A man's tongue is the engine of a woman's orgasm!

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Licking your partner's vulva is a wonderful thing. From a sexual psychology perspective, watching a woman struggle and moan in your mouth is a very enjoyable feeling (at least that's how I feel).
First, preparations before licking the vulva:

Sex is a beautiful thing. If you're not just doing it for release, you should create some conditions and atmosphere, such as at night with the lights dimmed.

Both of you should take a shower first, especially the woman, because the female vulva has a more complex structure with many folds, making it easier for dirt to accumulate. Therefore, you should carefully clean it several times during the shower to ensure it's thoroughly clean.

The man should turn on some music and wait for her in bed. After his partner showers, she should apply a little perfume to her vulva (optional, depending on personal preference), but avoid using too much or too strong perfume, as her nose is closest to her vulva when he's licking her, and strong perfume can be overwhelming. Don't apply perfume directly to her vulva, as the unique scent of her vaginal fluids isn't created with perfume. Spray perfume on your palms and apply it to her pubic hair and inner thighs; a light application to the anus is also beneficial.
Prepare two towels, one large and one small. Place the large towel on the bed (to prevent incontinence during orgasm) and have your partner lie on it. The small towel is for wiping away sweat and moisture. Keep a glass of water nearby so she can easily reach it if thirsty, avoiding interrupting her experience by going outside to get water.

II. Several Sensitive Areas for Women:

Men shouldn't think that licking a woman's vulva means immediately pouncing on her and kissing her the moment you get into bed. Don't be so aggressive. Remember, a woman's body reacts slowly; give her time to adjust. The clitoris is an extremely sensitive area, and stimulating it right away will actually be less effective.

Personally, I think the order should be like this: First, hold her close and say some sweet nothings, like "You're so beautiful," or "You're so sexy," to make her feel comfortable and relaxed. Then, start kissing her lips, earlobes, behind her ears, neck, breasts, lower abdomen, and waist. Pay attention to spending more time on her breasts, as they are a very important sensitive area.

At this point, the woman should feel a slight tingling sensation throughout her body, and you can begin to approach her vulva. Start by kissing her inner thighs, gently parting her legs. Usually, women are quite shy at this point because they feel somewhat "resistant" to exposing their vulva to you. So, don't be too hasty or forceful when parting her legs; do it gently, little by little.
After the initial support (around ten minutes—why the time? [yibot original compilation] That's to accommodate newbies; many men, even after decades, are still complete novices when it comes to pleasing women.), it's time to launch the main attack!

Through the initial support, you've essentially overcome the woman's shyness and eliminated her psychological defenses. At this point, she'll be in a state of feigned resistance, and the man can now enter the main offensive and begin his direct assault.

The woman should take the initiative, spreading her legs into a V-shape, ideally arching them back to expose her entire vulva to the man. There's nothing to be ashamed of here; in fact, a little initiative at this moment can provide the man with greater motivation and engagement.
When the woman raises and opens her legs, gently lick them with your moist tongue! [yibot original compilation] When kissing the woman's inner thighs, she'll feel a tingling, numb sensation from top to bottom around her vulva; when kissing the perineum, she'll experience a comfortable, expanding sensation from bottom to top. When kissing a woman's vulva, if you can overcome your psychological barriers, you can suddenly lick and touch her buttocks with your tongue. This will guarantee she screams with excitement. At this point, she'll likely be very wet, and her vaginal fluid will be clear and thin. If you like, you can drink it (not kidding), it's freshly secreted and not dirty. While she's enjoying

this, you can gently bite her vulva. The flesh is in your mouth; whether you bite and how you bite is entirely up to you. But don't bite too hard; just enough to make her scream suddenly, essentially ruining her pent-up sensation.

Why ruin a woman's experience? Male sexual arousal is achieved through eye contact and genital stimulation. This direct stimulation allows men to reach orgasm quickly, like Mount Everest, rising and falling. Female sexual arousal, on the other hand, is built up through the ears (sweet words) and the mind (imagination and sensation). Reaching orgasm requires repeated stimulation and accumulation. In chart terms, the Yunnan-Guizhou Plateau is shaped like a trapezoid. [yibot original compilation]

The woman has reached a certain level of arousal, and is a little dazed. [yibot original compilation] Being too dazed isn't good either, because when a woman is dazed, she won't know who is kissing her. A light bite can wake her from her dazed state, allowing her to accept your continued stimulation in a semi-conscious state, which will make her sexual arousal come faster and accumulate more. This technique should be used repeatedly when licking a woman's vulva, but don't do it too frequently, or you might get kicked off the bed. Hey! Be careful when biting, the vulva is very tender. When
you lightly bite your partner's vulva, she will definitely let out a startled "Ah!" and her body will twitch. Before she can speak, quickly press your lips to her vulva. This will make the woman feel very warm and comfortable, and the "Ah!" will turn into a soft "Oh!" before it's even finished. This gives the woman a feeling of wanting to curse but not being able to, wanting to scream but not daring to, which is quite fun.

After gently biting a woman's vulva, quickly cover it with your lips. This will give her a warm and comfortable feeling. Now it's time to act. You should gently use your thumb to spread her vulva apart, exposing the opening. Use your tongue to circle around it, sometimes pressing firmly, sometimes pressing your entire lips against it.
At this point, the woman should be telling herself, "It's almost there, almost there, hurry, hurry and take it in." No matter what she says or pulls at you, just don't kiss her vulva. When you're almost there, gently touch it with the tip of your tongue, the lighter the better, just a light sweep (your tongue should have a little saliva on it). This will drive her crazy with anticipation, and her anticipation will naturally excite her! [yibot original compilation]
Men with long tongues can try inserting their tongues into their partner's vulva and stirring them around. Stir them however you want, as long as you can get it moving. Women often enjoy this move, but men should be careful with the back of their tongues; sticking it out too far can cause injury. While a man with a thick tongue can only insert a small portion, he can curl his tongue to insert it, and although the insertion is small, it can make his partner feel very full. Furthermore, the sensation of a thick tongue sweeping upwards from the vulva is something a man with a thin tongue cannot provide. A man with a thin tongue can use the tip of his tongue to gently tease the vulva, which is also very pleasurable; each has its own merits. It's a misconception that this alone can bring a woman to orgasm! [yibot original compilation] A woman's clitoris is very sensitive. If you lick it too forcefully, her pain will outweigh her pleasure, which is pointless.
When kissing the vulva, keep a few things in mind: the tongue must be wet, light, and pointed, and it must be kept moist (the water prepared in Chapter 1 will now come in handy). At this point, you need to understand the woman's reactions, because she is already very engaged and excited. You can feel her vulva throbbing slightly, which is very noticeable when you are holding her vulva. Don't interrupt her sensations abruptly; the movements should be even, because sudden, fast-paced movements can easily bring her to orgasm.

Men always want sex to last longer! [Original compilation by yibot] Delaying ejaculation can make it more comfortable. At this time, women, like men, hope that this exceptionally comfortable feeling will last longer, so you must be considerate of this feeling. Unless your partner strongly requests you to "give" her, or
your tongue becomes numb from kissing for too long, you should not use a fast pace to bring her to orgasm.

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