Real Marital Relationship Records

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I'm writing this down about our relationship so I can analyze and improve it later. I feel it's important, but I don't know how to bring it up with my wife. Without complete and open honesty between husband and wife, there can be no genuine communication. That's why I'm writing this. I also plan to post it on a forum after my wife reads and agrees, so everyone can comment and see how to solve our problems.

My wife and I don't have sex often. We haven't had sex for the past few months. Sometimes I want to,

but when I get home, there are so many things to do, the kids are noisy, and we both lose interest. We're currently struggling financially, and neither of us is happy. It's been like this for the past few years; she's very busy with the family, and so am I.

Last year during Chinese New Year, I had sex with her again, and it was quite enjoyable. She's very horny; she's uninhibited during sex, she'll do anything. It's just that it's not easy to get her aroused; the hardships of life have made us both increasingly hard.

During the Chinese New Year, the kids went back to their hometown. Before she left, I gave her a bath and had sex with her; it was very enjoyable. Let me record the process. I soaped her whole body and scrubbed her all over, especially her breasts and vagina, for a long time. It felt very good, and I could feel that she was already a little wet down there.

Then I quickly rinsed off and went to bed. We had an unpleasant conversation about money, so we didn't do anything.

After sleeping for a while, in the middle of the night, I couldn't resist and put my hand inside her panties and touched her vagina. She got aroused and kissed me. I gave her oral sex and talked about some fantasies. She's becoming more and more into fantasies because of my training. Then I penetrated her vagina. At first, it was very tight because we haven't done it much. Finally, when I was about to ejaculate, I said I wanted to ejaculate in her mouth. She disagreed. I asked, "Where should I ejaculate then?" She said, "Inside, take off the condom and ejaculate inside." I said that was boring. She asked, "Where should I ejaculate then?" I said, "I want to ejaculate in your mouth, and then you can swallow it." She said, "Let me check on Baidu." I took out my phone and checked if semen is edible. Baidu said it's okay if the man doesn't have any diseases. I showed her my phone, but she said it was too bright for her eyes. She answered that she would eat it and then spit it out. I said no, I'd done it before and wasn't interested in doing it again. I just wanted to see her eat it; whether she ate it or not made no difference. She said she'd ejaculate inside her vagina after pulling out the condom, but I said that was pointless. She said okay. When I was about to ejaculate, I pulled my penis out and aimed it at her head, but then I changed my mind and ejaculated on her neck, smearing the semen on her neck. The lights were off, so I couldn't see and didn't want to try it again. I thought I'd do it next time I had the chance to see her.

Before, we'd told each other dirty jokes, like, "Do you want to eat meat or chicken?" Every time, she'd answer "eating penis."

The story of the Japanese bathing. I told her that first, and she told me the story later. The more vulgar she told me, the more excited I felt. It said a Japanese man's wife was taking a bath and invited a Chinese man to bathe with her. While bathing, the man's penis became erect. Suddenly, the Japanese man came home and asked reproachfully, "What's going on?" The Japanese woman draped a towel over his penis and replied, "Just draping a towel." The

Japanese man looked at it and left. Afterwards, the woman and man got aroused. The Chinese man inserted his penis into the Japanese woman's vagina and started thrusting. At this moment, the Japanese man suddenly came in again, angrily asking, "What's going on?" The Japanese woman replied, "I've already rubbed the outside, now I'm rubbing the inside." Hahaha.

We even filmed videos of her vagina with our phones, videos of her sucking my penis. She always asked to watch porn before sex to get aroused. Later, for a while, we would watch Japanese porn before sex. She really liked it and always said she wanted to watch it. Then, after sex, she would take out her phone and search for porn online.

Once, during sex, I told her, "I uploaded a video of you showering to a porn site. It's a picture of your back exposed while showering. Many people have seen it, and those who have commented, 'Is this a man or a woman?'" She laughed. I said, "How about I film your vagina and show it to them next time?" She said, "There will definitely be good reviews and bad reviews." It seems she doesn't object to other men seeing her vagina. I asked her, "Are you slutty?" She answered, "Slutty."

I also talked to her about wife-swapping. She asked curiously, "How does that work?" I said, "First, we send each other nude photos and see how it goes. Then we chat on QQ, swap partners, and date each other's partners for a while to see how it goes. If everything is suitable, we meet up at a hotel for sex." She seemed quite excited after hearing this.

During the Lunar New Year, my fantasy partner was my former colleague, David. After I licked her pussy until she was satisfied, I took out my phone and took some pictures of her pussy, and then I took some pictures of her labia. Then I said, "This is what David wanted; I took these pictures to show him." She asked, "Why did you give them to him?" I said, "He gave me some pornographic DVDs before, so I took some nude photos of my wife for him. He'd seen your photos before, and I put our sex videos on a USB drive. I plugged it into my work computer and forgot to unplug it. I only showed my penis; you showed your face, but he didn't know it was you." I said, "I downloaded the pictures from pornographic websites. Last time, I told him those videos were of you and me because David gave me nude photos of his wife." She was very excited after hearing this and got wet.

But such exchanges are always limited; we can only reminisce about them occasionally. Desire always seems to intensify the more it's suppressed. I feel we need regular sex to maintain intimacy and release stress, which is good for both body and mind. But with children and busy work schedules, it's really difficult. We're becoming increasingly distant and estranged.

One day I shared these concerns with David, and he said, firstly, I'm too cold, and secondly, neither of us is willing to open up. I asked him, "Your relationship is so good, how do you manage it?" They have sex three times a week or more, and their relationship is always very close. I said, "You don't have as much pressure as we do. You only have one child, both sets of parents can help out occasionally, you have two houses, both mortgage-free, one you live in, one you rent out—it's small but cozy." He said, "The two houses together are only 90 square meters. And the parents are still alive. One house is definitely for their retirement, and the second house isn't enough for the grown child. The pressure here is greater; the company isn't doing well, and after almost 10 years, my salary is only 5000. My wife works in car sales, and hers is about the same. In terms of financial pressure, we're about the same." Then I asked, "How do you manage to handle it so well?" He said that sex should be open; desires are instinctive and there's nothing to hide. For example, sexual fantasies are better than having an affair, and fantasizing about a threesome is better than cheating. Does it break the law, destroy a family, or damage a marital relationship? Furthermore, couples abroad often directly ask each other what their sex fantasies are, and then satisfy each other through clothing, props, and settings. In China, many couples' forums have tons of people sharing photos and videos of their sex lives. Chinese sexologist Li Yinhe has said that threesomes and partner swapping are normal; different people have different desires and feelings. Celebrities, big names, and highly educated people have all filmed sex acts, including nudity and oral sex. Can you say they're all abnormal? As long as they're happy.

We also need to truly understand each other's desires, at least to have the courage to tell each other directly when we want to have sex. I said I didn't want to talk about it, and he asked why. I said that if I did, she would say she was tired and even make sarcastic remarks, saying that a wife is exhausted like a dog and still has to satisfy her husband, that she can't do it, and that she'll just let it go after saying it so many times. She never asks for sex either, she's very reserved... He said that's understandable. He asked, "Do you know how many men your wife has slept with?" I said I didn't ask. She had boyfriends before, maybe two. She had a boyfriend in Wuhan, they lived together and she must have slept with him. Then there was another guy in Shanghai, she must have slept with him too. He said, "That's all I know. How can you say you understand if you don't even know that?" There can't be thorough communication between husband and wife without complete honesty. I said I didn't want to know, it would be painful to know. Who wants to know that their wife has been slept with other men? He said, "I asked Rongrong when we were dating. She had four boyfriends before, and she lost her virginity in her freshman year of college." I said, "That's too early." He said her first two boyfriends were from a neighboring university, and after graduation, she dated two more, constantly having boyfriends, and finding new ones after each breakup. I was shocked. I said, "You dare to date someone like that? And she dares to say that?" He said, "No way! I only encouraged her to tell the truth, and I promised I wouldn't get angry, which is why she dared to say it. She also wanted to see if David was sincere about this, since they'd been together for almost two years and were discussing marriage." Surprisingly, David was quite magnanimous, saying he didn't mind. He's actually quite insecure, not young anymore, and generally doesn't know his place, speaking without restraint—everyone says he's a bit simple-minded. But he's a man of his word, and his subsequent actions showed he didn't mind, so they decided to get married. I said, "You two are really honest." He said, "That's not all. I also asked her about people she liked, what she thought of those guys." With his encouragement, she told me a few things. She said she liked a former boss, who was quite handsome and mature. They even fantasized about a threesome with him during sex that day, and she was very satisfied and happy. Then she proactively deleted that somewhat ambiguous male boss from her WeChat contacts… Hearing this, I was quite impressed by their honesty. Such openness naturally leads to a good relationship. No wonder his wife, who is actually quite promiscuous, married him despite never considering marriage. They're very happy after marriage. They talk about everything, are very passionate during sex, and even video chat for long periods while on business trips. Rongrong can't sleep without him at home. Their relationship is so good that she doesn't worry about him cheating at all.

I said I hadn't asked her any of these things; maybe I hadn't done enough. He said, "You're a guy, you need to be more proactive in sex. Be shameless and show more care, and be honest. If you're hesitant, she won't open up either. You're married, you're going to spend your whole life together, what can't you say?" I said, "Oh, right." He then asked me when I last had sex. I said it was a long time ago, I'm too busy to be romantic anymore. We did it twice. I fantasized about a threesome, and she was very excited, which was good. I said, "I'll find you another boyfriend to have sex with you, okay?" She said, "Okay, I want both of you to have sex with me." I said, "How about your boyfriend fucks you, and you suck your husband's cock?" She said, "Okay." I said, "Repeat that." She said, "I want my boyfriend to fuck me, and I'll suck my husband's cock." I said, "How about one cock in each hand?" She said, "Okay, I want one cock in each hand."

I said, "What kind of boyfriend do you want?" She said, "Not the honest type, but someone with personality." I said, "Okay, I'll meet your boyfriend first, see how he's healthy, how his mindset is, and so on." Ideally, he'd be a simple, healthy boy from a rural area, preferably a virgin, easy to control, and sexually capable. If everything is fine, and I agree to your relationship, you can go out to see a movie, have dinner, and then go to a hotel for sex. No kissing during sex, and you can't suck his penis. I don't want you sucking someone else's penis before kissing me; it disgusts me. You can have sex with anyone.

David, after hearing this, sent me a message with a laugh, saying it was similar to his wife Rongrong's. Women's desires are all similar, hehehe. He and his wife often fantasize about threesomes; they do it a lot. His wife can't get aroused during regular sex. I said, "Yes, that's true." Then David sent me some pictures of his wife, showing her face. Besides excitement, I was also a little touched. Having a friend willing to communicate and help you, even if he has his own motives, he genuinely told me a lot about marital relationships.

Later that night, I decided to talk to my wife about what I had discussed with David. Surprisingly, she was quite open-minded at first, only a little shy and surprised. I told her David wanted to see her photos, and I'd take some pictures of her during sex the next night. She agreed. I showed her screenshots of our WeChat conversation and a picture of David's wife. She was a little surprised, but not angry, since I was trying to improve our relationship… The next day, Sunday, I went home and talked to my wife about David. She said she was getting old and her figure was out of shape. I said no, David and I both thought she looked great, full-figured, with plenty of flesh. She said no. I said, "What we two say isn't as good as what you say alone?" Later, I mentioned that David said my vagina was very tender, and she said it was true, because we hadn't done it often enough. I said, "Yeah, look at his wife's vagina, it's dark red and black from being penetrated so much." I turned on the light, took off her pants, and she spread her legs. I took a few pictures. Then I put her in the black underwear that came with the vibrator I bought earlier and took a few more pictures. I took a few pictures of me licking her vagina. Finally, I said I'd take a picture of me penetrating her. I asked her if it was her safe period, and she said she wanted a condom. I said, "What's the point of taking pictures with a condom on?" So I just put my penis at the entrance and took a few pictures. After that, I continued with oral sex, and while penetrating her, I fantasized about a threesome. She became much more relaxed and said she had orgasmed after we talked the night before, haha. It seems my wife really enjoys orgasms, but life has been suppressing her. The next day, David saw the pictures and complained that I hadn't penetrated her. He asked her to retake the pictures, but she refused. Sigh, I don't understand her.

Afterward, David kept asking me for more pictures. I said, "We didn't do anything, so how can I have pictures?" He said he couldn't get enough of my wife's pictures after seeing them. I asked why, and he said, "This time, it was taken with your wife's consent, so it was very exciting." Then every few days he would ask me to meet him. I got annoyed and ignored him. Later, he said his wife had agreed to a threesome and wanted me to come to his house. I told him he was crazy, some things are fine to fantasize about, but how could he actually do them… Then he said my wife wasn't handling our relationship properly and wanted to come see us and talk to her. I didn't agree. Then one day he even asked me to send him my wife's underwear so he could smell her vagina. I was furious. I said all I did was to improve our relationship, not for his desires, and I deleted him on WeChat.

A few days later, he added me on QQ (which is linked to WeChat), apologized, and said it was normal to have desires after seeing so many photos of my wife's vagina, it was just a momentary impulse, and he promised he would never ask to meet again. I thought it was only natural. He had behaved very well before, but he suddenly got excited after I sent him the photos. I told him I would ask my wife, and if she forgave him, I would forgive him too. That night, after I talked to my wife, she firmly disagreed and scolded me for being vulgar and not focusing on my work. Well, having sex less than a few times a year, totaling less than two hours, and she calls it a waste of time? David invited me to have a threesome with his wife, but I didn't go for my wife's sake. I know she's unhappy, and if she's unhappy, I won't be happy doing it. It's meaningless. For me, unless my wife agrees to a couples swapping arrangement and I can enjoy sex, I might accept other women. Without feelings, there's no desire. Happiness and sexual bliss are connected to the person you love.

In the following months, I didn't talk to David much. I was touched that his wife was willing to share with me, talk to me when I was in trouble, and help me. But, everyone is different, and that's just how it is. Then I moved to another city for work and focused on my job without thinking about anything else. Our relationship returned to its previous cold and distant state... A few days ago, she asked me to go on a trip. I was a little happy, but also a little bored. What's the point of a marriage that's still like before, good one moment and bad the next? It seems like we've never really solved the problem at its root. I hope we can always love each other, even if we argue, we can stay together and never be separated... Bonus: here's a picture of my wife's vagina.

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