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For women, taking the initiative in bed always carries a lingering psychological hurdle: what if you give it your all and he remains as weak and powerless as recent stock prices? Wouldn't that be incredibly embarrassing? If you truly hold this thought, then you're worrying too much. Giving a woman oral sex is a wonderful thing; from a sexual psychology perspective, the feeling of watching a woman struggle and moan during oral sex is incredibly enjoyable. The following guide to oral sex is for men to perform oral sex on women, based on my own experience. The experiences of the women involved are based on my careful observation and feedback from my girlfriend, slightly edited. I. Preparations before oral sex: Sex is a beautiful thing. If you're not just doing it for revenge, you should create some conditions and atmosphere for it, such as at night, dimming the lights. Both partners should take a shower first, especially women, because the female genitalia have a more complex structure with many folds, making them prone to accumulating dirt and grime. Therefore, when showering, be sure to open and clean the labia thoroughly. The man should play some music and go to bed with her, who should be of a higher social standing. After the woman washes, she should habitually apply a little perfume to her genitals, but be careful not to use too much or too strong a perfume, because when the man is rubbing her genitals, his nose is closest to her genitals, and if the perfume is too strong, it can easily be choking him. Also, don't apply perfume to the labia, because the scent of the vaginal fluid you mentioned isn't from perfume. Spray perfume on your palms and apply it to the pubic hair and inner thighs; a light application to the anus is also good. Prepare two towels, one large and one small. Place the large towel on the bed for the woman to lie on, and the small towel for wiping away sweat and moisture. Keep a glass of water by the bedside so she can easily reach it if she's thirsty, without having to go outside to get water and interrupting her pleasure for too long. Men must have technique two: Several sensitive areas of a woman: Many men don't think that touching the clitoris means immediately pouncing on her and kissing her clitoris as soon as you get into bed. Don't be so hasty. Understand that a woman's body doesn't react quickly; give her time. The clitoris is a highly sensitive area, and stimulating it too intensely right away will have a very negative effect. Personally, I feel the proper order should be like this: First, hug her and say some affectionate things, such as "You're so beautiful," "You're so sexy," etc., making sure she feels comfortable and relaxed first. Then, begin kissing her lips, earlobes, earlobes, neck, breasts, lower abdomen, and waist. Pay attention to lingering longer on the breasts, as they are also a very important sensitive area. At this point, the woman should feel a tingling sensation throughout her body, and you can then move closer to her genitals. Start by kissing her inner thighs, gently parting her legs. Women are usually shy at this point because they feel uncomfortable exposing their genitals, and may resist somewhat. So, don't be too hasty or forceful when parting her legs; do it gently, little by little. Use your tongue to lightly touch and sweep across her thighs, from the outer edge of her labia majora—the junction of her inner thighs—and lick upwards towards her hip bones (on either side of her lower abdomen), repeating about ten times. She will feel a ticklish, tingling sensation, and a slight soreness near her vulva. Continue lightly sweeping your tongue down her thighs to the Zusanli acupoint below the knee. Zusanli is a sensitive point for women. If her skin is delicate, you can kiss this area several times. If her skin is rough, it will feel like rubbing paper with your tongue, so stop and move back. Return to the inner thighs and repeat the steps described above. This tactic is called "assistance" in military terms. In bed, treat the woman as an "enemy, opponent." First, divert her attention, take the initiative, and guide her senses with your tongue. Engage in guerrilla warfare across her entire body—the breasts, the lower abdomen, the groin, the mons pubis—and gradually you'll feel her hands twitching, her legs involuntarily shaking, and she may make sounds of pain. More sensitive women will find their vulva becoming moist. After this initial assistance (about ten minutes), begin the main attack! At this point, the woman should be more proactive, spreading her legs into a V-shape, ideally arching them back to expose her entire genitals to the man. There's nothing to be ashamed of; in fact, this initiative provides the man with greater motivation and engagement. Once the woman has raised and spread her legs, the man should first conquer several key points in the main attack area: the perineum, labia, and vaginal opening. The perineum is the junction of the vagina and anus in women. Although the skin in this area is taut, it is extremely sensitive. Use a moist tongue to gently lick this area. When kissing a woman's inner thighs, she will feel a tingling or numb sensation from top to bottom around the vaginal opening. When kissing the perineum, she will experience a comfortable, expanding sensation from bottom to top. If you can overcome your psychological barrier, you can surprise her by licking and touching her anus with your tongue; this will guarantee her screams of excitement. If you have psychological barriers, lick upwards from the perineum to the labia. At this point, most women will be very wet. The vaginal fluid will be mostly clear and thin. How should you kiss the labia? At this point, don't touch the vulva. Use your tongue to gently pry open the woman's labia majora (some women have smaller labia majora, or when they are more aroused, the labia may already be separating on their own). Take one labia into your mouth and use your tongue to sweep it around, paying attention to both the inside and outside of the labia. Then switch to the other labia and repeat the process. Finally, turn your body slightly to the side, so that your lips are parallel to the woman's labia. Gently take both labia into your mouth at the same time and suck on them. Use your tongue to make insertion, withdrawal, and sweeping motions between the two labia. The woman will feel incredibly good. As mentioned above, when kissing a woman's labia, remember to suck on as many of the labia as possible and gently sweep and lick them with your tongue. The woman will feel a special itch in the labia area and want you to kiss more areas and wider. Ignore her and just keep kissing. Because very few women will say, "Darling, kiss me there, kiss me there..." While they're enjoying themselves, you can gently bite her labia. The flesh is in your mouth; whether to bite and how to bite is entirely up to you. But don't bite too hard; just the right amount—enough to make her suddenly scream, essentially destroying the sensations she's built up. After the previous round of kissing, the woman has reached a certain level of arousal and is a little dazed. Being too dazed isn't good either, because when a woman is dazed, she won't know who's kissing her. A light bite can wake her from this dazed state, allowing her to accept your continued stimulation in a semi-conscious state, making her next sexual arousal come faster and accumulate more intensely. This technique should be used repeatedly when stimulating a woman's vulva, but don't do it too frequently, or you might get kicked off the bed. Hey! Be careful when biting; the labia are very delicate. When you gently bite a woman's labia, she'll definitely let out a startled "Ah!" and her body will twitch. Before she can speak, quickly press your lips to her vaginal opening. This will make her feel a warm and comfortable sensation throughout her genitals, turning her initial "Ah" into a soft "Oh." This creates a feeling of wanting to curse but being unable to, wanting to scream but not daring to—it's quite fun. After you've "conquered" her "outer strongholds" (perineum, labia, anus, etc.), you can begin the "Xuzhou-Bengbu Campaign." In bedroom terminology, the vagina is sometimes referred to as a "clam (labia)," which is quite descriptive, and indeed, there is a "pearl (clitoris)" inside. As mentioned above, gently biting a woman's labia and then quickly sealing her vaginal opening with your lips will give her a warm and comfortable sensation. Now it's time to get started. Gently use your thumb to part her labia, exposing the vaginal opening. Use your tongue to circle around the opening, sometimes lightly, sometimes firmly, and sometimes pressing your entire lips against it. Remember, never blow air into the vagina; it's not fun and can easily cause problems. At this point, the woman's attention will be entirely focused on her vagina, and her clitoris will begin to swell and become visible (some women have very small clitoriss that are not easily visible; if you encounter such a woman, don't bother trying). If you haven't kissed her clitoris yet, she'll only feel a swelling and probably won't experience much other sensation. At this point, you can pause briefly from kissing the vaginal opening and instead gently tease her clitoris a few times with the tip of your wet tongue, arousing her sensation from the clitoris. The woman will moan softly a few times. Then you can go back to kissing her vaginal opening and labia. At this time, the woman's clitoris has just been stimulated and she will be in a state of wanting you to kiss her clitoris again. Remember, under no circumstances should you kiss her clitoris again at this time. You should leave the woman half-suspended in that feeling, and the man should start to gently lick upwards from the woman's perineum towards the clitoris, slowly. When the tongue reaches the vaginal opening, move it from side to side, parting the labia while continuing to lick upwards, gradually approaching the clitoris.At this point, the woman should be telling herself, "It's almost there, almost there, hurry, hurry and take it in." Ignore her cries and pulls; just don't kiss her clitoris. When you're almost there, gently (as lightly as possible, just a light sweep or touch) with the tip of your tongue, then lick in the opposite direction towards the vaginal opening. This will drive her crazy with anticipation, and her anticipation will naturally arouse her. When kissing the vaginal opening, men with long tongues can try inserting their tongues into the woman's vagina and stirring them around. Stir however you like, as long as you can get it moving. Women really enjoy this, but men should be careful with their tongue roots; sticking it out too far can cause injury. Men with thick tongues (like me, poor thing!) can only insert a small portion, but they can curl their tongues and insert them. Even though it's not much, it can make the woman feel very full. Furthermore, the sensation of a broad tongue sweeping upwards from the vaginal opening is something a man with a long, thin tongue cannot provide. A man with a long, thin tongue can use the tip to gently tease the center of a woman's labia, which is also very pleasurable; each has its own merits. Now you can focus on capturing the "pearl." Move your tongue up to the woman's clitoris and concentrate. Many men may think that simply licking the clitoris vigorously will bring a woman to orgasm, but this is a misconception. The clitoris is very sensitive; if you lick too hard, she will experience more pain than pleasure, which is pointless. There are a few things to keep in mind when kissing the clitoris: the tongue must be wet, light, and pointed; the tongue must be kept moist (the water prepared in Chapter One will come in handy now); and when licking the clitoris, be gentle and use the tip of your tongue. To penetrate the clitoris, use the five-word technique: "point, flick, pluck, press, stir." Pointing refers to lightly touching the tip of the clitoris with the tip of your tongue; flicking refers to flicking the clitoris upwards from below; plucking refers to gently plucking the clitoris from side to side with your tongue; pressing refers to occasionally pressing the clitoris down slightly with your tongue; and stirring refers to swirling your tongue around the clitoris while it's in your mouth. At this point, you need to be aware of the woman's reactions, as she will be highly engaged and excited. You can feel a slight throbbing under her clitoris, which is very noticeable when you're holding it in your mouth. Don't interrupt her sensations abruptly; maintain a steady pace, as sudden, rapid movements can easily lead to orgasm. Men often want to prolong intercourse and delay ejaculation for greater comfort. Women, like men, also crave a longer, more pleasurable experience. Therefore, be understanding of this feeling. Only use a faster pace to help her reach orgasm if she strongly requests it or if your tongue becomes numb from prolonged kissing. Here's a very effective technique: Don't imitate the way male protagonists in pornographic films lick the clitoris indiscriminately, and don't always kiss the clitoris using the methods described above. When you've done these actions well enough to give her an orgasm, you should use your entire lip to engulf her clitoris. Press your upper lip against the base of the pubic hair above the clitoris, and use your lower lip to separate her labia, getting as close to the vaginal opening as possible (depending on the size of your lips, hehe). Enclose the clitoris in your mouth (leaving some space), making her feel like it's floating in your mouth. Use the five-word technique to launch your attack. This is the most meaningful moment for a man to stimulate a woman's clitoris, because you can control her arousal and orgasm through your lips and tongue. Usually, I lick for a while until she has a sudden spasm, and just as she's about to climax, I gently release her clitoris, making her scream in frustration. Or, just as I release her clitoris and see her about to scream, I immediately take it back into my mouth, and she'll be too comfortable to scream. How proud you feel when you can control a woman's emotions! But don't go too far, or she might kick you off the bed. When licking a woman's clitoris, you can simultaneously stroke her pubic hair, which feels very good; you can also gently tease her anus with your fingers; or gently insert your fingers into her vagina and stir; you can also reach up and grab her breasts with both hands. These are all actions that can make a woman feel even better, what's called "encircling the enemy to attack their reinforcements" in military terms. At this point, whatever you ask of a woman, she will agree. If she doesn't agree, stop these actions, and she'll get impatient and definitely agree, depending on how unreasonable your request is. I usually ask her to "go to my back door," but she never agrees. You can make her beg you to give her an orgasm, hehe, watching her sweetly beg you to give her quickly will make you feel very conquering. Then, while shaking your head, rapidly thrust your tongue. The woman's thighs will clench tighter and tighter (ladies, take note: if your boyfriend complains of neck pain the next day, it's because of your clenching, hmph!), followed by a strong spasm, and then her body relaxes. If you're feeling adventurous, you can hold her clitoris in your mouth without moving it, just sucking and holding it, but don't use your tongue to do anything or touch it. At this point, the clitoris is very engorged and swollen, extremely sensitive during orgasm. Touching it will make her feel "pleasantly" but "painfully" uncomfortable. Unless you want to really "punish" her, then continue thrusting and watch her happily dodge and weave. Female orgasms can last a long time, from ten to several tens of seconds. They will lie motionless on the bed, sometimes even convulsing. At this time, you can go do whatever you need to do, like wiping sweat or drinking water, because at this point, the woman is practically oblivious to orgasms; her mind is completely absorbed in extreme excitement, and there's no room for you in her thoughts. By the time you come back from your "walk," she'll have just recovered. After a female clitoral orgasm, she craves the immediate insertion of something like an eggplant into her vagina—no need to explain, right? These days, an eggplant won't work; you'll have to masturbate yourself. If you've become "soft" from focusing too much on clitoral stimulation, you can ask her to give you a short time of oral sex. Once you're "regaining your strength," you can move on to another activity. This clitoral stimulation method is definitely several times more stimulating and satisfying for women than lying in bed. During clitoral stimulation, you can try gently rubbing your nose or beard against her; it will provide a unique stimulation. The above techniques are quite good; those who don't know them can learn more. Basic oral sex is acceptable to most people, and good technique is even better! I hope everyone lives a good life. Just leave a comment after reading!Here's a very effective technique: Don't imitate the way male protagonists in pornographic films lick the clitoris indiscriminately, and don't always kiss the clitoris using the methods described above. When you've done these actions well enough to give her an orgasm, you should use your entire lip to engulf her clitoris. Press your upper lip against the base of the pubic hair above the clitoris, and use your lower lip to separate her labia, getting as close to the vaginal opening as possible (depending on the size of your lips, hehe). Enclose the clitoris in your mouth (leaving some space), making her feel like it's floating in your mouth. Use the five-word technique to launch your attack. This is the most meaningful moment for a man to stimulate a woman's clitoris, because you can control her arousal and orgasm through your lips and tongue. Usually, I lick for a while until she has a sudden spasm, and just as she's about to climax, I gently release her clitoris, making her scream in frustration. Or, just as I release her clitoris and see her about to scream, I immediately take it back into my mouth, and she'll be too comfortable to scream. How proud you feel when you can control a woman's emotions! But don't go too far, or she might kick you off the bed. When licking a woman's clitoris, you can simultaneously stroke her pubic hair, which feels very good; you can also gently tease her anus with your fingers; or gently insert your fingers into her vagina and stir; you can also reach up and grab her breasts with both hands. These are all actions that can make a woman feel even better, what's called "encircling the enemy to attack their reinforcements" in military terms. At this point, whatever you ask of a woman, she will agree. If she doesn't agree, stop these actions, and she'll get impatient and definitely agree, depending on how unreasonable your request is. I usually ask her to "go to my back door," but she never agrees. You can make her beg you to give her an orgasm, hehe, watching her sweetly beg you to give her quickly will make you feel very conquering. Then, while shaking your head, rapidly thrust your tongue. The woman's thighs will clench tighter and tighter (ladies, take note: if your boyfriend complains of neck pain the next day, it's because of your clenching, hmph!), followed by a strong spasm, and then her body relaxes. If you're feeling adventurous, you can hold her clitoris in your mouth without moving it, just sucking and holding it, but don't use your tongue to do anything or touch it. At this point, the clitoris is very engorged and swollen, extremely sensitive during orgasm. Touching it will make her feel "pleasantly" but "painfully" uncomfortable. Unless you want to really "punish" her, then continue thrusting and watch her happily dodge and weave. Female orgasms can last a long time, from ten to several tens of seconds. They will lie motionless on the bed, sometimes even convulsing. At this time, you can go do whatever you need to do, like wiping sweat or drinking water, because at this point, the woman is practically oblivious to orgasms; her mind is completely absorbed in extreme excitement, and there's no room for you in her thoughts. By the time you come back from your "walk," she'll have just recovered. After a female clitoral orgasm, she craves the immediate insertion of something like an eggplant into her vagina—no need to explain, right? These days, an eggplant won't work; you'll have to masturbate yourself. If you've become "soft" from focusing too much on clitoral stimulation, you can ask her to give you a short time of oral sex. Once you're "regaining your strength," you can move on to another activity. This clitoral stimulation method is definitely several times more stimulating and satisfying for women than lying in bed. During clitoral stimulation, you can try gently rubbing your nose or beard against her; it will provide a unique stimulation. The above techniques are quite good; those who don't know them can learn more. Basic oral sex is acceptable to most people, and good technique is even better! I hope everyone lives a good life. Just leave a comment after reading!Here's a very effective technique: Don't imitate the way male protagonists in pornographic films lick the clitoris indiscriminately, and don't always kiss the clitoris using the methods described above. When you've done these actions well enough to give her an orgasm, you should use your entire lip to engulf her clitoris. Press your upper lip against the base of the pubic hair above the clitoris, and use your lower lip to separate her labia, getting as close to the vaginal opening as possible (depending on the size of your lips, hehe). Enclose the clitoris in your mouth (leaving some space), making her feel like it's floating in your mouth. Use the five-word technique to launch your attack. This is the most meaningful moment for a man to stimulate a woman's clitoris, because you can control her arousal and orgasm through your lips and tongue. Usually, I lick for a while until she has a sudden spasm, and just as she's about to climax, I gently release her clitoris, making her scream in frustration. Or, just as I release her clitoris and see her about to scream, I immediately take it back into my mouth, and she'll be too comfortable to scream. How proud you feel when you can control a woman's emotions! But don't go too far, or she might kick you off the bed. When licking a woman's clitoris, you can simultaneously stroke her pubic hair, which feels very good; you can also gently tease her anus with your fingers; or gently insert your fingers into her vagina and stir; you can also reach up and grab her breasts with both hands. These are all actions that can make a woman feel even better, what's called "encircling the enemy to attack their reinforcements" in military terms. At this point, whatever you ask of a woman, she will agree. If she doesn't agree, stop these actions, and she'll get impatient and definitely agree, depending on how unreasonable your request is. I usually ask her to "go to my back door," but she never agrees. You can make her beg you to give her an orgasm, hehe, watching her sweetly beg you to give her quickly will make you feel very conquering. Then, while shaking your head, rapidly thrust your tongue. The woman's thighs will clench tighter and tighter (ladies, take note: if your boyfriend complains of neck pain the next day, it's because of your clenching, hmph!), followed by a strong spasm, and then her body relaxes. If you're feeling adventurous, you can hold her clitoris in your mouth without moving it, just sucking and holding it, but don't use your tongue to do anything or touch it. At this point, the clitoris is very engorged and swollen, extremely sensitive during orgasm. Touching it will make her feel "pleasantly" but "painfully" uncomfortable. Unless you want to really "punish" her, then continue thrusting and watch her happily dodge and weave. Female orgasms can last a long time, from ten to several tens of seconds. They will lie motionless on the bed, sometimes even convulsing. At this time, you can go do whatever you need to do, like wiping sweat or drinking water, because at this point, the woman is practically oblivious to orgasms; her mind is completely absorbed in extreme excitement, and there's no room for you in her thoughts. By the time you come back from your "walk," she'll have just recovered. After a female clitoral orgasm, she craves the immediate insertion of something like an eggplant into her vagina—no need to explain, right? These days, an eggplant won't work; you'll have to masturbate yourself. If you've become "soft" from focusing too much on clitoral stimulation, you can ask her to give you a short time of oral sex. Once you're "regaining your strength," you can move on to another activity. This clitoral stimulation method is definitely several times more stimulating and satisfying for women than lying in bed. During clitoral stimulation, you can try gently rubbing your nose or beard against her; it will provide a unique stimulation. The above techniques are quite good; those who don't know them can learn more. Basic oral sex is acceptable to most people, and good technique is even better! I hope everyone lives a good life. Just leave a comment after reading!

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