***Experience Sharing

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My wife and I are very loving and our relationship is stable. I was her first boyfriend. From kissing to sex to anal sex to BDSM, she experienced so many firsts with me. When we first met, things were incredibly passionate; we did it at least twice a day. Back then, we were students, and during holidays we would work from dusk till dawn, and then from dawn till dusk again, doing it for a while, chatting for a while, and if we felt aroused, we'd continue... Gentlemen, think back to when you were 16 or 17 and hadn't lost your virginity—weren't you constantly horny? I often asked her after meals, "Are you digested? If you're okay, let's do it."

My wife loves me very much; she gives me what I want, and when I'm satisfied, she holds me and talks to me. I always ejaculate in her mouth and make her swallow it. We are incredibly grateful for her sacrifices in every aspect of our lives. That's why I haven't dated any other girls since I met her, and I basically don't even have any male friends. I know she only loves one person. Some people say that men love because of sex, and women have sex because of love. Statistically speaking, that should apply to most men and women, right? That's true for us too. I'm the type who can separate my body and mind quite well. I can really like someone but just watch from afar, or I can sleep with someone without any emotional investment. She, on the other hand, is the type who's all-encompassing, body and soul, and committed to one person for life. I think ideal love is this: having fun when you're young, and then dutifully staying by someone's side. Unfortunately, I, the fun-loving one, met her, the dutiful one. Then, life slowly became more mundane, and I slowly started thinking about all the fun and crazy things I had planned before… So, I slowly started suggesting to her, "Why don't you go out and have some fun with other men?" She looked at me with a confused expression. She asked me countless times, "Other husbands go to great lengths to prevent their wives from cheating, and you're encouraging me to find someone else?!" I explained the relationship between body and mind to her countless times…
Humans have animalistic instincts, right? The animal's nature is to reproduce. If you love someone, why not let them have fun? Why can't you let go and let them understand themselves and the world more deeply? I would give up my desire to have sex with other women because I love her, and I would also want her to have more experiences and discoveries because I love her. After a long discussion, she convinced me, and finally, after confirming the fairness, safety, and potential benefits to our relationship, I started looking for a partner. It was basically just posting online and chatting on QQ. I chatted on and off for several days without any progress. However, through these chats, I summarized some patterns: The initiators of these online activities are almost always men; most are just fantasizing, and few dare to act on it. Older, more stable couples are more likely to act, while younger couples usually have to convince their girlfriends, which can take a very long time. Many women don't know how to flirt online; you need to know how to flirt to have fun. For someone to sleep with you, they at least need to have some feelings for you; simply "not disliking you" isn't enough. I've summarized some dating tips that men can learn from: 1. Women hate selfish men the most. Especially men who wear their selfishness on their sleeves. A man around 40 years old asked me online what my wife's sexual style was like, and I said my wife was rather passive. Then he asked, "So she's not just enjoying without giving anything in return, is she? I really like women giving me oral sex and swallowing my semen." And then what? Then I immediately blacklisted him. A man in his forties, you haven't even talked about what you can give, and you're already busy taking—that's really pathetic. Actually, everyone has a conscience. If you make her feel good, will she treat you unfairly? Men, remember this when chatting online: giving is receiving. You only get more in return if you dare to give. 2. Sometimes, it's the woman who seeks out these things. Don't assume that just because she seeks them out, she's promiscuous and will agree to meet you alone. Everything you say should be interpreted as being directed at both of them. You can flatter her, you can tease her, but you can't presumptuously express things like, "Your husband can't satisfy you, so let me." If the two of them have a good relationship, you'll directly offend the woman, which is equivalent to being instantly defeated. {I think many men have had similar experiences in this regard, don't deny it, brothers.}
3. ***, if it's a wife, then the wife holds the decision-making power. If the wife is in a bad mood, the matter is hopeless. Therefore, it's very important to get the woman to make up her mind to come out, and it's also very important to praise and please her appropriately. 4. If the matchmakers are all men, then gentlemen, please note, don't think that just because you've met a brother and everyone is a man, you can just say it directly. You never know if his wife is sitting next to him, also interested in reading your chat history. Real progress comes after the wife takes action. A few days ago, we just finished a project, and we were both very tired and wanted to relax, especially looking for some excitement. So the wife started looking. The destined people were a couple, the man was in his early 30s, and the woman was around 35 or 36. They were very well-maintained. Let's call the man J and the woman S for now. J said that S had a very strong sex drive, and was in her prime. The so-called destiny is more about sincerity. *** In this kind of thing, sincerity comes first. We finally agreed to meet up first to chat, and if things went well, we'd continue. S hesitated for a while before agreeing to meet, probably because my husband and I are younger than her. We were both excited and nervous, it was our first time. I took a half-hour shower at home, washing myself thoroughly! After we finished, we heard on the phone that J and S had also set off. My wife was wearing a figure-hugging T-shirt, hot pants, and boots. I spotted S immediately outside the coffee shop; she looked slightly different from the photos, but she had a great presence. Overall, she was a woman with charisma, radiating warmth and femininity. J was more reserved and didn't have many distinctive features. I like women with a feminine physique, so I always notice women first and observe them closely. When I came back from buying coffee, I made eye contact with J once, and he was staring intently at my wife, as if he was already imagining her naked. My wife was very nervous and didn't dare to speak. The four of us talked about many unrelated topics. Everyone was eager to get a hotel room. So I said, "Let's go for a walk." S replied, "Where to? I don't want to walk in these high heels." The meaning was very clear: let's just get a hotel room. We arrived in 10 minutes by car, and the two of us men went to get the room. She and S waited outside chatting. We called them when it was ready. S and I went into the room; there were two beds. The four of us sat facing each other. For about half a minute, all four of us were "focused" on watching TV, because nobody knew how to start. Finally, I said, "Let's play around." My wife brought her wife over, and then J went to kiss my wife. I lay on the bed, and S slowly came over and started kissing me. Her hand touched my penis, and then she licked it very forcefully and intensely. The stimulation I had been building up all afternoon suddenly exploded… I really wanted to fuck her immediately… and then… Friends, use your imagination!

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