Here are some experiences and tips for couples who want to try dating.

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We've met many couples online and successfully guided several couples who wanted to try it for the first time into a passionate and intimate paradise, fulfilling their dreams. During this process, we also communicated online with other couples interested in trying it and discovered some noteworthy issues that we feel are necessary to discuss here.
First, there's the issue of motivation. Some husbands explicitly told me they just wanted excitement, to satisfy their sensory stimulation and curiosity, but when I asked if they had considered their wives' feelings, they couldn't say for sure; some simply said they agreed, while others were still trying to persuade them. I believe the motivation for couples engaging in group activities shouldn't be primarily for the man, but for the woman. In modern society, men can easily find pleasure by spending money, but women cannot. Therefore, our motivation and starting point should be to let our wives experience and enjoy the pleasure and excitement of group sex. Because we deeply love them, we want them to experience pleasure that most women don't. We are arranging a fun game for our wives; the participants are playmates or toys that we husbands have found for them. Therefore, the starting point must be for the wife, not for ourselves. -
Once the issue of motivation is clear, let's discuss the issue of finding a partner. A significant number of netizens emphasize the importance of both good character and appearance in the partner, which I completely agree with. However, one point should be clear: the choice regarding appearance should rest with the wife. In other words, the wife should be the first to choose the husband, not the other way around, as some netizens do by immediately demanding to see photos of the wife. Only after the wife has chosen the husband can the husband consider whether he can accept the wife. Generally, if the wife is satisfied with the husband, the husband should, in principle, accommodate her preferences, even if he is not entirely satisfied with the wife. This is because women are relatively more discerning and finding a suitable partner is not easy, while men are relatively easier
to find. Furthermore, the communication process is crucial. Some couples only have communication between the husbands, which is far from sufficient. The wife should be encouraged to communicate with the husband. A woman cannot accept a man based solely on appearance, especially on the first date. It's important for her to be psychologically accepting of the man. Online communication is a process of heart-to-heart communication. Only when the wife is psychologically prepared can she truly experience physical release. Moreover, online communication truly reflects character. This is very important! -
Next, let's talk about persuading your wife. Many husbands hope I can help persuade their wives, and I've agreed. Indeed, almost all of them have been convinced. What's the secret? It's not mysterious at all. The prerequisite is that you must be a truly loving couple. Just make sure your wife is certain that you love her, that you want to try this game for her sake, and that it won't affect your relationship; on the contrary, it will deepen your feelings for each other. -
Finally, let's talk about how to try it for the first time. First, it's not advisable to participate in group activities because there are many situations you can't control. Plus, it's your first time, so you're already feeling uneasy, making it impossible to fully enjoy the experience. If your wife has a bad feeling, don't even think about playing it again. The first time is usually two couples playing, and it's best to invite a man your wife likes to play a threesome. Some netizens may not understand why a threesome is recommended for couples to socialize. There's a reason for this. The wife's psychology will be more complex for the first time. The key to success is to let her fully immerse herself in the atmosphere of love and desire, so it's important to let her focus on enjoying the pleasure. However, if two couples play together, it might objectively make her concerned about how her husband performs with other women, especially when she sees the other woman experiencing multiple orgasms under her husband. This would naturally arouse jealousy, causing her own sexual desire to vanish completely. That would be disastrous; such a failure would be devastating. Not only would she be unable to play again, but it could also leave a psychological scar. Threesomes objectively prevent this from happening. Once she experiences pleasure from such a game, even if she plays foursomes next time, she will look forward to experiencing that physical pleasure again and won't pay too much attention to her husband's performance. Choosing a partner for a threesome is also important. Never choose a boy who is too young, because young boys don't have much experience with foreplay and don't know how to be considerate of the woman and gently guide her to orgasm. Because of their good stamina, they might be eager to penetrate directly, which won't allow the woman to experience physical and psychological pleasure. Therefore, when choosing partners for a three-person game, it's best to select male friends of similar or even slightly older age. This may make the wife feel more secure and at ease. As for a four-person game, I must remind you that the first time you play, it's best to avoid the swapping and separating format, as this can make the wife feel insecure. It should be two couples playing together. At the beginning, the husband should hold his wife's hand tightly, kiss her frequently, and offer encouraging eye contact to show her he loves her. This will give her the courage to continue playing. -
The above is based on my experience and is offered for couples who are interested in trying it. Wishing you all happiness and fulfillment! -

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