughness of thinking. This is the easiest time to take advantage of them. Of course, it is rare to find a girl who will ask you out for a hotel room on the first night. This takes time, which I will explain in detail below. Of course, if you have enough time besides the night, you can also try searching during the day to expand your resources. However, during the day, girls may be busy with their own private affairs or work and are too lazy to pay attention to you. Also, people's energy is at its peak during the day, and their thinking is also sharp. Many girls are tomboyish during the day, so it is not easy to succeed at this time. It is better not to waste the opportunity and resources and save them for when you are lonely and empty at night. (II) How to make your app profile attractive to girls First, give yourself a special name. Don't use cartoon characters, Luffy, Kakashi, etc., as this will make girls think you are immature. Don't use names with things like "brother," "uncle," or "grandpa" in your head. Girls like mature and stable men, but they definitely don't like pretentious profundity. It's best to choose a name with an artistic feel so that a girl immediately knows you're a cultured person. After all, nobody wants to sleep with a vulgar and reckless guy. Or, you could simply choose a name made up of unusual words; this will pique a girl's curiosity. My WeChat name is like that, and I'm not afraid to tell you, it's "Early Gentleman." Girls often ask me why I have this name. Of course, I won't just tell her, "Early Gentleman represents someone who frequently gets an erection in the morning." We need to learn to create suspense and arouse her curiosity. I'll explain the second point in more detail below: Choose a cool profile picture. Don't use pictures of cats or dogs, don't use South Korean oppas, don't use "punk" or "emo" styles, and don't use a silly street photo of a Lamborghini as your profile picture. Think it through; this is your first impression on a girl, so take it seriously. Ideally, use a photo of yourself as your profile picture. If you wake up in a particularly good mood and feel refreshed, take a selfie. Girls like energetic men; don't let them see you looking sickly, smoking, or decadent. Every girl looking for a casual fling wants a strong, capable man who can satisfy her, so remember, your profile picture should project confidence and vitality. Of course, don't overdo it; don't go straight for a muscle-baring photo. Not every girl likes muscular men, and she might even think you're gay. There are many selfie tips for men online; go and learn them yourself. What if you don't think you're handsome enough? First, take several photos and choose the one you think looks best. If you're not satisfied with your front view, take a side profile or a close-up. Second, learn to use photo editing apps like Meitu Xiu Xiu and Photoshop. If you feel your skin is bad, use a skin smoothing tool; if you feel you have too many pimples, remove them; if all else fails, take a black and white photo. However, remember not to make the photo too different from your real appearance. Otherwise, a girl might come to dinner with you excitedly, only to find you look drastically different from the photo, losing her appetite, let alone any sexual desire. Third, how should you fill in the "occupation" field? Momo has occupation options, so don't be too honest. If you're a construction worker, write "migrant worker"; if you're unemployed, write "homebody." Let me teach you: if you're a construction worker, write "construction industry"; if you work at a gas station, write "energy industry"; if you're employed, write "early-stage startup"; if you're unemployed, write "self-employed." Got it? Playing it close to the line isn't wrong. You're not planning to marry her and have children, so why be so serious? Besides, girls don't really care what you do for a living in this section; they just want to know your financial situation. So, as long as you don't exaggerate too much, try to sound positive and keep it to yourself. Fourth, what should you post on your Moments? First, remember: don't post about having 10 kills and 0 deaths in League of Legends today. Girls don't like introverted guys. Don't post inspirational quotes or melodramatic complaints. Don't post about where you went drinking with friends today or having barbecue with your buddies tomorrow. Life has many beautiful things besides food and drinks; you need to showcase them. It's not that you can't post about being with friends, but you need to do it appropriately. You can post about traveling with friends, showing photos of yourself with the scenery along the way, letting girls think you're well-traveled and knowledgeable. Or you can post about cycling or playing sports with friends, letting girls think you're healthy and sunny. Or you can showcase your special talents. If you can draw, take pictures of your artwork and post them online; if you sing well, sing on a karaoke app and share it. Try to show your sunny, healthy, optimistic, and strong side. I've posted a lot of my own renditions of Jacky Cheung songs, and girls who hear them want to ask me out to karaoke. These are the preparations; if you do these well, you've successfully taken the first step on the road to hooking up. II. How to Choose Girls You might ask, "I'm just a loser, I'm lucky if any girl is willing to go out with me. I accept all comers, so what's there to choose from?" You're wrong. There are several types of girls you should absolutely never go out with. Let me explain. (I) Never go out with a friend. If you have a very good female friend, someone you can talk to about anything, then you absolutely must not sleep with her. Doing so will absolutely ruin that friendship. Even if you have excellent social skills, you won't be able to handle the awkward relationship of turning a friend into a sex partner. Even if you remain outwardly friendly, she will harbor resentment and won't be able to confide in you anymore. Sacrificing a friendship for a one-night stand is not worth it. Don't ask me how I know; I don't want to say. -_-#
(II) Don't hook up with friends of friends. This is a broad category, including your friend's sister or older sister. Unless you genuinely like her and want to establish a relationship, you'll lose more than just a casual sex partner; you might also lose the friend who introduced you, or even three or four friends at once. In severe cases, you could be permanently excluded from that circle of friends. (III) Don't hook up with married colleagues. You can still have fun with unmarried colleagues, as long as you keep things within limits. But if you make a move on a married colleague, you might end up with her husband blocking your way home with a kitchen knife. A friend of mine got his colleague pregnant with an ectopic pregnancy, and I personally witnessed the murderous look in her husband's eyes. If you do the same, you'll lose both the woman and your job. These three types of women should not be hooked up with. One should have principles, and the same applies to casual sex. Casual sex is just a little spice in a mundane life; it's not worth risking friendships and your job. Of course, there are other types of women you shouldn't hook up with: those who are sick, mentally disturbed, or women of gang leaders, etc. You know what I mean, I won't go into details. III. Initial Approach Techniques and Personality Analysis (I) Initial Approach We've already discussed preparation and the principles of casual sex. Now, let's get to the main topic. At the time and place mentioned above, we need to observe the surrounding girls. Don't think that adding one or two is enough; remember to cast a wide net and focus on catching the right fish. Add any girls you find attractive as soon as possible—the more the merrier. You need to establish a rating system to determine your target range. I usually rate myself; I give myself a 7 out of 10 for appearance, and I look for girls between 6 and 8. I don't like girls below 6, and they wouldn't like me if I scored 9 or 10. Be realistic when rating and adding friends; don't be overly ambitious. Everyone loves a supermodel, but don't let your expectations detach you from reality. For basic casual sex, just find someone you like. If the girl has verified her identity, then we need to approach her. Verification messages are generally limited to 20 characters or less, so make good use of them. Don't just send a simple "Hello" and call it a day. Unless your profile picture is exceptionally handsome, most girls won't respond. Also, avoid sending insincere messages like "You're so pretty," "Let's be friends," or "Let's chat." If someone compliments her on her looks and wants to add her, but she doesn't know anything about you, you're at a disadvantage among 50 competitors. Therefore, your approach needs to be novel and unique. I usually choose phrases like, "You look familiar, haven't we met somewhere before?" or "You look special, I think I've seen you on TV." Similar to choosing a name, make the girl curious and feel that you're different. Of course, this requires using different approach techniques for girls with different personalities. Of course, everyone may have more advanced techniques, and we can exchange ideas. (II) Personality Analysis One particularly good thing about WeChat and Momo is that strangers can see 8 out of 10 of a girl's photos. Through this feature, you can gain a preliminary understanding and analysis of a girl's personality. If you encounter a girl who likes to post selfies, she's generally good-looking, at least indicating that she's confident in her appearance. Then you can use the "I've seen you on TV" trick. Out of confidence and self-satisfaction, 80% of girls like this will add you. If you encounter a girl who likes to post photos of celebrities, you can say, "I also like [celebrity's name], and I love [her work's name] the most." This is just an example to show you that you need to find common interests with her. Birds of a feather flock together, and if you share common interests, there's a 70% chance she'll add you. If you can't find any personality traits in her photos, then use the "you're unique" tactic. However, the success rate might only be 50%. You might ask, what about the remaining 20%, 30%, and 50%? Don't forget what I taught you before about how to make your profile attractive.
When you greet a girl, she can see your profile picture and 10 photos. If your profile picture and photos are attractive to her, the likelihood of her adding you as a friend increases significantly. However, if you encounter a girl who has set her profile to prevent strangers from seeing her photos, then it's best to try anything, even if it seems hopeless. Don't have too high hopes. Here's a detail everyone needs to pay special attention to. If several girls on your list are 300 meters away from you and have a similar vibe or feel, then never use the same sentence to strike up a conversation. It's best to write down their accounts and add them at different times. Because they might be friends and currently together. Imagine you simultaneously send three girls the message "I think I've seen you on TV," and they happen to be having bubble tea together, handing each other their phones to look at the message—you're doomed. Not only will you be blocked, but they might also use it as a joke to screenshot and post it on their social media. At that point, you'll feel like dying. Don't ask me how I know; I still don't want to say. -_-# IV. Categorizing Your Prey If you followed the steps I described earlier, you should now have quite a few resources on your phone. But with so many resources, how do you get started? This requires us to categorize our targets. This isn't about physical appearance, but rather a different approach, which I'll explain later. (I) Further Analysis of the Girl's Personality Once you've added her as a friend, you can browse all her photos. Don't rush into talking to her. First, look at all her photos and, as mentioned above, understand her personality and find common ground. This time, with ample information from photos and posts, you can carefully analyze her personality. Of course, it's best to read more psychology books. A girl's post, whether a sentence or a picture, not only reflects her personality but also tells you her current emotional state. You can easily tell whether she's currently feeling elated or downcast. It's not too late to chat with them after understanding their personality, interests, and emotional state. Be generous and outgoing with more enthusiastic girls, and polite and appropriate with quieter, more cautious girls. Make them feel that you are like them. This is very important. Humans are naturally wary; only when they feel that another person is like them will this hostile wariness disappear. Men, don't forget humor; it's a powerful weapon. Humor isn't about telling jokes or telling dirty jokes. Humor is a quality, a lifestyle, something that can't be explained in a few words and requires daily cultivation. The right approach to humor is twice as effective and can easily bring you closer to a girl. Therefore, it's essential to cultivate it. By the way, girls love to be praised. Find something she excels at and praise it; it's always beneficial. However, be careful with the degree of praise. Too much praise will backfire. Praise her every time she displays a unique characteristic. For example, if she posts pictures of animals on social media, praise her for being kind; if she posts pictures of food, praise her for enjoying food while maintaining a good figure. Got it? Regarding yourself, be good at concealing your true self. Don't reveal everything about yourself to a girl at once; that's boring. You know your own strengths and weaknesses best. Revealing a little bit of your talent and strengths periodically will make her feel that you are mysterious and unassuming. (II) Categorizing Your Prey Now, let's talk about the important part. We need to categorize the female resources we have; this is a crucial step. Different categories of girls require different approaches. This will allow you to quickly unravel the complexities and find the key. My personal categorization is as follows: First category: Goddess level. These girls are extremely beautiful, heavily made up. The kind that would arouse you just by looking at them. Their characteristics include a social media feed full of beautiful selfies, selfies with other beautiful women, frequenting upscale venues, and showing off designer bags and shoes. However, I generally don't add these girls directly. Why? What haven't goddesses seen? They don't care if you treat them to a fancy restaurant and a bottle of wine you scrimped and saved to buy for 200 yuan. You'd have to spend a lot of money and effort to win them over. Goddesses are rich, handsome, and successful—not relevant to our topic today. Unless you're a super-sized man, give up on this type early. Although occasionally a goddess might spend a night with you, the chances are extremely low. Besides, a goddess could also be a manipulative woman. Second category: Average girl. This category is the opposite of goddesses. It's not that there aren't beautiful women among average girls. I can tell you responsibly: Yes! Maybe those so-called goddesses aren't even as good-looking without makeup. Besides, if she weren't pretty and you weren't sexually interested in her, you wouldn't have added her as a friend. I'm referring to "loser girls" who don't know how to do makeup and look plain or even unsophisticated. Most of them have little or no dating experience. They have stable but average-paying jobs. They don't have many friends and rarely go out for meals or shopping. Most of them are single, and their social media posts are mostly artsy, inspirational quotes. They crave passionate love but have no men pursuing them. They crave friends but feel misunderstood. If you get to know these girls better, you'll find that their inner desires might be incredibly wild. And these girls have a major advantage, one that everyone loves: you might even encounter one or two virgins among them. When it comes to sex, virgins are much rarer than goddesses. So these girls are our main prey. The third type: ordinary girls. This type of girl is quite broad. They are either artsy or bourgeois, somewhere in between the two mentioned above. These women come from upper-middle-class backgrounds, have above-average education, and wear light makeup, but are mostly seen without it. They may have boyfriends or a few close girlfriends. Their social media is full of pictures of food, movies, spontaneous trips, shared songs, occasional selfies, occasional work complaints, and occasional erratic mood swings. There's an underlying instability in these women: unstable romantic relationships. Therefore, you need to constantly monitor their social media and observe their emotional changes. Long-distance relationships, betrayal by boyfriends, and breakups present good opportunities for you to make your move. For single, ordinary women, you can try becoming friends first and slowly finding their vulnerabilities. These women are our secondary targets. Fifth, building rapport and making requests: Having categorized and analyzed the general personality traits of our targets, the next step is to build rapport and make requests for sex. Hooking up isn't instantaneous; very few people succeed with just "Hi" and "Want to hook up?" We need time and opportunity. The women I hook up with take anywhere from a week to a month to find their way. Both require patience. First, after successfully adding her as a friend, don't ignore her. Take the initiative to communicate with her, showcasing your strengths, charm, and humor. Simply put, let her know you exist as a WeChat or Momo friend, and then further gain her favor. This requires a targeted approach. This time, we can not only learn about her through her Moments, but also because you're chatting with a real person. You can gradually learn about her life, relationships, and work through conversation. In short, you need to have a preliminary understanding of each "prey" and leave a good impression on each one. The goal is for her to think of you even when she turns off her phone; that's the first step to successfully hooking up. Case Analysis: Look at picture two. This is a message sent to me by a potential prey, someone I'd only met once before. This demonstrates the point I mentioned earlier—that she had me in her heart. This girl later became my possession. Of course, this process may be lengthy, and I repeatedly emphasize the importance of patience. Speaking of which, I must mention how to enhance your charm. If you are over 24, I suggest you definitely study philosophy. Not the Marxist philosophy in textbooks, but look at the mainstream European philosophical schools, find one you like, and develop your own set of viewpoints. This will greatly enhance your personal charm and overall cultivation. Secondly, keep up with fashion and trendy trends. You should be able to respond to whatever a girl talks about, ideally with your own unique perspective. If you really don't understand something, you can temporarily leave it unanswered and first look it up online to find out what she's talking about. The second step is to constantly observe changes in her social media posts. You need to know immediately who's sad, who's heartbroken, or who's broken up. At this time, she should be your primary target. This is when women are most vulnerable. 60% of one-night stands occur when women are in this emotional state. You need to immediately offer care, comfort, and show that you're willing to listen. Once you get past this hurdle, your standing in her heart will immediately rise. For girls who don't often post pictures or express their feelings, you need to spend more time talking to them. Because you can only understand her personality through her words. Case Analysis: I once encountered a girl who ignored me. I didn't consider her my primary target, but I didn't let my guard down. When the weather changed, I'd send a message reminding her to dress warmly. Or I'd send a message in the morning saying, "I know we're not very close yet, but I sincerely hope you have a happy and fulfilling day." I just wanted her to remember that I existed and that I was paying attention to her. Suddenly one day, she messaged me saying, "I'm in a bad mood, want to go out for a drink with me?" The rest is history. The third step is to chat with your target frequently. She starts initiating conversations or chatting with you every day. Then you can steer the conversation towards sex. You can send a slightly suggestive joke, but not too explicit, the mildest kind, and see her reaction. Figure 3 shows me asking a single girl about her relationship with her ex-boyfriend.How's her sex life? She said it wasn't great; her ex-boyfriend couldn't arouse her sexually, and later she offered to let me help. So, if she boldly engages in conversation and dares to discuss sex with you, then congratulations, you're almost there. All you need is the right timing and a couple of glasses of red wine. If she changes the subject as soon as you bring up dirty jokes or sex topics, then the timing isn't right yet, so repeat the previous steps. Finally, what about girls who seem hopeless? If they won't talk to you or confide in you, and you feel it's really not working out, then give up decisively and move on to another target. Giving up doesn't mean wasting resources. Before giving up, you can directly ask for a hookup, but make it clear beforehand that it won't disturb each other's lives. You might even have an unexpected reward. I've encountered a cold beauty who ignored me completely. I was even planning to delete her, but I took the risk and asked, and it actually worked out. Of course, some girls will overreact to your request, cursing you, blocking you, reporting you. What's there to be afraid of? Hookups require thick skin. If you get reported, you just can't greet strangers for a day. After a day, you're back to normal. Case Analysis: I once texted a girl while drunk: "Let's go on a date and have sex." She immediately berated me. "What do you take me for? How can you be so disrespectful? I'm not a prostitute!" Seeing this, I thought I had angered her, and being too drunk, I went to sleep. The next day, when I checked my phone, she had finished her rant and then sent a message a while later: "Have you been drinking?" Because I was asleep, I didn't reply. A little while later, she texted again: "Are you angry?" Half an hour later, she texted again: "Where are you? Can you come out now?" The last message, sent at 2 AM: "Book a hotel, I'll come find you." So, sometimes don't be timid; being bold can yield unexpected results. It's not that girls don't want to, it's just that they can't overcome their psychological and moral barriers. VI. Preparations Before the Date: If she agrees to meet you for dinner, and you don't look too different in person than in our chats, and your appearance isn't too different, then you have a chance. Don't be too excited before the date; be prepared. Bring extra money to pay for the meal and the hotel room. Take a shower, tidy your hair and clothes. Don't masturbate for a few days before the hookup, and bring several condoms. Using some cologne is also a good option. When you meet your target, no matter what happens after dinner, try to remain calm. Show your humor and charm, and don't forget to compliment her. If things are going well, promise to keep it a secret and not interfere with her life when making your request, giving her 200% security. Success or failure depends on your performance. Don't worry if you don't succeed the first time; I only got my target on the second try. Leave her with a good impression, and try again next time. Some advice for hookups: 1. Use a condom. Even if it's a repeat session. 2. Don't give your name, and don't ask for it. 3. Don't talk about money, and don't borrow money. This means don't lend her money or ask her for money. (Someone still owes me 1000 yuan.) 4. Don't stay overnight. Leave after you're done. 5. Don't develop real feelings, and don't mention love. (This is the reason for point four) 6. Respect her sexual habits. If she doesn't like doggy style, don't do it. If you behave well, you might get a second chance. 7. Don't take her home or go to her house. You book the hotel. Reduce unnecessary trouble and potential problems. 8. Before penetration, check her genitals for yellow discharge or odor. If so, leave immediately. 9. Don't take photos secretly, otherwise the consequences will be serious. 10. Don't disturb her daily life. 11. If you just want to have fun with her, don't leave your contact information and keep her secret. Give her a sense of security. VII. How to handle your relationship after a hookup. Two situations may occur after a hookup. First, if you feel that you are not satisfied with this girl, or she wants to pester you, and you don't want to continue the friend-with-benefits relationship, then don't be too ruthless. Don't delete her immediately. Just be a little cold to her. A normal person will understand what you mean. Second, this girl is skilled in bed and knows what's good for her. You want to continue the friend-with-benefits relationship with her. Then you also need to pay attention to the boundaries. Sleeping with her once doesn't mean she's yours. Don't keep bothering her or bringing up sex. Since you promised not to interfere with her daily life, you should still treat her as a friend. Unless she brings up your past sexual experiences, it's best not to. If she has a husband or boyfriend and sees your explicit messages, you'll be in trouble. Of course, if you want to go back to her, it's not up to you. She might not want it either. To keep her interested, you need to be careful. First, you need to demonstrate sufficient sexual skill on the first date. If she feels you can't satisfy her, she won't give you a second chance. So, I emphasize again, don't masturbate for a few days before the date; conserve your energy. Second, after the date, maintain a proper distance and don't constantly talk about sex. This will make her feel that the date didn't disrupt her normal life or compromise her privacy, giving her a sense of security. Then she'll see you differently and might even ask you out again. See Figure 4; it's an example of my successful return to her. Once she accepts you, she'll see you as a reliable man and will give you wonderful sexual experiences again. Postscript: The above is my personal experience, which I consider the essence distilled from my painful history of casual sex. I hope everyone will leave comments, exchange ideas, and teach me some techniques I don't yet know. After writing this guide, I showed it to a few close female friends who occasionally have casual sex with strangers. After reading it, they felt I basically understood female psychology and paid attention to most of the details women notice, so they considered it a decent guide to casual sex. I hope it's helpful to you. By the way...If you want to continue your friends-with-benefits relationship with her, don't go too far. Don't delete her immediately; just be a little distant. A normal person will understand what you mean. Secondly, this girl is skilled in bed and knows what's good for her. If you want to continue your friends-with-benefits relationship, you need to be careful about boundaries. Sleeping with her once doesn't mean she's yours. Don't constantly bother her or bring up sex. Since you promised not to disturb her daily life, you still need to treat her as a friend. Unless she brings up your sexual experiences, it's best not to. If she has a husband or boyfriend and sees your explicit messages, you'll be in trouble. Of course, if you want to go back to sex, it's not up to you. She might not want it either. To get her to continue the relationship, you need to be careful. First, you need to demonstrate sufficient sexual skill on the first time. If she feels you can't satisfy her, she won't give you a second chance. So, I emphasize again, don't masturbate for a few days before the hookup; conserve your energy. Secondly, after the hookup, if you maintain a proper distance from her as I mentioned and don't constantly talk about sex, the girl will feel that hooking up with you hasn't disrupted her normal life, her privacy hasn't been compromised, and she'll feel secure. Then she'll look at you differently and might even actively seek you out again. See Figure 4; it's an example of my successful return. Once she accepts you, she'll see you as a reliable man and will give you wonderful sexual experiences again. Postscript: The above is my personal experience, which I consider the essence distilled from my painful history of hooking up. I hope everyone will leave me comments, exchange ideas, and teach me some techniques I don't yet understand. I showed this guide to a few close female friends who occasionally hook up with strangers. After reading it, they felt I basically understood female psychology and paid attention to most of the details women notice, so they considered it a decent hookup guide. I hope it's helpful to you. By the way...If you want to continue your friends-with-benefits relationship with her, don't go too far. Don't delete her immediately; just be a little distant. A normal person will understand what you mean. Secondly, this girl is skilled in bed and knows what's good for her. If you want to continue your friends-with-benefits relationship, you need to be careful about boundaries. Sleeping with her once doesn't mean she's yours. Don't constantly bother her or bring up sex. Since you promised not to disturb her daily life, you still need to treat her as a friend. Unless she brings up your sexual experiences, it's best not to. If she has a husband or boyfriend and sees your explicit messages, you'll be in trouble. Of course, if you want to go back to sex, it's not up to you. She might not want it either. To get her to continue the relationship, you need to be careful. First, you need to demonstrate sufficient sexual skill on the first time. If she feels you can't satisfy her, she won't give you a second chance. So, I emphasize again, don't masturbate for a few days before the hookup; conserve your energy. Secondly, after the hookup, if you maintain a proper distance from her as I mentioned and don't constantly talk about sex, the girl will feel that hooking up with you hasn't disrupted her normal life, her privacy hasn't been compromised, and she'll feel secure. Then she'll look at you differently and might even actively seek you out again. See Figure 4; it's an example of my successful return. Once she accepts you, she'll see you as a reliable man and will give you wonderful sexual experiences again. Postscript: The above is my personal experience, which I consider the essence distilled from my painful history of hooking up. I hope everyone will leave me comments, exchange ideas, and teach me some techniques I don't yet understand. I showed this guide to a few close female friends who occasionally hook up with strangers. After reading it, they felt I basically understood female psychology and paid attention to most of the details women notice, so they considered it a decent hookup guide. I hope it's helpful to you. By the way...

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