Techniques for creating harmony

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Wise couples don't forget to strive to improve their sexual behavior to keep the pleasure fresh and combat the sexual boredom that often inevitably arises between partners. Couples sometimes experience a decline in sexual pleasure; this is, in fact, an inherent part of human nature. Humans, who consider themselves the most intelligent of all beings, shouldn't deny this human nature. At the same time, human intelligence lies in the ability to transcend this nature. The suggestions here aim to improve the sexual behavior of both partners and enhance their pleasure.
Praise the other person
Mutual praise between sexual partners has a magical power. Regularly praising a partner's sexual abilities, complimenting them, often produces unexpected results. Compared to women, men need this praise even more. This is because almost all men have some anxiety about their sexual performance, and a woman's praise can undoubtedly dispel this anxiety, increasing their confidence. This confidence can genuinely influence their sexual performance, leading to above-average sexual results. Furthermore, men develop a sense of gratitude towards women who frequently praise their sexual abilities, strengthening their feelings for that woman and ultimately achieving a true union of mind and body.
A man who married a divorced woman told me that his wife always seized every opportunity to praise his sexual prowess, saying he far surpassed her first husband. "You're amazing, I can't take it anymore." "I'm so content with you." "My ex-husband was nothing compared to you. How could I have loved him?" His wife frequently repeated these compliments, to the point that the man said, "I used to feel a little jealous when I thought about her past men, but now when I think of him, I only feel proud in comparison."
I later spoke with this wife, and she told me that her new husband's sexual ability was actually quite average, but she was well aware of the power of praise. Through her efforts, their sex life became increasingly harmonious. This woman also knew that men are usually very concerned about the size of their genitals, so during their first sexual encounter, she proactively praised his penis as "truly magnificent."
Praise should be given just the right amount of time; being too forced or artificial can backfire. In fact, many compliments are more effective when conveyed subtly. Both partners can say to their sexual partner, "I'll never forget tonight," or "You made me truly experience the joy of being a man (woman)." Sharing sexual fantasies is also important.
We all have sexual fantasies, such as certain specific sexual acts, or sleeping with a person of the opposite sex we admire, or even a movie star. These sexual fantasies undoubtedly trigger many of our sexual urges, and whether during masturbation or intercourse, they can help us better experience sexual excitement and pleasure. However, we keep these sexual daydreams deep in our hearts, ashamed to tell others.
In sexual fantasies, your spouse is unlikely to appear; the familiarity of their body limits the boundaries of your fantasies. However, this doesn't prevent these fantasies from flooding our minds during intercourse with our spouse. This situation of "thinking of someone else" while making love to our spouse often evokes a sense of guilt, becoming a secret we dare not share with others. Perhaps the most ideal time for sexual fantasies is when a couple openly shares their sexual fantasies with each other. The process of communicating sexual fantasies is a process of mutual understanding between partners. When two hearts are open with each other, they cannot help but grow closer, and their sex life cannot help but experience greater pleasure.
The process of communicating sexual fantasies is also a process of sexual arousal. When a person personally reveals their deepest, most secret fantasies, they will undoubtedly reach a high level of sexual excitement, which will make subsequent intercourse more exciting.

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